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    Sad Ladies I need your help :(

    ok, I am aware that this is a very weird thing to do but i am truly desperate. I had some health problems (down there) that kept me from working 2 full weeks and now it seems i reached a new level of low...my rent was due yesterday, i woke up today to see that my gas was cut off and is only a matter of days till my electricity will go to the same path. i start work today ( i couldn`t earlier coz i was on my period for 2 friggin weeks) and it will take some time till i get payed. i know that is highly unorthodox to ask strangers for help, but as i said, i am desperate. if anyone here wishes to chip in my paypal email is [email protected] and i promise i will try and pay back every single cent . every penny is welcomed and thank you in advance...

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    ask PrincessJenny if you can get on daily pay with AW (quickest start up), MFC and SM to try to get that electricity bill paid tomorrow and take it from there. Call them in the meantime - just let them know that it will be a few more days - these people are usually nicer than you expect. You could, if PrincessJenny can pop you on daily pay, have a couple hundred dollars in your account if you work decent hours 24 hours after the sites approval. That's going to be a lot quicker than waiting for your paycheck.

    While you are waiting for approval on the above, sign up right now with MyGirlFund - you can cash out as soon as you hit minimum (which is low) so you can do shows and sales there and have the money in your pocket straight away (approval is quick there if you email the guy - instructions provided on the site).

    In future, don't let periods stop you working! Use an instead softcup or a seasponge or even just hide the string on the tampon (not as good as the other two options).

    Good luck! xx
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    Default Re: Ladies I need your help :(

    it wasn`t just about my period, i had awful pains and the bleeding was close to hemorrhaging..it was pretty bad, so i really couldn`t work ..i will ask princess jenny about daily pay...tried to search aw about it but couldn`t find anything. do i need payoneer? i don`t have one god, im an alien...i have no idea how it works...
    managed to borrow half of the rent sum, waiting for a call for the rest now..im still worried about the gas and the electric...gawd!!

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    oh great, mygirlfund is not available for my country..jeez, is it 13th today or what?

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    In your country do you have help resources to help with the electricity? If not, can you call them and ask for a payment arrangement? Will they accept a smaller amount than what is due? What about rent? How long can you go before an eviction notice? Can you talk to your landlord and let them know you will have the rent, but will be paying late, and pay a late fee? Or does it not work like that where you come from? I know each country is different. I have until the 7th of each month to pay rent. After that I have a late fee of $50 that must be paid along with rent, by the 15th. After the 15th would be an eviction process, but I STILL would have time to pay. Not that I want to be that late but if I had to, I could do it. Does your system also work like that? If so, then TALK to the landlord and a rep at the electric company and see if you can have maybe 7 to 10 days to pay.

    As someone already mentioned, you can get in contact with princessjenny for daily pay. See if she has any openings.
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    Default Re: Ladies I need your help :(

    Get with SupportMyWish to see if they can help....You can sell videos and such there - good for passive income.

    Otherwise - get on Daily Pay with Princess Jenny for AdultWork, Streamate, and MFC.

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    You can find our support thread there...

    I hope all gets better for you...I am in the same position you are with with waiting to be pain my disability. I won the shit - but I have to wait a month for it to kick in. My car is facing repo, my utils are going into shut off and I am pulling all resources...

    If you want - I could check some charities where you are to see if you can get some help and more so, help you get some help to get you through...every country has places that help like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    In your country do you have help resources to help with the electricity? If not, can you call them and ask for a payment arrangement? Will they accept a smaller amount than what is due? What about rent? How long can you go before an eviction notice? Can you talk to your landlord and let them know you will have the rent, but will be paying late, and pay a late fee? Or does it not work like that where you come from? I know each country is different. I have until the 7th of each month to pay rent. After that I have a late fee of $50 that must be paid along with rent, by the 15th. After the 15th would be an eviction process, but I STILL would have time to pay. Not that I want to be that late but if I had to, I could do it. Does your system also work like that? If so, then TALK to the landlord and a rep at the electric company and see if you can have maybe 7 to 10 days to pay.

