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    I get asked for extras a couple of times of week. I have heard that I am lucky to get that bothersome question only a couple of times per week.

    But I was shocked to hear one dancer has been only asked once for extras in 2 years of dancing. I asked for her secret. But she said that she did not have one.

    Any suggestions on getting fewer requests for extras?

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    Default Re: Not getting asked for EXTRAs

    Hold yourself in a way that they'd be too damned shy/in awe to ask.

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    Default Re: Not getting asked for EXTRAs

    Ive never been asked, but I have been told I look very intimidating, may have something to do with it.

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    Default Re: Not getting asked for EXTRAs

    my first month dancing I got asked for extras on a daily basis. now I get asked once in a blue moon. not sure why

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    In Spain when there were prostitutes readily available outside the club but not in, I only ever got asked 'can I touch?' which I see as a fair question regarding rules and limits.

    In France in the clubs I've worked with a more international clientele I've been asked many times if I would go back to a hotel room, and if they could touch. I think a handful of times I've been asked if anything more than dancing is available, but not as a personal question.

    In Norway they knew they couldn't touch, and only ever asked if they could take me for dinner or offered to show me around the city (which I honestly believe was with good intentions). I love Norwegians.

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    Default Re: Not getting asked for EXTRAs

    What The Contessa said.

    Especially if they do end up asking the answer is NO.




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    Well Ive been told I have a classy look and I hardly get asked for extras. It may depend on how you are with them. I run through my 5 rules before i start the dance and I tell them that if they break any rules then I stop the dance. I think they know Im not gonna take it. But it can also just depend on the club clientele.

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    Default Re: Not getting asked for EXTRAs

    I don't get asked for extras often at my home club. If I do I've noticed it's by foreigners when speaking eloquently means nothing because they can't understand you.

    Another time I am propositioned is by young men during a quick hustle (my usual routine) because they haven't heard me speaking.

    When I have a one or two song conversation with them and am speaking firmly, articulately, and making eye contact I haven't ever been propositioned. I find some solace in that.
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    My answer to this is a mix of what The Contessa, BOTM, Katja1, & Laurisa said. It's pretty rare that I get propositioned for things. I try to work at clubs where I know customers propositioning entertainers is taken as a serious offense by management. I also try to present myself as a lady, I'm very proper & for most men that doesn't go hand-in-hand with they type of girl they would expect to be able to get extras from... sure it might be a stereotype, but if playing the "lady" card works then go with it! I do walk away & report propositions to management, I don't waste my time. Its really hard for me to even think of when I was positioned recently, but I can tell you that it has often been by foreigners from a variety of countries including a veterinarian from Spain. Anyhow, it's all in presentation, where you work, & HOW you handle the situations.
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    When I figured out why the bouncers at the Landing Strip were carrying black lights and lysol wipes I thought that was a dead give away too.
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    Default Re: Not getting asked for EXTRAs

    I don't get asked for extras a lot, some of the other girls do. I guess it's the way you look/present yourself. I'm more of a pretty girl than a sexy one, and I never look "cheap" or slutty and I speak well.. in my opinion anyways. A friend of mine gets asked for extras all the time, and I think it's her image. One time I was sitting with a customer, and he pointed her out and said "she looks like she does extras". Guys just make a lot of assumptions about a dancer by the way she looks.

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    I never get asked for the "usual" stuff. I have had customers ask me to go back to their hotel rooms and give them "rectal" exams wearing my naughty nurse outfit, fuck them in the ass with a dildo, insert my stiletto heel in their anus, shit on them, piss on them, ask if they could jerk off in a cup and drink it in front of me, but maybe once in a blue moon will I get propositioned for "normal" extras.

    Maybe it's the way I look LOL.
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    Default Re: Not getting asked for EXTRAs

    @tempest666 - If you're doing the Goth/Punk/Alternative look then that's probably why you're attracting more of the sado/fetish guys than those who are more into the 'girl-next-door' type of looks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MiaStarr View Post
    @tempest666 - If you're doing the Goth/Punk/Alternative look then that's probably why you're attracting more of the sado/fetish guys than those who are more into the 'girl-next-door' type of looks.
    LOL yeah sometimes I wonder what it's like to be asked for "normal" extras. usually when I get asked for a HJ I'm shocked. My reply is "Sorry I don't do that"
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    Quote Originally Posted by MiaStarr View Post
    I have to admit the "extras" is an issue that is stopping me from getting my ass to SC's to audition. The laws here in AZ (Phoenix) are quite strict. I want to dance at a club where management does not turn a blind eye to "extras", tolerate drug use, etc. Maybe I'm over thinking it, or over cautious.

    When I go for an audition should I just outright ask what the policy is on these issues? Any advice?
    Most aren't going to honestly tell you. If you notice a dancer on this site who is very direct about being a clean dancer & she works near you, I'd ask her for details. Otherwise, you simply work the clubs & report problems to management, & if they don't remove the customer or speak to them about the issue, try a different club.
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    Default Re: Not getting asked for EXTRAs

    Regular customers at my club will spread the word about who is "naughty" and who is not. They are not always correct, but this doesn't stop them from spreading rumors. The customers that think you will do 'extras' will usually ask.

    I like the Contessa's response!!

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