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    Default Can I get HIV if he ejaculated through pants?!!

    Ok duh technically I get this would not be the standard way to get it FYI. I'm not a moron. I did take health class n I get tested annually so I'm not asking to annoy you all. I just am scared a little cuz I was GRINDING HARDCORE with only a g-string and he had a HUGE wet cum spot and NEVER even told me or gave me any physical clues (stiffening legs, holding me harder, etc we all been there) So I have NO clue how long I was grinding on that gross wet spot!! I noticed it after getting off his lap to change positions and he said "oops".
    Could the semen infect me if it touched my labia during heavy grinding? I seriously doubt my g-string was of much protection at the rate I was going! Any possible risk? I heard HIV can last 30 mins outside in a moist environment and baby it was moist with all that friction and sweat and wetness from both his semen and my sweaty self! Ewwwww.

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    Default Re: Can I get HIV if he ejaculated through pants?!!

    You should be fine but if I were you I'd still get checked out in a week or so
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    Default Re: Can I get HIV if he ejaculated through pants?!!

    did he mention having hiv? how do you know he even has it?
    i agree its gross. i have eyes on the back of my head.
    i heard hiv is not that easy to contract vaginally
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    Default Re: Can I get HIV if he ejaculated through pants?!!

    Have yourself checked in a couple of weeks, then again at the six month mark.

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    Default Re: Can I get HIV if he ejaculated through pants?!!

    seriously? the chances of him havin hiv are incredibly small. the chances of his cum leaking thru his pants, leaking thru your thong an travellin up your vag to where it can mix with your body fluids are even smaller. i get that being worried is a natural reaction, but ur probs more at risk of gettin hiv by sharin a hot tub or sumthin.

    look, if your rly worried abt then im afraid theres no point in gettin tested anytime soon. hiv takes 3-6 months to show up in testin so youll hav to wait at least that long before u go.

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    Default Re: Can I get HIV if he ejaculated through pants?!!

    HIV does not survive well outside the body hepatitus b is much more infectious.

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    Default Re: Can I get HIV if he ejaculated through pants?!!

    Extremely low chance but Id probably still get checked out just for piece of mind.

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    Default Re: Can I get HIV if he ejaculated through pants?!!

    HIV, along with other viruses, last less than 8 seconds outside of the body. You can get checked in 6 weeks and then again in 3 months because you'd have to give your body time to seroconvert from negative to positive. I highly, highly doubt it because it needs an open sore to infect. Do you have any open, seeping sores on your labia? (from a herpes outbreak). If your g-string covered all mucous membranes than the virus can't survive through clothes to infect you either.

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    Default Re: Can I get HIV if he ejaculated through pants?!!

    Unless you had some kind of open wound on the part of your skin that was touching his semen, I don't think this is much of a concern. It is extremely difficult for the virus to survive outside of the human body.

    Go get tested - we should all get tested periodically anyway. (By "we all", I don't mean strippers - I mean all sexualy active adults). In the meantime, don't drive yourself crazy worrying about this - it's a very unlikely scenario.
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    Default Re: Can I get HIV if he ejaculated through pants?!!

    Highly unlikely. However, getting in the habit of HIV testing is a good idea. Relationship, no relationship, married, not married. It doesn't matter.


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    Default Re: Can I get HIV if he ejaculated through pants?!!

    Of course you have AIDS now. If pants prevented the spread of HIV, then condoms would be made out of khaki. Duh.

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    Default Re: Can I get HIV if he ejaculated through pants?!!

    No, you cannot get HIV that way. HIV is spread through blood and body fluids which neither happened in this case.

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    Actually, u don't have to wait 3-6 mos for HIV test if u get the DNA electrophoreeses kind. The DNA test only takes bout a month to detect it, but can detect as early as 14 days post exposure. By 30 days post exposure the DNA HIV test has like 98% accurasy. And these stats I'm quoting are atleast 4yrs old, the tests might gotten better since then.

    The other kind of test takes a few months becuz it tests for presence of HIV antibodies (which take time for ur immune system to produce as reaction to HIV bein present), as opposed to testing directly for presence of HIV virus.

    The thing is. The DNA HIV test is a LOT more costly and prolly unavailable in some places. Standard HIV tests that they give at free clinics, jails, etc are the cheap antibody kind.

    Just wanted to clear that up bout HIV testing. But ur prolly fine. R u even positive it was cum? Any chance it was urine (ew!) or even ur own sweat?

