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    Hiya! I'm really interested to know how and when you lot pop the question "so, would you like a dance?"
    I bet some of you have some hilarious ways of getting round to it?
    In Liverpool where I worked before you didn't really have to hustle the guys all that much, they'd normally just come up and ask for a dance but here in Ibiza they all seem to require 10-15 minutes of solid conversation.
    What is your way of switching from general chit-chat to asking if they'd like to see you naked?
    I tend to try to get the conversation sexually charged before saying it in a seductive way, but sometimes it's hard to get the guy to respond to that.
    So girls, what's your technique?

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    I just wait until the conversation is at its peak. It can be quickly or after talking for a few minutes. Either when he's said something "funny" and I'm laughing or when he's laughing and obviously having a fun time. Don't wait until the conversation dies!! Do it as quickly as you can but making sure he knows you're having a good time with him- so you can be like "Ok, there's no way you're getting away without a dance - lets go!" The guy will rarely say no. If he does you act sad and say "aww, but I'm having so much fun with you (insert his name)! I really want to talk to you more but I've got to go mingle - I'll come check by a bit later if you'd like " Give him a hug or let your hand linger on his leg or shoulder...whatever. Then walk away and be sure to come back if he said ok.

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    pop the question "so, would you like a dance?"

    ^^^ Don't do this!

    Make it a statement. Things like:

    I'm ready to play with you now.
    I want to get you in private now.
    I think you're ready for me now.
    I want to get started!
    Follow me.
    etc.

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    So you gonna let me take my panties off for you or what?
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    "Would you like me to do this song or the next one?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    How long have you been here? So had any time for dances yet? Ok, let's go do /another/ one now!
    I use this one a lot!!!!

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    for me, its all about making them feel like the focus is totally on them. some men want to "get to know you" a little, and they take a little more patience. You'll know when he's ready, just be careful not to ask too soon, or you'll blow it and he'll see you as "just after the money", and that can lose you a customer for good.

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    I walk up to guys, ask them their names, where they are from and then say "let's go have some fun together, name." I hardly EVER hustle anymore. I am bad at smalltalk and the conversation always goes everywhere BUT to dances eventually.
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    I just sit down with them, talk about where they're from/what they do/small talk, flirt like crazy, and when one song passes, say "You ready for a dance now?" *nod nod wink wink*

    IME the longer you sit there talking, the more your "value" & sex appeal goes down. If you demand something from them right away, they start to think you're a big shot and want more from you.

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    I agree with bringonthemen I always ask how long they've been there. if it's under an hour 9 times out of 10 they're not "ready" for a dance yet so I ask if they'd like me to come back once they're settled. you gotta feel it out though. does he seem ready? is he into you? look for verbal cues. if his body language is directed towards you then it's a good time.

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    What usually works for me is "come with me ..satisfaction guaranteed . " but say it in there ear while you have one leg inbetween theirs and one hand on his chest playing with his shirt button. works like a charm ! even thow nothing "dirty" is going to happen you give the illusion that something is and you cant get in trouble because all your promising is them having fun.

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    I usually make myself available before straight up asking for a dance.

    "Hey, how are you? What's your name? Having fun yet? Great, I'll let you get comfortable, but if you need anything at all you just let me know!"

    Sometimes, I wait for a prompt.

    "Hey Daisy, I loved seeing you on stage!"
    "Thanks sweetie! Wanna see me up close?"

    I scope out newbies, too.

    "Have you been here before?"
    "Nope, first time."
    "Well, I'd be HONORED to take your lap dance virginity!"

    For just asking flat-out:

    "Why don't we get away from this crowd, somewhere more private?"
    "I'm glad you're having fun... why don't we go make things even MORE fun?"

    For "maybe laters":

    "Let me know when you think you can handle me."

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    I never say 'would you like a dance?' I don't bother with small talk, I go straight in with:

    - how come you guys aren't in the laproom feeling my boobies?!
    - let's go get me naked and have some funn
    - I think you should come get my top off and have some playtime!
    - are you a lapdance virgin? I wanna pop your cherry
    - I have the biggest boobies here, and I give the best lapdance here, so let's go play with them in the laproom!
    - I think you should come see my clit peircings in private, let's go play...

    Etc etc. These can be interchanged at random one after the other, and mixed in with 'me and candy will swap halfway so you get TWO sets of boobies for the price of one!' and 'we take credit card' these are nearly always sucessful

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    I sooo read this as "pooping the question." oooops

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    I'm still working on this but, I had some success yesterday. I found it easiest to ask the custie if he wanted a dance while he complimented me. He was going on and on about how gorgeous I am, so I said, "well I'd hate for you to leave without having some real fun with me! Let's dance!" That went over pretty well with very little further encouragement.
    If a guy says she doesn't want one now, don't keep pushing it too much. Wait a few minutes at least and ask again if the convo is going over well and he seems more interested. One guy was sitting alone at the bar just looking around. I knew he must have been waiting for someone and decided to vulture my way in (I know this sounds bitchy, but I guess everyone is broke and has their rent due today because EVERY FUCKING DANCER decided to come in yesterday, so there was like 5 girls for every guy in my damn club, no reason a guy should be waiting for a LD)... so anyways I went ahead and asked him pretty quickly, he of course told me he was waiting on someone and I said I'd like to keep him company until she came around. Few minutes later, I say, "you know, there are at least 5 girls for every customer in this club, I just don't see why you're still waiting when you've got such a lovely gal in front of you who is actually waiting on you!" And off we went to do a dance.
    I got three LDs by going up to guys who were just sitting alone, waiting to be asked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lokikola View Post
    I got three LDs by going up to guys who were just sitting alone, waiting to be asked.
    I am meaning no offence, every girl has different techniques, but seriously, it isn't like a hustling technique or skill or something to be talking to guys sitting by themselves!

    They obviously didnt come to a strip club by themselves for the overpriced drinks. They're there for a dance, and if I were you I wouldn't even be making chit chat. Normally if I talk to a guy sitting by himself it goes something like this:

    Heyy how come you're all by yourself?? Where's all your friends ??

    And he says either: 'they're in the lap room and I'm waiting for them' (which gives you a segway to say 'you need to be in there having fun too! You're missing out on my boobies while they're busy playing! Let's go')

    Or 'oh, I'm just by myself, I just came for a drink to relax/have fun/unwind' ( and then you say 'oh you know where is relaxing..? The laproom. Lets go play and relax with me naked on your lap..)

    Combine this with one hand caressing your boobs and the other rubbing up his leg gently and seriously, he will get the dance. Always having body contact is key. And guys sitting alone are just ASKING for you to hustle them into the laproom.

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