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    Default How can I up my earnings without whoring it out?

    I work in a club where almost all the girls give hand jobs in LD booth, suck dick in VIP and fuck in Champagne.... I have not gotten past the LD booths and even then I struggle. I've had guys try to lick me, pull their dicks out, or try to put my hands on the dick. It happens every time I work. I've never gotten a VIP or Champagne room because I won't agree to any sexual activity.
    I am living in Miami and have worked at two different clubs, one is fancier than the other but men still expect sex if they pay for a room.
    I make between 200-550 per shift depending on which shift, but I know there is a lot more money out there. Honestly I don't think I can ever quit stripping until I make 1000 in one shift.

    Has anyone ever dealt with this? What are some tips you guys could give me to make more money while sticking to my guns?
    Is there anyway I can talk a guy into a champagne room without promising anything? Just dance and flirt the half hour or hour away without fucking?

    I like dancing and talking to people, I like that part of my job, but it is really bothering me that I've been doing this almost two months and still have not seen the champagne room, and I know I could be making more. What am I doing wrong???

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    Default Re: How can I up my earnings without whoring it out?

    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    even if people don't renew or tip that VIP they got with you theyll be more likely to get one in the first place because they'll be so mesmerized in your beauty that they'll forget to ask about extras.
    Thats the thing, I don't get VIPs, just lap dances and table dances. I get so annoyed when girls go into the dressing room and brag how they got a champagne room back to back. I just wanna scream! I could be in the champagne room all night long if I fucked, too. It just gets so frustrating because I do get asked several times per shift to do champagne room but I won't tell the customer that I'm going to do something if I won't. Once I even started telling people that I don't do VIP/Champagne rooms. I only did this because people were wasting my time trying to negotiate sex and it was busy and I preferred to keep doing LDs or table dances because I was at least making a little money that way. Doing LDs and table dances and just tips in general of course adds up but I want the big bills!!!!!!!

    I've thought about traveling to work else where because I've heard on SW that Miami is 'ripe for extras' no matter what club. But its nearly impossible having a kid and going to school full time..... so I need to figure out how to score big money here in Miami.

    I also thought about trying some of the bigger name clubs, like Scarlett's and Tootsies. I haven't gone to audition because I have small boobs and need a nose job, so I'm pretty sure I'll get turned down. I won't have my nose done until December and I am still not sure I want to have my boobs done. Has anyone worked at either of these clubs?

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    Default Re: How can I up my earnings without whoring it out?

    I've worked in Miami and I've made good money at Tootsies for the two weeks that I worked without providing any extras (unless boob touching is considered an extra).

    Yes, there are many customers that are looking for sex but there are also many that are ignorant to the fact that that even happens in the club setting. It may be harder to get consistent rooms because of this but not impossible. You can set your own room price at Tootsies (I charged $300/half $600/hour). If customers ask what happens, I always tell them that they are guaranteed to have a good time, leave happy, begging for more, etc. If they ask for sex I tell them that there are other ways to have fun without having sex. None of these directly imply that I'm willing to do extras so many will take the chance and mistakenly find out that I'm not providing the services they imagined from our conversation. You're paid up front so does it really matter?

    I always beat around the bush when people ask me for extras and I think it does entice their curiosity when considering the champagne room. Some will take the chance and others want something more concrete. It's hard to sell in clubs that full service is acceptable not it's not impossible.