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    I HIGHLY doubt it. I wouldn't worry at all if I were you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by magicin1969 View Post
    HIV, along with other viruses, last less than 8 seconds outside of the body. You can get checked in 6 weeks and then again in 3 months because you'd have to give your body time to seroconvert from negative to positive. I highly, highly doubt it because it needs an open sore to infect. Do you have any open, seeping sores on your labia? (from a herpes outbreak). If your g-string covered all mucous membranes than the virus can't survive through clothes to infect you either.
    this isn't true. The virus can remain alive for up to 60 minutes. Realistically, the possibility of infection is like, none, but you don't need an open sore to transmit with direct immediate contact.
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    Quote Originally Posted by luscious sadie View Post
    this isn't true. The virus can remain alive for up to 60 minutes. Realistically, the possibility of infection is like, none, but you don't need an open sore to transmit with direct immediate contact.
    Can we get some direct link sources for this? It's 1 AM here and I have jury summons in the morning but it's probably best if we can get some actual scientific answers so this dear lady can have some peace

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    Question: How Long Does HIV Live Outside the Human Body?
    One of the most common questions we get here at About.com's HIV site is regarding HIV and how long it lives outside the human body. People get concerned about touching someone or something and getting HIV-infected blood on their hands and becoming infected with HIV. Fortunately, HIV just doesn't infect the human body in that way.


    Answer: Studies have proven time and time again that HIV does not survive well outside the human body. In artificially high concentrations produced in the lab, HIV drying that occurs outside of the body reduces the number of infectious viral particles by 99 percent in just a few hours. Since the concentration of HIV in blood or other bodily fluids is much lower, HIV drying outside the human body virtually eliminates all infectious HIV particles therefore making the risk of HIV infection from blood or bodily fluids outside the body essentially zero.

    Keep in mind that while HIV infection from infectious bodily fluids outside the human body is essentially zero, other diseases like hepatitis B and C can and do occur. Therefore, any blood or bodily fluid outside the body should be considered a health risk and cleaned up using universal precautions and cleaning fluids that are known to kill viruses on contact.
    http://aids.about.com/od/technicalqu...hivoutside.htm
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    Quote Originally Posted by luscious sadie View Post
    "In artificially high concentrations produced in the lab, HIV drying that occurs outside of the body reduces the number of infectious viral particles by 99 percent in just a few hours. Since the concentration of HIV in blood or other bodily fluids is much lower, HIV drying outside the human body virtually eliminates all infectious HIV particles therefore making the risk of HIV infection from blood or bodily fluids outside the body essentially zero."

    Where does it say that it lasts 60 minutes though? It says in an artificially highly controlled environment, HIV drying outside the body reduces to 99% in a few hours.

    Then it says that HIV drying outside the human body naturally eliminates infection to essentially zero. A virus cannot survive without a host. It's not a bacteria that can latch on to surfaces. I took chemistry, microbiology, biology, and immunology and the HIV virus is an extremely weak virus on top of that. A virus isn't "alive" per se. It has to go through an infectious cycle to survive. It also needs a proper host which is why the virus cannot infect you without an open cut/sore. Your skin itself is a physical barrier.

    http://www.mcld.co.uk/hiv/?q=HIV%20v...e%20the%20body

    "A HIV virus particle cannot survive on its own outside the body - it normally lasts no longer than a few seconds when exposed to air."

    http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/Q9195.html

    "As an example, if you take a small drop of blood outside the body, the blood will dry rapidly and the virus will die rapidly. If you have a large quantity of blood outside the body, it will take longer for the blood to dry, and therefore, longer for the virus to die. The virus cannot live in dried blood."

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    I guess I was thinking of HIV staying alive in airtight places like inside syringes. I got the statistic from my dad who worked with nurses on new kinds of needles so they wouldn't get "stuck" by them after they were in a sharps bin.

    As far as the open sore comment. I meant that it doesn't have to be a huge wound. A small fissure during sex is enough to have it transmit through which is why it is far more likely for a woman having vaginal and anyone receiving anal sex to contract it than a man having vaginal sex with a woman or lesbians having fun.

    either way, I said that her chances of contracting the disease were slim to none so we are on the same page. Sorry I had a statistic wrong but you didn't provide a source at first, either.
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    do you girls use towels between your ass / pussy and the guy's pants? I always have. I know that it won't stop anything that needs latex to stop but! it honestly has prevented wet spots from touching me.
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    Good move sadie.
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    ...you girls actually grind hardcore?
    in Australia there are strict 30cm away rules.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingersnap View Post
    Good move sadie. She also said hepatitis. Hepatitis does live outside the body. How do guys react to the towel? They must say something unless you dance nude?
    I don't really care how they feel about the towel, to be honest. It's just a bandana or scarf. I personally wouldn't want to sit my bare ass on any surface in a strip club let alone rub my pussy on some guys' pant leg or have it possibly touch a chair.

    I don't care if they like it or not. To me it's a matter of sanitation.

    and DollyStrips. I'm in Canada where, in a lot of places, hardcore grinding is the norm. While I don't really grind as much as other girls I still think that it is important to have a barrier between me / my outfits and the surfaces of the club.
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    As long as his cum didnt get inside you or in an open cut or sore (assuming hes even hiv pos) then you have nothing to worry about. Just wash good with an antibacterial soap.

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