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    Default Touring Escorts: What I've learned about being on the road all the time

    Here is a list of some things I've learned about touring. It's not exhaustive and I'm sure some won't apply to you, though I hope that ya'll will chime in with what you think is necessary to know but not necessarily common knowledge.

    1. As stated in other threads, Priceline is your friend. I find it easier in larger cities than small, but I can't exactly complain (though I'm paying the same price for a 2 star in a small town right now than I paid for a 4 star last holiday weekend in Dallas. Annoying!) When you can't use Priceline (and for awhile I couldn't because I was traveling with my dog) look up various rewards programs for hotel chains. My favorite thus far has been the Wyndam Rewards card. Free, easy, but it takes something like 8 nights to earn a free night. I liked it because the Days Inn has been good to me in a few cities, is pet friendly, and I could go upscale or downscale to other hotels in the chain depending on my preference or if I was taking a couple of days off on the road (and then I would drop down to the Travelodge since I wasn't hosting anyone.)

    2. When travelling during the summer, buy small packs of condoms. Trust me-- you will forget your condoms in the car, and the 100*+ heat is not good for them. So instead of risking busted condoms, just buy small packs. Sometimes, when I've forgotten condoms in the car that I've JUST GOTTEN (talk about annoying!) I put those in a separate space for work and use those when I need a cover but it's not for FS. I don't do bare anything, so that works for me. For many of you, you'll just toss 'em out. Oh, and also, I used to think condoms came in regular and large. Nope! There's regular, large, extra-large, and now smaller than normal (see my small penis condoms thread)

    3. You will quickly learn to be organized on the road, or else your car trunk is going to look like shit and you're going to have to riffle through it. To avoid this myself, I picked up three small luggage pieces (overnight bags) and every few days when they start to look crazy, I organize my jewelry, my undies, my makeup, and my work stuff. I like packing a work bag with my clothes and such and a personal bag so that I don't have to keep lugging in my luggage every time to the different hotels. I circulate different clothes from my big luggage to my small luggage. When I'm REALLY on top of things, I have my dressy bag, and my casual bag. But anyway this brings me to

    4. You're making more money but you're also spending more money. Look to CVS, Ulta, and thrift stores. Depending on how long you're on the road, you will get sick of your clothes. Blowing $200 at a thrift store (but then again, I found a really nice distribution GoodWill Center so a lot of these clothes were brand name, hardly used, and clean) will likely give you more satisfaction and diversity than spending $200 at the mall.

    5. Breakfast bars. I wish I had one on me last night because that would have helped me avoid going to Ihop, eating unhealthy, and examining what I'm sure is the beginnings of a double-chin and a gut. Partially that's my own paranoia, but my point is-- breakfast bars or something that are cheaper than restaurants, are packaged, doesn't have to be refrigerated, and is as good a week or two from when you bought it as if you ate it the day you bought it. You need to keep healthy snacks around you or else you will likely eat like crap. That being said, have yelp on your phone because at least then you will have interesting crap (I had both a kangaroo burger and a venison burger last week!)

    6. Keep an eye and an ear out for people who can make your life easier. People like this include lawyers, people who work for a cell phone company (who can get you a trak phone under a false name), and heck, maybe even a dentist. It doesn't mean you have to use their services, but if you're in a pinch sometime and you're in their neck of the woods, it's always nice to know a name and have some previous dealings with them.

    7. I don't know about other touring ladies, but after so many weeks on the road staying at hotels, my vagina got REALLY, REALLY angry. I thought it was BV and treated it. Then I thought it was Trich and I treated that. Guess what it was? Hotel toilet paper. That stuff is nasty for repeat use. I actually have to go pick up some nice toilet paper today because my vagina started making disgruntled noises (read: feeling irritated) and it was because I'd been at a friend's house for a week. I don't know what it is about hotel toilet paper since I stay at so many different hotels!