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    If you can look more expensive and glamorous as already stated you will seem like you are worth the money for the experience. You will also get the guys that want a lady who they can chat about their interests with in a party vibe. A lot of times the guys that want to get as much as they can for as little as possible will target the new, younger, inexperienced girls figuring they won't know any better and might be more desperate for the cash than a seasoned veteran. Wear elegant dresses with rhinestones, lace, ribbons, etc. Develop an awesome stage routine if you sell lots of dances from stage and look like you're having fun not just roaming around looking for the guy with cash. When competing with girls doing extras you have to erase any bit of desperation that the customer might pick up on and give the illusion that you just simply enjoy the tease and play but you don't need it as a job, this is the icing on the cake. Lie about how long you've been dancing and your age if you are under 25ish, say you've been dancing on and off for 3 years and as much as you love it you can only do it when you have time bc you do xyz when you're not wearing stilettos. And remember, sometimes guys just try things to try them but it may not be their agenda. He is just checking your boundaries but it may not be a deal breaker. Just try to hide how appalled you are and brush it off and emphasize how much fun he is and how much you dig him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lokikola View Post
    I work in a club where almost all the girls give hand jobs in LD booth, suck dick in VIP and fuck in Champagne.... I have not gotten past the LD booths and even then I struggle.
    Has anyone ever dealt with this? What are some tips you guys could give me to make more money while sticking to my guns?
    Is there anyway I can talk a guy into a champagne room without promising anything? Just dance and flirt the half hour or hour away without fucking?
    Move on to another another club. Working in an environment where you're being constantly molested is soul sucking. Staying at that club is a fast train to burn out.

    If you're not willing to "get with the program" you will spend your hour in the CR fighting off the customer b/c he thought he was getting more. Its not fun and the customer can get violent....its happened to me in my dancing days more than I'd like to admit.

    Don't worry about your boobs or your nose...its worth a shot trying out a club where you will be happy.

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    Default Re: How can I up my earnings without whoring it out?

    There are a few things you can do:
    Ask for VIPs upfront without dancing for them first... You won't get anymore guys who are pissed off/disappointed than you do in lap dances when you won't do extras... and it's more money up front.
    When you find customers who don't want extras... MAKE HIM A REG... make sure he knows your name, your schedule, ect. I live in LA... where it, also, is SUPER dirty... and the ONLY reason I make consistant money is because I have regulars.
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    Default Re: How can I up my earnings without whoring it out?

    Look for the right types of customers. It's all about what you say and how you say it.

    Be really choosey about your customers.




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    Default Re: How can I up my earnings without whoring it out?

    I do want to move to a nicer clubs. I worked one night at a club called Playmates, it is in the Coral Gables neighborhood, I think I posted about it before. Long story short, all the girls were fucking gorgeous, there were only a couple fatties or flat chested girls (I"m flat chested but not fat). Plus they were basically all pros on the pole. So I felt really intimidated and have not gone back. I really feel like getting my nose done and at least braces started will up my confidence in that setting. I feel like a big fish in a small pond right now but it kinda works because I am new and still have a lot to learn when it comes to hustling so I get by on being in better shape than most of the other dancers and also being 'nicer'. I know that all sounds terrible. I should challenge myself by going back to the nicer place but I'm afraid :/ (I hate when I act like such a pussy!)
    About making customers a regular, I find that hard to do still. My first 4 weeks or so there were two that I saw regularly but I wouldn't say they came back just to see me. They just always go to that club, they know the staff and talk to the manager/waitresses and happened to hit it off with me. I don't give my number out to people and don't feel like I make enough to invest in a go-phone for regulars. Honestly I like dancing on the weekends, for just those two shifts and having a totally different life the rest of the time. This doesn't mean I don't like dancing, I do. I actually get excited on Fridays because I get to doll myself up and dance naked for money! Who wouldn't? I just hate dealing with a certain type of customer...
    Like this weekend, I was walking the floor for tips and came up to a table of older Cuban guys. He pulled out a dollar but held onto it and went for my thong. I told him he couldn't touch me so he tried to grab my boob so I push his hand away. He picks up another dollar bill off the table but still doesn't hand it to me and tries to go for my nipple again. I said if he wanted to touch my tits he is welcome to buy a LD. So he is like, 'oh baby no pasa nada its okay I can touch right here, blah blah blah' so I'm say thank you and walk away as they yell and curse at me for leaving........ fuck them and their two flimsy dollars. Go buy yourself a bag of rice and beans hijo de puta!!!!

    Sorry this turned into a rant. But I feel better.

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    i dunno, nrexm has kind of grown on me. i'm starting to think she's kind of a bad ass.

    and mama, it's summer in florida! you're doing great! wait for season to hit, you're going to pull bank. no worries, lover.

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