    As someone already mentioned, you can get in contact with princessjenny for daily pay. See if she has any openings.
    If anyone in the US - you know how this goes....I know the public welfare system and the financial aid system for college better than any of my friends because all I ever had was ME to depend on. However, I do know that in PA where I am from - I deal with Duquesne Light and Columbia Gas - right now it is what they call "shut off" season. Reason being is because our public assistance months for home heating is November through April - and no one can get anything shut off if they qualify for assistance and they apply for it. After April - people will let their utilities get shut off because they can manage until winter hits and get back on the assistance and then get it turned back on...but the kicker is - these companies in the shut off season will turn you off for $50 or less. Last week - they threatened to turn me off gas wise for $35. Yeah $35! I take advantage of the assistance of course when I need it - but I don't let things get turned off - because you figure you have the actual bill, the security deposit and a late fee to turn it back on after. So while your bill may be $35, it will cost you almost $200 to get it turned back on - THAT'S what pisses me OFF. They will usually give you ONE extension per year to pay your bill and that's it.

    Right now - I am a month behind on my rent but I had to tell my landlord what the deal was but it's not like the money isn't coming either. DO NOT BE EMBARRASSED to try to talk to your landlord or your creditors or utilities companies - the worse they can do is say no...but there is usually some type of public assistance available to everyone these days. Rent wise - it takes 4 months to get evicted here in PA....and I know by the time my landlord would even think about it - I could pay her..

    I feel for everyone having problems right now...and I wish there was more help for everyone - it sucks because since we are all technically "self-employed" we feel the pinch more than anyone else...

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    unfortunately, talking and begging doesn`t go anywhere here..i managed to pay my rent...well, i borrowed from 2 friends and i payed. right now i am waiting an answer from princess jenny about the daily pay..started working an hour ago and had 2 privates already (yay). can anyone here tell me how daily pay works? as i said before, i tried searching aw but i couldn`t find anything about it
    thank u ladies for all ur support, seems that things are starting to slowly pick up. i was freaking out badly coz of the rent. i was homeless before, i don`t wanna go there again...we`ll just wait and see..

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    Hey Kitana, Im sorry to hear you struggling at all. You too OP and anyone else on here. I been there so I know it can be tough. Getting shut off for $35 is ridiculous! I know resources are low due to the bad economy, and I think this has been posted before, and some of you probably already know this. You can call 211 from your phone. It's the United Way help line, and they can check your area to see if any money is available to help you out.

    and I know people have also posted these stores before but you can buy groceries cheap at Aldis. And www.angelfoodministries.com I know this does not exist everywhere, but it's worth a try.

    For those of you who are sometimes not well enough to get on cam, consider doing phone sex and looking here for more vanilla work www.workplacelikehome.com again this has been posted before as well, but worth mentioning again.
    Taking a break from all unproductive shit will prove to be the best choice you can make.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    Hey Kitana, Im sorry to hear you struggling at all. You too OP and anyone else on here. I been there so I know it can be tough. Getting shut off for $35 is ridiculous! I know resources are low due to the bad economy, and I think this has been posted before, and some of you probably already know this. You can call 211 from your phone. It's the United Way help line, and they can check your area to see if any money is available to help you out.

    and I know people have also posted these stores before but you can buy groceries cheap at Aldis. And I know this does not exist everywhere, but it's worth a try.

    For those of you who are sometimes not well enough to get on cam, consider doing phone sex and looking here for more vanilla work again this has been posted before as well, but worth mentioning again.
    Yeahhhhh..that 211 number isn't for my area - I have already tried. LOL.

    I will check out the Angel link though!

    It's just the nature of the beast that's all. I always manage to get by - that's why we are tough cookies.

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    I hear ya. One thing I can really do is hustle and make something out of nothing! That sucks you don't have the 211 help line! I know you all will make it.

