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    Dizzy Welcoming the bf home...?

    So kind of a lame question but... the last few weeks have been a very dull limbo. I've only been dancing on weekends so had nothing to do all week. Living alone as the boyfriend has been abroad for the past 10 months, and not many of my friends are in town at the moment. Soo it's been pretty boring and I've gone all a bit 'meh' cos there's nothing to get excited about. Just waiting for work to come around again and for the boyf to get back (very soon!).

    So I've coped well with him being away all year (I was busy with studying so it was kind of nice not to have any distractions). But this on top of the boredom lately, I feel like I'm not even excited about him coming home. Not like I don't want to be with him but in my current almost vegetative state I'm not sure how to summon up the enthusiasm.

    Do you ladies (or gents) have any ideas of a special thing I could do to welcome him back, rather than just meeting him at the station and going for lunch or whatever? (It would help if it might also spark off my libido, as that has gone into hibernation the past year... kind of worried he'll want to jump on me as soon as we meet and I'll just totally not be up for it).

    Thank you!

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    Libido for me is a use it or lose it thing. The more sex I have, the more I want it. So, I totally understand how you feel.

    I suggest watching porn and masturbating. Or phone or chat sex with your bf before he comes back.

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    Dress up in some sexy clothes for him! Who doesn't like that?
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    I always tell my boyfriend when we've been apart for awhile that I need and "acclimating period" to just enjoy being next to him and having more increasing physical contact. If you're scared about him wanting sex right away just talk to him before he comes home. Tell him you're really looking forward to seeing him but that you're worried it might be a little weird at first since you haven't seen him and you want to slowly acclimate back to him.

    That should give you a night, and maybe then you'll want to jump him.

    I hate rushing things when I first see my boyfriend. It's like high school all over again. I want to enjoy holding hands, and making out, and getting the excited butterflies without having to rush straight to sex.

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    Me, I like a good tease and some female domination... How about, no sex for like an hour - tie him up in bed and kiss him, dance for him, tease him, but make him wait a LONG time - that way, it gives you time to warm up your libido and makes him beg and scream for sex.

    You could play the scene from 9 1/2 weeks: blindfold and tie him, feed him fruits... add whip cream... Make him lick chocolate off your body... make it fun and messy. Then, you can get on top and "use" him for your pleasure.
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    Honestly, whenever I've been away for a while, I just like coming home to peace and quiet and clean sheets. If you want to do something special for him just cook him a great meal, and have a couple of drinks waiting for you both. It's almost like you're going to be starting all over, so you guys should just take your time and everything else will happen naturally.

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    How about turning up to meet him in a trench coat, heels, and nothing else?

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    Thanks everyone, great ideas, keep em coming! I really like the idea of starting fresh and telling him I need an acclimating period... there's no way I'm going to be able to jump back into our previous sex life easily, so courting each other all over again should remove the pressure, and be kind of cute.

    So far I'm thinking of arranging a kind of strangers-meeting-in-a-bar scenario rather than picking him up straight from the train, should be kind of fun. I'll make the house all lovely, maybe bake some stuff, and take him out for a romantic dinner in the evening. This should all surprise him too, he seems to think I am lazy

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    kitinboots, love it! If it weren't too warm to wear a coat, totally!

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    Quote Originally Posted by smeca View Post
    kitinboots, love it! If it weren't too warm to wear a coat, totally!
    You could do a wrap dress instead of a coat?


    hmph! @ boyfriend thinking your lazy.

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