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    Like in your free chatroom. How long will you do it for? Who will you converse with? I always hear girls saying that you should be nice and make conversation with everyone, because even if they don't get a show with you then they may very well remember how nice you were and spend $$$ on you in the future..... This has never worked for me! Even with stripping and peepshows. I never get $$$ out of guys who I've given free attention to. Even with regulars, it always seems like once you let them chat it up they start wanting to spend less....?

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    I guess it all depends. On a slow night it's good to have a talker in my room. I feel that Having him there on a slow night conversAting with me attracts more guys that are willing to come pvt. Also having him there on a slow night keeps me from getting bored and logging off. However if it's a busy night and this guy comes in and all he wants to do is talk and I allow him to distract me then that's a problem but I never let that happen. I just continue to use em to amp up my crowd (that sounds bad) lol but either way he's using me too for free convo so watever.

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    I talk to everyone, even the basic members. Just because they can't tip right now, doesn't mean they won't in the future...not everyone can spend nite after nite. Everyone deserves the basic respect and acknowledgement of being in your room IMO, especially if they're being friendly and upbeat. However, if they're the kind of "converser" who hints or asks for things without having $$ to spend, then fuck em lol. So in short, friendly nice guys = my attention, assholes who whine or beg= ignore/ban.

    And of course, if there are guys spending oodles of tokens on me, they get priority when it comes to my attention. But generally my attention is spread out over everyone.

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    I try to convert all of them into spending money. No, I am not always nice either. More they ask questions more likely they are trying to jack off for free. I dont do free. lol

    After 3 questions, I get bored. More they type less likely they will ever take you private or spend money. They are just conning you and wasting your time. Trying to build up a relationship that has nothing to do with spending money on you. Being a so-called "nice guy".

    My time is money. That "nice guy" will waste all of your time and keep you from making money and paying your bills. Guess he isn't so nice after all is he?

    Men magazines tell men how to lie, manipulate and con females so that they can get laid for free. After all why pay for it when you can lie your way into the pussy. Most men have that mentality.
    Other men will tell you most men are full of BS. LOL

    I am online to make money. Pure and simple. This is my job. I do NOT go to their jobs chat them up all day long so that they can't make money, thus it is rude for them to do the same. And if they see one guy getting away with it then they all have hope to do the same.

    I am polite at first, but it is my job to get them to spend money. I have gotten guest and basics to man up and take me prvt or tip me. Which is great for me and great for the company. This is why companies have us do free chat, to get those guys to spend money. For us to convert them into paying customers.

    If a "Nice guy" doesn't after a certain amount of time, why should I pay him any attention. I will kick them out for the day. Teach them a lesson. Many have come back and tipped or take me private when they realized they couldn't con me anymore.

    I will NOT tolerate such behavior.

    Love, I mean Love Mortons Steak house, but I dont go there and tell them how much I love eatting there and how they should give me a free meal. Business is business.

    Those time wasters will leave you broke. They do NOT really care for you. They do NOT care if you can't make the rent or buy groceries. They are NOT your friend. They con every gal, just not you.

    Isn't it surprising how many of them get angry and turn on you when you won't help them jack off for FREE?

    How you were so HoT, that they are in love. But when you won't give them a free show, suddenly your old, ugly, fat, used up. LOL

    Funny how it is the quite ones who take you private. Who spend the most amount of money.

    More they talk the more I know they are on the CON. Why would I ever worry about someone who is trying to rip me off.

    Good Luck Ladies,
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    What Sam said!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Isn't it surprising how many of them get angry and turn on you when you won't help them jack off for FREE?

    How you were so HoT, that they are in love. But when you won't give them a free show, suddenly your old, ugly, fat, used up. LOL
    Lol at this ^^^. I've had guys who were so nice to me in the beginning - compliments and all that shit - and then one day they pop into my room getting all types of disrespectful (BAN). It does surprise me when it happens because it comes out the blue like "why is he all of a sudden bashing me?"

    I try to converse with the guys who sit in my room. I tell them if you're not taking me to private then you better at least be typing away. If they can't do either, then they need to bounce. If it gets to the point that one of the chatters takes advantage of my free attention, then I just begin to ignore, and they should get the point or they never return (no loss right).

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    As long as someone is being nice and respectful, I'll just keep talking and talking. For one, it keeps me from getting bored and I also feel like it gives the other guys an opportunity to jump in, get to know me and hopefully take me to private. I'll only have pretty innocent conversations, though. I won't answer extremely personal or sexual questions because I don't want to give anyone more of a reason to jack off in free chat and skip a private.

