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    Default HELP..Should I leave my sugar daddy??

    Well at first i enjoyed the support but now I feel like I'm being untrue to myself. I want to be able to date freely and most importantly depend on myself. I realize this is not healthy for me to be so reliant on him...

    I'm in a new state and I dont really like it here THAT much. I want to return to my home state but that will mean moving in with my mother, who loves me but is a problem drinker, and having to get a job thru school (oh the horror

    I know some people would say you have a great thing going, ride it out.

    Others will say do what you want.

    I want to look back when I'm 60 and say I'm glad I made x decision..

    but what decision is that

    I think I already know

    How can you NOT miss an allowance tho!!???

    Another problem is academically I'm so focused when I'm away from home. I just got an A in chemistry after being out of college for a few years. I hope I dont lose my motivation if i go back home
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    Default Re: HELP..Should I leave my sugar daddy??

    You have to be true to yourself. It will become increasingly important thru the years. You have to do what makes you feel good about yourself. And this is not always the easy way out.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Default Re: HELP..Should I leave my sugar daddy??

    Will ur sugar daddy still take care of u when u see other men? I have sugar daddies who ive never done anything sexual with. And what I am doing is never discussed bc quite frankly its none of their business. They would come see me at the club, and I would form friendships with them but nothing more and nothing sexual..Not even a kiss on the cheek.

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    Default Re: HELP..Should I leave my sugar daddy??

    Quote Originally Posted by shift_6x View Post
    Will ur sugar daddy still take care of u when u see other men? I have sugar daddies who ive never done anything sexual with. And what I am doing is never discussed bc quite frankly its none of their business. They would come see me at the club, and I would form friendships with them but nothing more and nothing sexual..Not even a kiss on the cheek.
    This is what I was wondering. Personally I've never had a sugardaddy so I may be completely wrong, but I didn't think it was an exclusive thing. I'm pretty sure I've read about a lot of girls having several sugardaddies - and I would think it's none of his business if you see other men. Are you just concerned that you want to find someone to get serious with and you don't think a relationship would work if you had a sugardaddy?

    Depending on your relationship with your sugardaddy, maybe he would still give you an allowance if you moved and just visited him once in awhile, talked to him, sent him pictures or something? I'm not sure how you relate to each other. From what I understand, every sugardaddy relationship is different, so how you roll may not be the way others would. Overall, if you hate where you live and want to move home, I would do what feels best. If money could keep you happy, then you wouldn't hate where you are currently. So to you, it seems, your personal life is more important than the money. And hey, if you found one sugardaddy, who's to say you can't find a new one when you move somewhere else, right?

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    Default Re: HELP..Should I leave my sugar daddy??

    haha right ^.

    I am set to move in two weeks. Our situation was that we were exclusive but we haven't done anything sexual and it just kept looming over me that that is what he will eventually want. I am much happier now that I know I am going. It will be up to me to maintain my academic motivation. Thanks for listening ladies I do hope he sets me up with parting funds...I'll have to work on this.

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    Default Re: HELP..Should I leave my sugar daddy??

    Why is it one thing or another? Why not find a place you'd like to live, might have some potential SDs (or have yours fly you in), and you can focus on school?

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