    8. I'm into alternative medicine. That being said, your vagina is going to get irritated. I know mine can't stand KY jelly for one thing. A few things that I think every touring girl should have on hand (and this goes for dancers as well because of the germs we come into contact with) include the following:

    1. Tea Tree oil: Great for butt bumps, spot treatment, BV and trich (when mixed with coconut oil and inserted)
    2. Cold-pressed Virgin Coconut oil: Works as a lotion and a toothpaste in a pinch, helps with vaginal issues (see tea tree oil), or by itself as a sexual lubricant, or to ease irritation and dryness.
    3. D-Mannose: The best thing I've found for UTIs. Works nearly immediately. There was also an interesting study on horses being treated for UTIs while they were trying to breed, and they also found that horses being treated for UTIs didn't get pregnant. I mention this because it's an interesting anecdote. I only use it for UTIs.
    4. Plastic needleless syringe: To insert tea tree oil and coconut oil. I prefer 3/7 tea tree oil to coconut oil ratio.

    *I am not a doctor. I am only writing what works for me. Do your research!

    9. You will eventually get sick of hotels and if you don't want to be like me and get sucked into Plants vs. Zombies or some other video game, have a goal to accomplish like learning a language, writing, reading, or going sightseeing. Yelp.com is also very helpful for seeing what local festivities are occurring near you. If you're on a forum, whether this one or some other one, make friends and try to find people to socialize with outside of the business (or in the business, but what I mean is, not clients during your off-time.)

    10. Ear plugs. Total necessity for being at different hotels with different noise issues.

    11. Have stamps and envelopes so you can take care of bills in the middle of the night (unless everything is attached to your credit card) without having to make it to the post office before they close.

    12. I can't wear fake nails anymore. I love how they look, but I got a ragged edge on one and didn't have a nail file and went into an appointment. That was when I had the damn condom breaking issue (it had a big slice up the side of it when I looked at it.) Finding out I had BBS (even if it was only the last three minutes or so!) with a client after the fact was one of the most demoralizing experiences I've had. It also fucked up my cycle because I had to go on Planned B. Now I paint my nails nicely, and while I know I would be extra paranoid when having nails and likely wouldn't experience another condom issue, it's just not worth it to me. So if you have long nails, buy lots of nail files and clippers and stock those so at any second you can correct a ragged edge.

    13. Planned B: About $40. It's better to have it and not need it, than need it and not have it. Luckily you can walk into a drugstore and get it, and having it in your work bag should an issue occur will help give you immediate peace of mind.

    14. Having a spare towel in your car would be good if you're like me and re-dye your hair every couple of weeks, so you don't get charged by the hotel for staining their towel (and yes, I got charged $15 for this once though I'm sure they could just bleach that shit out and just wanted to charge me )



    I know there's more that I wanted to write, but that's all I've got at the moment
    Some of this stuff I have to keep relearning over and over, since I used to tour as a dancer.


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    Great list! (deleted what I just wrote because it was too much information and kind of came off a bit wrong. sorry)

    Have you ever had problems with getting a room via Priceline that was keycard access only? I do not use Priceline for that reason anymore. My first time I booked four days and lost about 800 dollars because of it. I am going to put a little list together of hotel things and post it later.

    One thing that is missing is touring is EXHAUSTING! I get so tired on my day off and don't want to do anything. Not even work admin. Good for you for being so organized!
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    ^ I think it's that I still feel like I'm still beginning, so if I only see a few clients a week, it's okay. Granted, I want to get up to a certain point money-wise, but I don't try to push myself too much because I'm worried about quality control and safety.

    After a few weeks of travelling, I got really tired and just rebelled against doing the admin stuff of reference checking. I knew I was losing out on money, but I just didn't have it in me to take care of everything so I got an assistant. I researched on Eccie a couple different assistant options, and then talked to my best friend who knows everything about what I do anyway, and he's now my assistant. I'm happy because since he's a student and trying to help out his dad, he's able to do this very flexibly, and he's already taken on a new client (he even says that as easy as it is, it's super tedious, and he could only handle 2-3 clients.)

    So, if you have the opportunity to work with someone you trust to handle that, I would say take advantage of it so long as (if they're a friend) you know you both have clear enough communication skills not to ruin the friendship by bringing in work.