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    I won't do private messages unless it is someone discussing a private show. It frustrates me so much when someone private messages me saying "hi" and then I don't respond and they say in the public chat "I send you a PM". That happened just recently and I actually said "your message just said hi ... you can say hi here ... just message me if you'd like to arrange a show. otherwise, we can talk here". I would rather talk in the public room so everyone gets a feel of what I'm like. Unfortunately, a lot of guys don't want to talk in the public room. What's with that? And I used to let basic members talk but I've had it with their begging. Ugh! "show ass" ... DID YOU PAY? No. I don't want to show my ass! Ugh. Okay I've had an annoying couple of days lol. Some of the basics are really nice and HELP me get pvts. I wish I could choose which one to allow to talk in my room. Unfortunately they all don't :p
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    If they're being nice and not begging, I'll be friendly. On MFC the other night, I converted a basic member to a premium and got tipped by him - it wasn't a ton of money and that doesn't happen often, but it reminded me of why I should keep it nice unless the guy is disrespectful. But my friendliness has a time limit, they can't camp out in my room all day and chit-chat without spending.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    Like in your free chatroom. How long will you do it for? Who will you converse with? I always hear girls saying that you should be nice and make conversation with everyone, because even if they don't get a show with you then they may very well remember how nice you were and spend $$$ on you in the future..... This has never worked for me! Even with stripping and peepshows. I never get $$$ out of guys who I've given free attention to. Even with regulars, it always seems like once you let them chat it up they start wanting to spend less....?
    I rarely use free chat. Only if i've been sitting around for 10-15 mins with no shows, then i'll put it on because it boosts my profile visibility on the site i use. 99% of guys in the free chat don't buy shows, so i'm not really interested in hustling them. I just have a laugh and banter and am happy to humour them when they ask for show ass, give a twirl, show what you're wearing etc. I always have sound on and talk to them, especially regulars. But if they beg, try to bullshit me, or give any attitude, they get banned. Sometimes i actually just ignore everyone and go about whatever i'm doing on the internet until i hear that jingle to say someone wants a private lol I can't stand free for more than 5 - 10 mins at a time and literally only use it as a last resort, after doing everything else to help increase profile visibility. My regulars know I'm ONLY there to make money, not friends or lovers, so they're not offended if i don't pay exclusive attention to them. In fact when new guys ask a question about me, what i offer, or (when i'm blatantly doing soemthing else) why i'm so quiet, my regulars will fill them in LMAO! As soon as a I switch off free, i get a steady line of regulars booking a show or going private in directcam, even on occasion, just to ask when i'm coming back to free chat!!!!

    Might not work on all sites, but with me, the key is definitely to be 100% myself, not try to fake anything in free chat. If I'm impatient, bored, quiet, or hyper, that's what they get. I'm totally relaxed because i *know* i can get a steady stream of shows without needing to try too hard. I think they sense that, so it sort of works in my favour.

    I've watched Aspen on MFC, and although they're totally different sites (and i would never do shows in free), i love the way she works. Her style is so relaxed and natural, and the guys lap it up, she never appears desperate, or like she's trying too hard, or at all. I guess I sort of aspire to that and identified most with her out of all the experienced girls I've watched.

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    I will do light banter with guys about politics, news, sports, etc. That type of talk gets others to spend money and take me private (even if it isn't the guy who I am talking with).

    However sexual questions are a whole other ballgame. They get 2 sexual questions and then I say "lets go PTV or exclusive" if they don't take that bait then I kick them. If they come in again they are given another chance (I again will give them 1 or 2 questions and then "come ptv") and if they don't come to PTV I just ban.

    Light banter helps me sell shows ALOT. Two nights ago I was in public chat talking with a few guys about one of my favourite Korean Language shows...Rooftop Room cat. Then I started talking about President Obama and the US economy. Around that time a dude comes into the room and drops $100 gold because he wanted me to shake my ass (in public) and apparently he was turned on by my discussion of Obama (he's a political pole person as a living).



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    I talk about light stuff, but once they start asking a bunch of sex questions, I tune out too because I know exactly where they are headed with that. It's amazing how a guy will pretend its just you and him in free chat even though there's 10 other viewers in there.

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    The rules of my chatroom:

    1. If you don't have $$ to contribute, then at least have non-sexually oriented conversation to contribute. Yes talking about Education reform or the latest celeb scandal helps me sell shows...

    2. Only 2 sexual related questions are allowed. I will then say "come private" or "tip gold". If you do neither then I kick you out. Come in and do it again then I wave my magic ban stick and boot your ass out of my room for good.

    3. Just sitting around for 10+ mins will get you kicked out. Hello and light banter are what I expect in the room. sitting there silently for 10+ mins will get you kicked.

    4. If you have a request or want to see a certain part of my body or want to have me stand up put some gold into the room. And $1 just doesn't cut it...try more like $5 and above. I don't deal with beggars and yes I am expensive, I prefer men who can afford me!

    I think my rules are pretty plain and simple and most nights I do fairly well. There have been a few exceptions to the rule, but for the most part I make $100+ per shift I work. I had a bad night last night where I came in at like $67 (I posted here around 5am saying I made only $37. But shortly after that I went back on for 45 mins and made $30 more), but today has been rocking! In the 1 hour I worked so far I made $80.



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    Quote Originally Posted by prettygreeneyes View Post
    If they're being nice and not begging, I'll be friendly. On MFC the other night, I converted a basic member to a premium and got tipped by him - it wasn't a ton of money and that doesn't happen often, but it reminded me of why I should keep it nice unless the guy is disrespectful. But my friendliness has a time limit, they can't camp out in my room all day and chit-chat without spending.
    Same thing happened on Saturday to me. I talked to this basic member, and was very polite and cordial, he made a request, and I politely told him that all requests are reserved for people who tip... he left for a second, came back as a premium and tipped me 100 tokens. Sure only $5, but it spurred a bunch of other guys to tip, so it was worth my while none-the-less.

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