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Last edited by Laurisa; 09-23-2011 at 10:31 AM.
If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.
If you are not with him anymore and you have the custody thing worked out, then why would you tell him?
If he is still your boyfriend, then honestly, there are very few men who would be ok with their girlfriend working at a brothel.


You made the right choice choosing them over bunny ranch and the rest! This place is classy. I worked there on and off for a few years.
JB will be the one picking you up at the airport. The food is great. You can order whatever you want. There is also a gym behind the dining area, convenient. Each room (at Wildhorse) has satellite TV, it's own bathroom (with full tub, shower with great water pressure and bidet), heater, air, ceiling fan, windows, lovely pillow top bedding and room furniture, an additional sink besides the bathroom one. There is maid service to your room daily, just make your own bed. Since you can strip you'll also be able to make money dancing. There's a high pole, two stages and also a lapdance room that is good for getting guys worked up to spend the big bucks through the green door. Not all the girls use the dance features so you may have an advantage. The green door is the area behind the bar section. The bar is actually more like a club.
Mustang is gorgeous too, with original fine art pieces everywhere and an incredible bar layout. Both places have several luxurious vip suites with fireplaces, hot tubs and each house has an outdoor pool. There's also a sybian room at the Horse. One difference is that at Mustang the bathrooms are shared between two rooms, no TVs in the bedroom and no heater/air controls. They have air conditioning, but you can't control it like you can at the Horse. They do still have the ceiling fans and pillow top mattresses, but the rooms are a wee bit smaller. Actually, Mustang does have a few rooms with their own bathroom, but those are reserved for the top earners.
Good luck girlie! You're already lucky though, because when I started there we had to be earning $1500 daily to get free room and board, lol. Business was booming though so it wasn't hard.
P.S. I log in here sporadically and I rarely follow threads I post in, but I don't think anyone else on this site has ever worked there. My point is that if you ask any more questions of me, it may take me a while to answer because I may not see it. I check PMs every few days though -- usually.
Oh, and there are computers with internet available too.


Oh and on the baby daddy thing, I'd say if you decide to tell him, do it AFTER your first trip. You're gonna need to be on top of your game at the Horse and the last thing you'll need is drama from him in case he has a problem with it. My 2 cents.
Edit: I just realized that you were also asking about your SO. Honestly, if you tell someone you're dating that you're about to start prostituting, there's a 99.99% chance of drama. I went through it when I first started in the business. I told him. He begged me not to go. I went anyway. I felt guilty and it nearly ruined my first trip out. Drama. We stayed together but that is rare and there was a lot of resentment thrown my way over the years that followed. We're done now (still best friends) but oddly enough it wasn't the prostitution that ended the relationship. This is very rare though. I know because I've seen many heartbroken women at the houses, some in tears after dramatic phone calls with their SOs, then they get all depressed and can't hustle. Also, I've known women who have had men use it against them as blackmail in custody cases. I'm just saying what I've experienced and witnessed first hand. Telling men about it is not likely to go well. Whew! That's enough forum typing for me today, lol. But let me finish on a positive note:
Unlike escorting, brothel life often brings in some hot customers! I've had so many young, buff and gorgeous marines and navy seals there it's ridiculous!![]()
Last edited by tashataboo; 07-13-2011 at 11:12 AM.




I couldn't not tell my son's dad because I usually split our son's visitation every 3 1/2 days on. Meaning, I have him for 3 1/2 days, then his dad does. It evens out to a 50/50 split every week. We used to each take him for a straight week but then we changed it. I would have to explain why I was leaving for 15 days.
Secondly, it is extremely important that my SO supports me or I won't go. I understand why he wouldn't want me to and I would have to respect that. I think bringing the situation up in a neutral manner would be best, but we've discussed it before so it wouldn't be too awkward bringing it up. I guess ultimately I might decide to let my son's dad know I was going on a business trip (maybe say Vegas...because I've traveled to New York and New Orleans for stripping) and then tell him about it if I decide I want to keep pursuing it.
If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.