    Regarding Priceline... I've had two experiences-- one wasn't booked through priceline but it was a three star out of albuquerque that the front door checked what room the person was going to and called my room. Very embarassing! I checked into an extended stay after that and liked that better. Especially since the guy who did a review for me after having visited the three star called it a motel!!! That was just a typo on his part but it convinced me that hotels are not as important as we think they are so long as it's nice inside, easy to get to, not in a dangerous part of town, etc.

    I did stay at a three star from Priceline last week that made you use a keycard and for that reason I checked into a four star via priceline the next day. I guess the best piece of advice I would have for you is depending on how many calls you have, you should only be checking into a hotel one night at a time.

    1. Priceline sometimes lets you add nights. Now, last night I got screwed and had to drop from a 2.5 star to a 2 star because the previous hotel wouldn't let me book again for some reason through priceline.
    2. Even if you add nights, it's always good to do that at night or in the morning in case something changes because once you get that priceline room, you're locked in, no refunds, no way.
    3. Plus, what happens if you have two appointments in a day and you get two relatively last minutes? I'd DEFINITELY want to change hotels after running 3-4 appointments.
    and also,
    4. Four days worth of hotels booked ahead means you're locked in, and it also means that you have four days worth of clients who know where you are. To me, not a good idea due to stalking, LE issues, or general client creepiness if one decides to visit uninvited

    There's also Hotwire which I haven't used but have looked online at different tips and tricks and comparisons between it and priceline.

    I didn't see your previous list, so cool-- I'd still love to hear from your perspective things you find helpful or necessary.

    It's not a one-size fits all. I'm sure some things are going to change when I'm in a different region, or travelling during a different season. We all have to tailor tips that we share to fit what's going on in our lives and business.

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    here's one I forgot to list:

    15. Back when my vagina was angry and I was trying to figure out what was going on, I researched condoms. Latex is one substance that even if you don't have an allergy to it, you're MORE likely to get it the more contact you have with latex. I still use latex condoms, but I definitely try to buy non-latex so I limit my exposure to it. Because I also work with gloves from time to time for certain activities, I also try to get non-latex gloves. I've also noticed some issues with some condoms and not others, but I haven't determined if it's spermicide on the condoms, or just something in the condom. This is why I think it's also a good reason to buy smaller lots of condoms so you can try out different types. For example, there's one form of non-latex condom (don't recall the brand at the moment) that's just a bitch to unroll because it seems less flexible (ha, less rubbery ) than regular condoms.

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    Quote Originally Posted by strippername View Post
    Great list! (deleted what I just wrote because it was too much information and kind of came off a bit wrong. sorry)

    Have you ever had problems with getting a room via Priceline that was keycard access only? I do not use Priceline for that reason anymore. My first time I booked four days and lost about 800 dollars because of it. I am going to put a little list together of hotel things and post it later.

    One thing that is missing is touring is EXHAUSTING! I get so tired on my day off and don't want to do anything. Not even work admin. Good for you for being so organized!
    I'm pretty sure I read this on a different forum, but if you get stuck at a keycard access, tell the client to meet you in business casual with a few folders, and go down and sit with him for a couple minutes in the sitting area with a few papers yourself. After a few minutes, Stand up and say, "I must have forgotten that in my room. Would you mind walking back with me to get it and we can continue our discussion?"

    Obviously, then check out of the hotel after a night but that's a good option if priceline sticks you at one.

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    Thanks for this thread. I haven't traveled yet but plan to once I get my car well enough to go long distances. I can't wait and I'm really excited for it.

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    Hotwire is the absolute worst. Their version of what a 2 or 3 star hotel is is vastly different from the rest of the world. Used to use them and bc you get to choose the relative area was pretty good at the gamble of which hotel i was getting.

    You don't get to see the hotel name until after you book and cannot revise, so if you go to a known hotel that is LE cooperative you are SOL.

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    ^same with priceline: you don't know what you're going to get. You only get to choose general location and star level.

