I go by body language, overall vibe, and timing.
He is comfortable but not TOO relaxed. If he's glued to his chair and his drink he will most likely tell you he's "just relaxing" and you won't be able to get him to get up and go do dances or VIP.
He is open and approachable. If he looks like he will bite your head off if you bother him, he probably will or at least dismiss you with a wave of his hand or a curt "no thanks" before you even open your mouth to say hello.
He looks like he's looking for something. Not like he's looking for a specific person, but like he's window shopping for something he might like. If he sees something cute, he'll buy it. Its like when girls go shopping, "This purse is so cute! It costs $500 but I have to get it!" Even if he doesn't know exactly what he wants, you could be the girl that goes up to him and give a great first impression and then you'll grow on him and then he'll find you irresistable and then he'll spend all his cash on you and then he'll pull out his credit card.

He could also be looking around carefully to try and pick out the best girl to make sure that his big money is well spent. If you make eye contact and his eyes linger on you longer than the other dancers, maintain the eye contact and walk toward him..he's all yours!
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