    Kinky I'm so happy to hear you got your rent money together! I hope you all stay well and can work hard to get that money stacked. I have to get back to work now. Y'all take care! Much money vibes $$$

    Oh and Kitana definitely look into angelfoodministries. They do have good quality food, and it is cheap. you just have to order by the deadline, which in most places is by around the 15th of every month. I have not ordered from there in a while, but I am about to start doing it again, because food is expensive!
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    I was just in this boat. We had to sell a lot of movies/cds/books to just barely make rent this month. Just got work extra hard this week, it's doable

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    Default Re: Ladies I need your help :(

    I know the pill will sometimes stop your periods as well. Especially if you have periods lasting that long sounds like possible a hormonal imbalance (im no doctor tho), but I know doctors sometimes perscribe the pill for that. I dont think my sis gets any periods or very rare from the pill.

    N OMG I totally feel you! I had a cold all day yesterday (1 friggin day) and I was a lil 'pressed over that, just when I made the decision to put in more hours! I was so motivated like 2 days ago. So, now I plan to work at least by Wed and all thru the weekend. Gee whiz cakes.

    Also, I dont know you personally, but keeping a sugardaddy or 2 in your back pocket helps as well. It's always good to have more than 1 hustle. You look sexy, so you may as well have guys in your personal life give you money. Their cash you can always add to your pot! lol.
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    I get the depo show and it completely stops my period, it's super nice not trying to hide it. You should look into the options in your area.

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    Default Re: Ladies I need your help :(

    Kinky I am not sure where you are from but for the UK: http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/index.htm has a lot of resources for help, even if you aren't already getting assistance.. says this on site:
    "All fuel suppliers (electricity and gas) follow a code of practice that means they won't cut off your supply if you agree a payment plan with them and then keep to it. You'll need to ask your supplier for their code of practice details. They should take into account your ability to pay - complain to Consumer Direct if they don't - see 'What to do if you have problems dealing with your fuel supplier' below."

    I hope everything works out.. *hugs*

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    ok, i pulled my shit together and i had a really good day/night on aw...unfortunately i`m not eligible for daily pay (doh) but seems that things are starting to pick up. sorted the electric too - thank god for friends, but i`m out of gas and hot water for another week..oh well...
    for anybody that is asking, im romanian...so sadly all the websites u guys gave me are useless...romania is crap at that. u don`t pay, they cut it. end of story. but i must say that i appreciate all your replies and advices and i thank u all kindly for ur support

    hugs
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    ah, Ok, I might spoil this thread with my "rudeness" but..
    what have u been doing to better yourself BEFORE these 2 weeks when u could not work..
    Most of our failures are because of US and US only..
    If u cant do cam shows for a period of time, do something else!
    Get a part time job, or get a full time job and cam as a 2nd job..
    Being successful in life is hard work. and this is the main reason why not many do it..
    U have 2 hands and 2 legs, u can find work.
    Can you spell " laziness "?
    people go threw natural disasters, like floods and stuff, those need help..
    but some people prefer to sit down and watch TV all day long and then cry their bills are due.. are u kidding me?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    ah, Ok, I might spoil this thread with my "rudeness" but..
    what have u been doing to better yourself BEFORE these 2 weeks when u could not work..
    Most of our failures are because of US and US only..
    If u cant do cam shows for a period of time, do something else!
    Get a part time job, or get a full time job and cam as a 2nd job..
    Being successful in life is hard work. and this is the main reason why not many do it..
    U have 2 hands and 2 legs, u can find work.
    Can you spell " laziness "?
    people go threw natural disasters, like floods and stuff, those need help..
    but some people prefer to sit down and watch TV all day long and then cry their bills are due.. are u kidding me?
    I'm noticing a discrepancy between this comment and the rest in this thread, what with the 'spoiling'. Not everyone lives under the same circumstances, and it doesn't take a natural disaster to knock anyone off their feet. This forum is for support with some tough love, not criticism and accusations.