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    In other low LE areas or areas like parts of jersey where everyone and the bellhop are paid off, this is fine, but i'm still leery of this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by setian View Post
    In other low LE areas or areas like parts of jersey where everyone and the bellhop are paid off, this is fine, but i'm still leery of this.
    People pay off the bellhops and staff in Jersey? What do they give them? Hand jobs? Jersey rates are loooowwwww. Are you sure about that? How many clients are these girls seeing a day to raise suspicions?

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    Everyone in Jersey is paid off, there are three big name agencies that have big ties to local judges, hotel staff and the larger technical/pharmaceutical corporations that have offices or based out of central jersey. It is commonly known that new brunswick, somerset, elizabeth, and metropark even though flooded with women is do what you want town, in fact, if you get off the train and walk a few blocks to the nearest hotel, the male staff will know you, just from the shear volume of women coming through, and guess what? You'll be left alone and if needing anything, just ask. Why? Business men. They come for conventions and women, no one fucks with that. So tips from ladies,businessmen(realize in cnj the cultural is totally "professional hobbyist", these gentlemen see 3-4 ladies a wk sometimes, they need discretion, and agencies owners.) These ppl need to be paid as the 6+ girls on during the season which is approaching, will be seeing 8 clients a day,half hr in between, and one or two more if she can squeeze a quickie. but right now everyone is on vacation and most girls have headed north to tour or are sticking with a few regs over summer before gearing back up to income potential of 3000-5000 a wk, busting MAJOR ass at those prices.

    CNJ is a high volume area where your money is very much tips and "turn&burn" gfe(sorry that's crude). If you are a hardcore hustling machine you can hack it, but it is grisly out there. If anyone would like more info on the agencies, just PM. More than happy to give insight to at least one

    FG forgive me for bumping your thread, my apologies.

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    Setian,

    I worked for an agency in NNJ and made the same. Working the same amount of clientele. It was hard work, but now I make the same seeing two-three guys a day in a nicer hotel with an hour plus in between--demand is not a problem. I didn't get to bathe the majority of the time. It was horrible.

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    I too worked for one of these agencies. It's brutal puppy mill shit, but i was a dumb newbie kid and figure that shit out REAL fast a year later and went on my own.

    It was so bad after that one week you literally needed a month to recoup! Love the industry but cmon.

    Demand IS there, otherwise there ladies wouldn't flock there, that with its proximity to NYC & Philly, the NEC Corridor line is full of stops touring ladies should consider.

    I haven't been to cnj in almost a yr and half, how is the vibe now?

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    Obviously I don't escort, but I can add some things to this thread that go for anyone traveling.

    1. Along with the ear plugs (which I'm a huge fan of when maids are cleaning), I'd recommend keeping an eye mask & a thick long sheet or blanket along with clamps/pins. Some of the curtains at the hotels are horrible about keeping light out, so if you aren't a morning person then you may need to bring something that you can put up at night when you sleep so the sun doesn't wake you in the early morning.

    2. I'm not sure how many of you are aware of this but in the last few years the CDC issued a new warning on condoms that negates what many were taught particularly in high school. Basically the new information says that using nonoxynol-9 (N-9) spermicide condoms could actually increase a person's chance of catching certain STDs, including HIV, gonorrhea and chlamydia as well as being a cause of urinary tract infections.

    Read more at:

    1. http://www.cdc.gov/HealthyYouth/sexu...icalupdate.htm

    2. http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/mm5118a1.htm

    3. http://www.cdc.gov/std/treatment/2010/clinical.htm

    N-9 can damage the cells lining the rectum, which might provide a portal of entry for HIV and other sexually transmissible agents. Therefore, it should not used as a microbicide or lubricant during anal intercourse by MSM or by women.

    The CDC has also stated that polyurethane & polyisoprene (i.e. LifeStyles Skyn & Durex Bare) condoms have been found to be equally effective in preventing against disease & pregnancy as latex... although these are said to break more often. They don't smell as bad though, tend to be thinner, & conduct more heat.


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    ^ no, that's awesome! I have an eye mask but I only use it half the time.

