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    Hey all -

    I have a lot of nights (as I'm sure you do) where customers will shout things at you on the stage. Whether it's "turn around, let me see that ass" or "take those panties off - let me see that pussy" If their talking about taking clothes off...I do it when I want and am always like "patience!" said seductively with a little wink. When they are adamant and very obnoxious....how do you handle it? I just try to ignore, smile and do what I would be doing anyway. How dare they try to tell me what to do - I'm the boss damn it!! lol. Any thoughts are appreciated...including your worst custie comment stories if you wish Thanks ladies!!

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    Are these people coming up to the stage? Are they giving you money? These customers are the biggest waste of time ever.

    When someone tries to get me to "work for that dollar," I'm on the other side of the stage so fast. Most of the time i leave and say nothing, just leave the guy standing there with his dollar. If his friends are laughing at him I might make one of my favorite comments, "He needs that dollar way more than I do."

    When people near the stage are being rude most of the time there is one nice person who comes up to the stage with at least a dollar. I will say something cute like, "I'm so glad you came up here to hang out with me." I will then chat with this customer for the remainder of the song. In my club thankfully the management could care less about your stage show.

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    I personally have never had to deal with customers that were out of line. I know that I have had men come up to me and make me work for just their measely dollar, and I have heard men call other girls fat, but never to me. Not to my face at least! LOL I would not care either way. They don't really bother me. Cat calls and men acting as if they're the shit and are kings in strip clubs are usually the norm...just let it go. Unless he's paying you for it, ignore it. Don't argue back. When you fight back you lose your power. Unless he is saying something REALLY out of line and offensive, then just ignore it. The really out of line and offensive shit needs to be told to a manager or bouncer.
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    Unless these guys are coming to the stage and giving you money, ignore them completely. Find some guy in the crowd who isn't yelling like an ass and make eye contact with him and smile while you dance for him - not the jerkoffs. Hopefully, he'll come up and tip you. I never "work for the dollar" unless it's a benign request like "can I see the ass instead of the boobs?" AS they are giving me money.

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    "what will you do for this dollar?" nothing
    "shake that ass" *ignore*

    the fun thing about these types of guys is that some of them are just pathetic losers, but the others are pathetic losers that get a total boner when you treat them like the pathetic losers they are, and will then give you a 20 for having too much dignity to kiss their ass. if you treat these demanding types the same way each time, at worst you'll break even.
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    Have had many times shouted at me "Take it off!"
    My response "I know- its my only real responsibility as a stripper, duh"
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    Default Re: Customer Comments on Stage - How to handle.

    Ill say something like "It's a tease. So im gonna tease YOU now" then giggle, smile, and wink.

    If they say something around Work for that Dollar, Ill ignore them. I don't need a dollar THAT bad
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    Default Re: Customer Comments on Stage - How to handle.

    You jump off stage and ask if they've had too much to drink and ask if they need assistance from one of the managers because they are interrupting the show.

    I've kept my clothes on for guys like that and told them "Please don't tell me how to do my job. I'm an adult but thanks for your input and thanks for coming in".




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    In this situation I just say "Shut up bitch" get the money off their hands and keep doing my thing. They just love to be treated that way, it's like they ask for it!

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    ignore. ignore. ignore.
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    This happened to me last night, customer comes up to the stage, says he wants a lapdance and holds up $2, I laugh and walk away, then he yells OK OK $4 thats it and throws it on the tiprail, I laugh again, take the money and walk away. It was funny cause he was standing there with a wtf look before finally getting the point and going away, dude your $4 ain't much money get real now.

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    I don't say anything. I do my dance and act normal. guys say shit like that to piss you off.

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    IGNORE, it's your show, not theirs. I especially hate instructions during lap dances, whatever they tell me to do, I dont do! As for "working for that dollar", I dont, I walk off.

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