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    I have two different guys telling me they love me and want me pregnant by them (though I have a boyfriend.)

    One is a childhood friend who I actually never had sex with and has been bugging me for years about it, and another I casually dated...both send me text constantly even when I don't answer, they facebook me and etc obsessing over how much they love me and want a family with me.

    Or how about those guys who ejaculate in girls? I hear my guys friends talk about it.

    Now what the fuck is up with that??? I've heard else where how guys want to get girls pregnant, though not married, in love or even in a relationship? Why do some guys insist on getting someone pregnant? Its almost as if they think having a baby is not as serious as it actually is.

    I know this happend to one of you so tell me!

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    Default Re: Um, why??

    fetish for cream pies? Another porn sub-set.

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    Default Re: Um, why??

    guys are genetically wired to spread their seed. some realize that it's a lifelong responsibility and repress the urge. others don't.

    most women start to want children at a certain age. *shrug* it's not really THAT weird.

    start dating men who are more responsible

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    Why do some guys insist on getting someone pregnant?
    sounds like some doods just want to prove their fertility/'masculinity'.
    sounds like a typical gangbanger type thing to do.

    yeah, these are not the type of people you want to populate the earth with.
    I wish I knew what I was doing...

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    I know of these bottom feeder types and to them it's a point of "manhood" to get as many girls pregnant as possible. I believe it's a gang type of thing as well. I avoid scum like this. However, years ago I had a boyfriend who wanted to get me pregnant because he was severely baby obsessed. I stupidly had sex without protection but luckily no baby. Years later he now has 4 babies and been married twice.

    Maybe I'm old fashioned but I would love a man I am married or engaged to say this. That's a little different.

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    you guys are so right

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    One ex told me he wanted to get me pregnant. Freaked me out so bad I dumped him! Didnt wanna propose, or even move in together, although we had been together forever, just wanted to knock me up. he already had a daughter he neglected to mention for several months, so of course I declined. Some men are just weird and even my ex hubby mentioned what a turn on tryin was.
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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    I've had a couple of relationships with guys in the past where as soon as I started to realize I wanted to end things, they would start going out of their way to bring up having kids...even though these were guys who had previously said they never wanted children. I suspect one of my exes even put holes in the condoms I had in my nightstand around the time I finally broke things off for good...I sure as hell don't know who else would have wanted to do it. I always found it super creepy and it just made me more determined to leave. Men run their mouths constantly about how women get pregnant on purpose to "trap" them...me, I guess I'm just super selfish in that I don't really see any guy as being worth enough to me for me to get knocked up on purpose, go through nine months of hell, followed by the excruciating pain of labor, risk ruining my body, then have a screaming money-draining brat attached to me for 18+ years...especially when the guy didn't actually want to be with me in the first place. But on the other hand, I have seen TONS of guys mess with their gf's birth control, condoms, etc., in an attempt to "fix" a relationship that's gone bad, or prevent the girl from leaving. Makes me wonder how many of the guys who bitch about getting "trapped" by their girl actually sabotaged her birth control themselves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    I've had a couple of relationships with guys in the past where as soon as I started to realize I wanted to end things, they would start going out of their way to bring up having kids...even though these were guys who had previously said they never wanted children. I suspect one of my exes even put holes in the condoms I had in my nightstand around the time I finally broke things off for good...I sure as hell don't know who else would have wanted to do it. I always found it super creepy and it just made me more determined to leave. Men run their mouths constantly about how women get pregnant on purpose to "trap" them...me, I guess I'm just super selfish in that I don't really see any guy as being worth enough to me for me to get knocked up on purpose, go through nine months of hell, followed by the excruciating pain of labor, risk ruining my body, then have a screaming money-draining brat attached to me for 18+ years...especially when the guy didn't actually want to be with me in the first place. But on the other hand, I have seen TONS of guys mess with their gf's birth control, condoms, etc., in an attempt to "fix" a relationship that's gone bad, or prevent the girl from leaving. Makes me wonder how many of the guys who bitch about getting "trapped" by their girl actually sabotaged her birth control themselves.
    My exbest friend got trapped by a man. He told her he had a vasectomy and she ended up pregnant. He did it to control her and it scared me that things like this happened. Yes I know women who did it to trap a man but far more men who have done it (or attempted).

    I've said it before but while I am open to the idea of kids, I will not have any unless I love the man and I don't get stuck doing all the work. I've known a few men who wanted to be dads but when the baby arrived they stuck all the work on mom. That would not work for me and I would become extremely resentful of both him and the baby. I figure since I would be giving up months ruining my body and painful labor and delivery the least he can do is half the diaper changes and feedings. Because of this I always laughed when a man accused me of this.

    Not to mention that an unexpected pregnancy means he'll even stick around. I've known a few guys who abandon girls.

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