    As far as Setian's info-- yeah, regional differences can be crazy.

    I was actually surprised at how popular I was in Dallas. I thought I'd only be that popular in tier 2 towns that depended on travelling girls with a really small level of providers.

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    These are some great tips!! Thanks so much!!!

    Thats great to hear about the N-9 too..though I dont do anal, it still makes me feel better that I dont/cant use it. After years of issues in my younger days, I thought I was allergic to latex, but even non-latex gave me issues, and then I realized it was the N-9...it makes my happy parts very angry!!! I can use it once in a blue blue moon, but on the regular, no way.

    I have to be totally on top of things too though, because the balance of things can get very unbalanced in a snap if Im not... Tea tree oil is *amazing* and Im going to check this out with the coconut oil as well. Personally, after every encounter I do a mild douche of about 1/3 hydrogen peroxide to water. If I dont, Im screwed...plain water or a vinegar mix does not do anything for me and those premade solutions are disaster. and if I dont douche at all, Im setting myself up for failure. I always have to do it after my monthly as well. I swear, my body sucks...I know we're supposed to be self cleansing and not have to/shouldnt douche, but my body is like *NOPE!* Lots of trial and error to figure out that I *need* to cleanse after every encounter, or my body will flip out on me.

    Okay, another thing...if youre sensitive to cold temperature, bring a bathrobe!! I remember my very first tour, I was so annoyed cause my room was *so* cold..and I couldnt turn it down cause the guys would complain it was too warm and want the a/c on full blast so I spent the whole night pretty much shivering. My luck..the next hotel I booked did have a robe, but I will always always pack one with me from now on.

    My only other personal tip is...not to get a room facing the pool/jacuzzi. I always get all sad from looking at it, and not ending up having any time to actually enjoy it LoL

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    These are all helpful tips, I'll toss in a few of my own.


    - Make friends with local booking agents, they can cut your costs getting a 4 star hotel. Personally I try not to go beneath 3.5 stars, you're selling a whole experience and not just access to you sexually. GTA has copycraigs.com
    - Buy in bulk! I know the OP mentioned smaller packages, but I hate not having the brand I want. I refuse to use latex anymore, so I'll buy Skyns on eBay and pack them into smaller bags.
    - Find a lube you love and use it. If its not in a nice bottle, get a nice soap pump bottle and put it beside the bed. Packaging matters!
    - Bring a robe, dry shampoo, sewing kit, at LEAST 4 changes of high-end lingerie. When I buy lingerie I always buy 2-3 pairs of underwear per bra, so I can change just the bottoms in a pinch (like a 4+h date and you don't know exactly when you're going to actually be naked).
    - Have work shoes that you only wear indoors to avoid scuffs on the bottom of your heels. You only need a nice pair of black ones.
    - Stockings, garter belts, perfect nails and hair, a well-maintained hairless body - these are your tools, maintain them well!
    - Contact other girls in the area you're travelling to, before you go there. Meeting up with other women in the industry cuts down on crap eating (who wants to eat crap in front of someone new), opens your eyes to new ideas/services and gives you a feel for where you're going.
    - There's almost always a travel mag in the hotel room. You can cruise for festivals, cool areas, all kinds of ways to pass down time that don't involve spending a lot of cash.


    As a general rule, the higher end you go, the nicer your "stuff" has to be. I bring my own towels, soaps, body washes, mouthwash, etc. and restock it after every call. There is no reason for a half empty bottle when you're charging 100s for your time.

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    ^ Lol, plus depending on where you are and the season, kids playing in the pool during the daytime can mess up any naptime you're able to grab on the sly.

    I forgot to add coconut oil doubles as a makeup remover. I had to use massage oil yesterday because I have to buy a new jar of coconut oil

    I haven't done this with my phone yet, but you can "tether" your computer to your phone, basically using your phone's internet connection to your computer. I think you have to unlock some phones. My boyfriend has his done and it works pretty well most of the time. We were at a hotel who's internet actually blocked one adult forum and it made me cranky

    Oh, and I forgot that having a CVS card means that every fifty bucks I spend, I get $5 back, plus whatever coupons you get along the way. Last night I went and after buying some stuff got two coupons (one for extra bucks, one for eye lashes) and so I went back and bought a pair of eyelashes but with the coupons it came out to zero. That never happens to me!