So...tell him that you're going to vegas to dance. Its all the same licenses anyway (in case he asks).
If you're not dating him anymore you don't him any explanations. You have a kid to feed and that all that matters.
It's not about what you do for a living, it's about who you want to be.
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I wouldn't feel right lying to my SO about what I'm doing for work. My son's dad, yes, but only until after my first trip to make sure I like it. I think the "open book" policy works better. I thought everyone in my family would hate me for stripping but no one has made a big deal out of it, and I can talk fairly openly about work. I don't think I would share my newfound profession with my siblings and parents like I did with dancing, but I would definitely tell my Grandma because I click with her like that.
I can't justify lying to my SO about prostitution, even though this would be legal and much safer than street prostitution. There is a marginal risk of STD transmission, and not to mention we are technically engaged. There is also the fact that I would be gone 1-2 weeks a month (probably keep it at one week a month unless I really needed the money) which means I would be gone at least 3 months a year cumulative. Of course, it would be less work combined since I presently work 12 days a month, so I would have more free time the rest of the month.
Most of all, since actual sex is taking place there is no way I could be OK with hiding that. I don't think there's been many people in the sex industry who looked back on their lives and said "damn, I wish I hadn't married my husband so I could have been a prostitute"...unless he was a bad husband or it was a marriage of convenience. Our relationship is good, he is not jealous or controlling, he does not probe about me stripping, and he is 100% supportive.
My next step is to discuss it with my SO and see his take on it. If he supports me then great, if not then I'll have to pass it up.
If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.



i wasnt talking about your current squeeze. I was talking about your ex.
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Here's something I just sent in an PM response to questions about testing and CBJs, etc. I'm posting it to help anyone else who may have questions about testing and brothel practices practices:
CBJ's are mandatory. You can't legally do any sexual contact in a brothel without a condom, including giving or getting oral. You'd use saran wrap or dental dams if he wants to eat you and you can only suck with a condom. As far as testing, they test for HIV/AIDS & all other STDs weekly, plus hepatitis on occasion. As far as I know, there is no test they do for herpes, but if you have obvious symptoms there would probably be an issue.
Last edited by tashataboo; 08-01-2011 at 09:09 AM.


I didn't say to lie. I didn't lie when I was in your shoes either, so I understand. I'm just saying that you will have drama if you tell him something like this. Be forewarned: even if he claims to be cool with it you will likely face drama and resentment down the line. If his/her opinion is a determining factor in your life decisions then you'll probably never make it to the Horse. If you do you may not find it worth it in the end -- there will be resentment, that's my main pont. I've seen it a thousand times in the biz. Brothel life is best for women who have men who are already cool with prostitution (due to escorting whatever) or those who are single. In any event, good luck.




Well I casually brought it up to him last night and he was like "no, point blank", so I guess that squashes that.
I appreciate the advice though! If anything ever changes and I become single then I will definitely consider it...but we'll see because this guy could be around forever!![]()
If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.
So you would miss out on money to be with a man? Does he help you financially? I don't really understand...




^Yeah, I'm not going to run off and be a prostitute so I can make a little extra cash--I earn a fine living stripping. I'm sorry, I didn't know that I had to throw my relationship away so I could go turn tricks in Nevada. What is there to understand? I'm in a committed relationship and I share a home with this man.
If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.




Some people actually see their significant other having sex with other people as cheating. Some people are not cool with cheating.
For fuck's sake, what is wrong with this board if some of you can't even comprehend that some people want monogamy in a relationship. That doesn't make a man or woman a bad person.
Laurisa, pay no mind to some of the bitter women on this board who would throw their boyfriends or husbands under a bus for a twenty. They see men as worthless and insignificant which is probably why every man they've ever dated has treated them exactly the same way. I've seen way too many of these women over the past decade. It's a shitty ass lonely life where every time you meet a quality person, you sell them out to "make yo' money".




^^As stated before, I planned on asking him about it and respecting his decision. He said no, I said OK!
Now, if a man that I hadn't dated before asked me to quit stripping so we could date I would laugh, because that's what I do presently--but I can't expect someone who dated me BEFORE working in Nevada to be OK with it. So that's why I'm not doing it.
If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.


That's good that he was very clear on his feelings early on. It's always nice to be able to gauge someone's tolerance beforehand, so you don't risk losing something/one that matters to you. Being on the receiving end of resentment from someone you love can be a b#*ch!
Honestly, if the guy I had when I started in the brothel biz would have been cool with me doing it at the time, I would have questioned whether or not he really did love me. My perspective on love and romantic relationships is much different now, but I can still relate to where you're coming from.
Bottom line, you are happy where you are. And it's great to be able to have options instead of feeling cornered into certain adult work situations.
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I can understand the OP's POV. I asked DH if he would be cool (hypothetically) with me working at a brothel. "Hell no, unless you were fucking Mexicans every day".
In all seriousness I can understand why you backed off. <3 Good luck.
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