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    Hi Kinky. I don't know how much help this will be, but I've used Amazon's Mechanical Turk for a very long time. Basically you do a bunch of small tasks like proofreading or typing the content of business cards for .10-1.00. The more hits you accomplish, the more you can make. The pay fucking blows, but after putting in a couple hours per day I would have an extra $50 or so a week. I even do this when I having down time on cam. Every bit helps, and that could potentially cover the cost of utilities. Here is the website for more info:https://www.mturk.com/mturk/welcome

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    ah, Ok, I might spoil this thread with my "rudeness" but..
    what have u been doing to better yourself BEFORE these 2 weeks when u could not work..
    Most of our failures are because of US and US only..
    If u cant do cam shows for a period of time, do something else!
    Get a part time job, or get a full time job and cam as a 2nd job..
    Being successful in life is hard work. and this is the main reason why not many do it..
    U have 2 hands and 2 legs, u can find work.
    Can you spell " laziness "?
    people go threw natural disasters, like floods and stuff, those need help..
    but some people prefer to sit down and watch TV all day long and then cry their bills are due.. are u kidding me?

    i`m retired coz of my illness - doesn`t matter what that is - but i can`t get a "normal" job even if i want to, thank u very much. i`m not gonna start a drama now coz this in not the place but you dont know me, so please, dont act like u do, ok?
    ps: i dont even own a tv ..just saying..

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    Kinky,
    ignore the ignorance..

    im happy that u got ur situation in control though!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by blkschoolgirl View Post
    I'm noticing a discrepancy between this comment and the rest in this thread, what with the 'spoiling'. Not everyone lives under the same circumstances, and it doesn't take a natural disaster to knock anyone off their feet. This forum is for support with some tough love, not criticism and accusations.
    Criticism is tough love or so I see it...

    can u tell me what would happen to this world if everybody who has some kind of health problem or goes threw hard times would start begging for free money?

    I have a cramp in my leg right now. can u give me $10 please?
    I need money for food and I dont feel like working today.....

    I see people over the age of 65 working everyday, standing up at a cash register..
    They need money too and they are not begging for it..Im pretty sure their legs hurt, their backs hurt, they have arthritis, eyes problems and who know what else but they work. I see handicapped people working everyday. As long as U can move your hands, u can find work.
    farmers work the land till they are die. Isnt that hard? Yes it is.
    People commute to work every day. More then 1 hour drive back and forth. isnt that hard? Yes it is...

    this girl does not have a TV, but she has internet AND a payment processor? LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    Criticism is tough love or so I see it...

    can u tell me what would happen to this world if everybody who has some kind of health problem or goes threw hard times would start begging for free money?

    I have a cramp in my leg right now. can u give me $10 please?
    I need money for food and I dont feel like working today.....

    I see people over the age of 65 working everyday, standing up at a cash register..
    They need money too and they are not begging for it..Im pretty sure their legs hurt, their backs hurt, they have arthritis, eyes problems and who know what else but they work. I see handicapped people working everyday. As long as U can move your hands, u can find work.
    farmers work the land till they are die. Isnt that hard? Yes it is.
    People commute to work every day. More then 1 hour drive back and forth. isnt that hard? Yes it is...

    this girl does not have a TV, but she has internet AND a payment processor? LOL

    Please be a bitch on your own time!!!

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    Tough love is always good. and a lot of us can use some of that, including myself. But Kinky did NOT come here to be kicked while down. She came here for support from her fellow models.

    Furthermore, everyone is not fortunate enough to live in countries like America where they can just go get a job at Walmart, Mcdonalds, CVS, or the Dollar store, a call center etc if they HAD to go out and get a "real" Job.

    Also there are a lot of girls here who do not only work at home on cam. There are a lot of girls here who have a regular vanilla job, in school, AND cam, but for whatever reason are not making ends meet.
    Taking a break from all unproductive shit will prove to be the best choice you can make.

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    Monday, May 30, 2011
    After a long and painful consideration (main reason for this being the fact that I`m a lazy cow) i decided that I should extend my time of being live on cam
    Monday, June 20, 2011
    Ah sweet laziness...
    So I`m back from almost a week`s pause. Been on my period (eeek!), took a day`s trip to see my sister (and spent a ton of cash I might add)

    from the OP's blog...
    BAM! lol

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