    I haven't had an issue with the cold (yet), but something that makes me feel better are candles. They just make the room more "mine." Plus, oh, I totally forgot this-- I was in a small city about a month ago and had three candles going, and there was a city-wide blackout! Thank goodness for the candles Not having the AC going kind of sucked, but my time with a guy was still pretty sexy

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    Where do you look for work while your touring? Do you already have long time clients/internet/ or just meeting in public? Sorry, new to this.
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    I have only done "mini tours" so far...basically booked incalls close to home for 1-2 nights (up to 60m) but am pre-book only, and at the moment that seems to safest route to go for a couple of reasons.

    For one, I know ahead of time how many to expect and know that booking the trip will be worth it, and for two, I have time to screen and verify ahead of time before Im there. During the time Im I wouldnt really have the time to properly verify and confirm someone on short notice... I have a bit of saftey in that its close enough to home that most of the time the guys give a reference, its a lady I already know... But to be even further from home, not only do I need to verify the guy, Id also need to do my research on his references to make sure they are legitimate since a quick call like I do at home with ladies I already know woudlnt be enough for me.

    Im guessing others do pre-book also, because its pretty common to advertise tours and book guys from it in advance. Im sure also that many will take reservations while in town...but I cant say if Ill ever get to the point where Id feel okay doing that since I woudlnt stay in one place more than one or two days tops anyway.

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    this should be a sticky.
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    A few other things:


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    1. You can have sex on your period. Here's information on Jade Pearl sea sponges:
    http://www.jadeandpearl.com/catalog/sea_pearls_how.php

    and,
    http://www.amazon.com/Jade-Pearl-Spo.../dp/B000VV27OU

    I'm on my period, and had sex on my second day which is pretty heavy flow-wise and there were no mishaps. I've also used these previously as a girlfriend, and when I was dancing and never had a mishap except once when I put three in on a heavy flow day (I was really paranoid because I was going to dance that night) and forgot to take one out I know, disgusting! Just keep track--which sounds really easy but damn, I was mortified. I used to make fun of girls who would forget their tampons in and then be like, "oh, why am I not feeling so good?"

    This time around because I wouldn't be in the same place to receive something I ordered online, I just went to a store and found natural sea sponges, sanitized them, and cut one into 4 little sea sponges like what you get from Jade&Pearl
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    As one of the other women said, buying little washcloths helps cut down on your anxiety from having to steal from the maid's cart or if you get a last-minute appointment. The local grocery store had cute little hand towels-- 3/$1.50.

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    Water! Water, water, and more water! I've been buying smart waters and topping them off with vitamin waters just to get them to not taste like water (Yes, I know-- cheaper to just go to the grocery store and get gallons of water and little flavor packets.)

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    I heart sea sponges. I was so nervous about it that I practiced before hand (yes I did, dont ask, Im paranoid..thats all you need to know lmfao!) and theyve been working out for me *great* with no worries or mishaps!

    Cant use it on my heaviest day..which is my 2nd, but definitely better to be out of commission for one day than for 4-5 days!

    Something that I thought of and plan to do...is to have little hygiene kits for the guys. Simple things, like a toothbrush in the wrapper, and toothpaste/mouthwash avail, a disposable razor/shaving cream and non-scented liquid shower gel. I find that most hotel soap smells like...hotel soap, and the nicer hotels always have this very nicely but obviously scented soap...I dont want to send a guy home smelling of that.

    I figure, itll cost me maybe $5 total per kit...the shower gel and mouthwash can be in bigger containers that I can refill... Worthwhile investment I think to up my game, make sure hes so fresh so clean so smooth, and will make a great impression on him too, to see that Im looking out.

