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    So basically, I moved to my town about 10 years ago now as a kid, and Nat was one of the first girls I became friends with.

    All through high school we were really, really close friends. Not "best friends" but everyone would always say how we were so alike and she was really amazing. Then she moved to a different college and I never really heard back from her. She recently got back in touch and she came to my 20th birthday a few weeks back and we've done loads of catching up. I thought she looked so different like a glamour model of something but thought nothing of it and it was fantastic seeing her.

    Then the other day when we were catching up online she said she had something to tell me, she was a stripper and no-one else at all knew. I thought that was amazing, really. I love girls who are liberal and I'd considered doing topless modelling but never really thought about stripping because honestly I presumed it was too dangerous.

    Anyway she was thrilled to find a friend who not only didn't judge her but is totally proud, she's invited me to go to work with her because she said they don't have a dancer with my style and she thinks it would be great fun. She lives a while away but apparently girls come and go and as long as I pay the club the usual percentage they shouldn't mind me having a go.

    So this MAHOOSIVE post was basically just to ask if any of you got into this in a similar way, and if you'd say it positively/negatively affected your experience and let me know if there are any faux pas that will embarrass her when I go along?


    Also I was thinking my name could be Bee. It's my actual nickname and I have a Bee tattoo just under my chest so if anyone can't understand what I'm saying I just point to it right? Haha.

    Also hi *waves*

    I seriously need money cos I'm worried I might get kicked out, but I'm not expecting much cos I have zero skill so whatever

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    Default Re: Recruited by a Friend? Total Newbie.

    If you're interested in dancing, by all means, give it a go. I got into dancing when a friend of mine--lol1337a, in fact--did amateur night at the local club, won, and started working there. I'd always wanted to do it, but I didn't have the guts to start all on my own, without having a clue what to expect. I think I assumed it would be much more difficult to break into the industry than it was. She convinced me to give it a try. I started working with her a couple of weeks later, and the rest, as they say, is history.

    In some ways, it's a lot easier to start stripping when you have a friend to rely on. You don't feel so lost, and you've got something familiar in an entirely new environment. In other ways, it can be very difficult; when you're working with a friend, especially when you have the whole team mentality, i.e. you get ready for work together, use a pseudo-buddy system, work the same shifts, carpool, etc., you have to deal with a level of the job that other girls don't have. You can start to get competitive. You may have different work ethics that conflict with each other. And if there's any drama with one of you, the other one will automatically be associated with it. Honestly, it took lol1337a and I a bit to sort of gain our own individual identities at the club, as opposed to being labelled as "those two new girls." But you'd have to ask her, she may have found the experience to be a bit different from mine. Lol, she's around here somewhere...

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    Default Re: Recruited by a Friend? Total Newbie.

    As someone who got her friend into dancing, the one thing that sticks out is DON'T screw up and call her by her real name!! My friend would constantly shout my real name at me in front of customers by accident, and at first I was like *sigh* but after a few days it because REALLY annoying. She'd be saying to customers "I started dancing because my friend (real name) works here... oops, I mean (stage name)" and it really pissed me off.

    Oh, and don't cling to her. I know it's scary to be in the club at first and I'm sure she'll be happy to show you the ropes, but after a day or two she'll probably want to go back to her usual hustle and making as much money as she can. My friend automatically presumed we were a double-team once she started and I had to eventually set her straight in that I have always worked best alone and that she probably would too.

    Good luck!!


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