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    I am a huge fan of sea sponges too. Of course they're great at helping you pull more hours during your period but what really made me happy was using them with bf's/regular guys because I HATE having sex on my period and this way I could really enjoy myself without worrying about a leak. As long as I took it out in time I never once had a fail.

    I must admit though the 1st time I used one it took me ages to get it out, I was pretty freaked out till I got it ( 1st and middle finger do the work).

    And re: touring, I never considered it, just about to return to escorting after a long break. It sounds INTENSE- and all your tips are so helpful! I wonder if I have what it takes

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    Travelling is tiring, and I wouldn't suggest it if you didn't like travelling for its own sake because otherwise you'll look at the hotel bills, and the gas your car is taking (and then a rental car if you decide to fly but don't want to hole up at a hotel) and wonder at the end just what the hell you were thinking. This isn't to say you can't make a lot of money, but you need to be smart, be willing to learn, and, oh god, an assistant can be such a lifesaver. I know some women who travel with accepting husbands and boyfriends, or have assistants who drive them and that is certainly helpful. I haven't gotten to that point yet, though I do utilize an assistant who deals with the references.

    I recently did a double with a woman and her incall was pretty spiffy-- she had one table full of toys, condoms, lubes, massage oil, and then her spanking toys were laid to one side. She had a whole mini bar she herself set up with sodas, and different liquors, along with her ice bucket. Then there was candy, and in the bathroom she had a whole tray of bathroom goodies-- not just the toothbrush and mouthwash, but lotions and hair products for men. I was really quite impressed and it reminded me of my dancing days. How?

    Because my best ideas never came from wanting to impress the men. Men are going to pay me from my hustle and when I feel sexy. My best ideas always came from wanting to impress the women that I worked with. But, in this business, we're so isolated from each other. We talk to each other online, but it's so hard to get ideas from one another unless you're doing doubles with other women, and different women!

    Now-- this particular women and I had different menus so that was a bit problematic, but we ran it smoothly because we both liked each other, were both loved by a regular client we had in common, and we're both professionals-- so we were both able to do what we felt comfortable doing, and as far as I can tell, did it damn well. I helped her because she normally charges half of what I do for a two hour so she essentially got twice what she normally gets paid, and I got to see her attention to detail, get ideas for myself and my incall, and also get to see firsthand how another woman runs her show (even if the germaphobe in me was screaming inside my head, "OH GOD NO!!")

    So definitely make nice with other providers, and if you can, team up from time to time so long as you're not going to put yourself at a screening disadvantage that could put you in danger.

    And also-- Think creatively--
    I'm not one to run specials. I don't like them, and I think it attracts the wrong crowd. But maybe it's because I have finally gotten to the point where most of the Eccie guys are a complete waste of time and most of them seem to be discount hunters. I'm off topic though-- I was on TER and one woman was talking about a Senior discount for men over 60 because they tend to be one pop, gentle, easy, considerate, and have money. That's a generalization-- I've had guys who haven't worked there viagra or cialis dosage just right and they're a PITA. Then there's others who take no medication and then have issues having a climax. And dear God, do not get me started on the guys who refuse to come (WTF?!?)

    The woman I doubled with-- she offered her clients in one of the cities she toured the following special that I thought was actually very creative--

    If a man bought a two hour with her during her stay there, they were invited to a "gang bang" for free her last night. Her husband swings with her during her mutli-people play parties so she had security, and it was an interesting incentive since it was likely only going to take up an hour or 90 minutes of her time-- Now, she only had three takers, but I could see men being appreciative of the offer and upping their time with her even if they weren't comfortable going to the gang bang. So I don't know-- but I had to applaud her business strategies.

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    Great advice. One thing I do is look for married couples through CL. I'm upfront about working SC's and being a VIP gal. Usually on CL they are looking for something like what I can offer... So.. many will let me stay but not let me use their place for in-call with other clients. That is fine since the arrangement works as I have a place to stay. And cheap or free It is a way to get out of cheap hotels and not really wanting to do in-call in cheap hotels as it cheapens me and my rate. So only out-call is what I offer as I travel. Every city is different but that is what I like to try first in each.

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