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    poor baby, i'm sorry that jerk hurt you!

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    Thank you for sharing this, it's always good to have a reminder... sorry this happened, but it seems like other than this incident you are really liking your new club! Congrats!

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    I am so sorry this happened to you

    Thank you for sharing your story with the rest of us. It's a really scary thought that shit like this happens in clubs, but the fact is, sometimes it DOES happen. I hope the guy had some major physical damage.

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    I'm sorry this happened but if nothing else, it serves as a warning for other girls. I feel sorry for the woman he's marrying, she's in for a nightmare it seems.

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    Thankyou for sharing this, sorry it happend to you.
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    thank you for sharing this. I'm glad that I don't have to deal with guys who are like this anymore and it bothers me so much that they still exist. Seriously, what the fuck?

    I'm really sorry that you had to go through that. It's something that I worry about a lot. I'm glad that you're feeling better / got your money / got to see the guy get beat up before his wedding. And I also feel bad for his wife.
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    Ugh what a loser. I wonder how he'll explain his fucked up face to all his family and friends, and oh yeah, his future wife.

    Sorry this happened to you -- thanks for sharing though, situations like this could happen to anyone and girls need to keep that in mind.

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    I will definitely keep this in mind when I have the first thought of insecurity with a customer.

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    Im so sorry this happened to you, thankyou for sharing

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    OMG ... I'm so sorry this happened to you. You didn't deserve it at all! I'm glad the bouncers at your club kicked the shit out of him. I'm pretty sure any girl would have been a baby; it sonds like such a scary situation. I hope you're okay. *hugs*

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    I'm glad you're okay now darling. What a terrible situation. Some men are just...ugh. Idiots. Glad to hear the bouncers had your back (eventually), and pounded the ever living PISS out of him.

    Words of Caution: To any strippers out there who think "This can't happen to me; I'm tough!", please think again. I've been held down in the past by some very meek-looking customers, and this was when I was rather muscular. I'm a big girl, but my strength is nothing compared to an enraged drunk mans. When things start turning violent, scream from the get-go.

    Hugs to you BOTM!!!!!



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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    Thanks for all the support pinks, to the blue that PM'd me to tell me that I had it coming...go fuck yourself.
    You should be ashamed of yourself Sir!!!



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    Sorry to hear this happened to you! But somehow I'm smiling on the inside thinking of the guy ending up with a bloody face for it. Oh, no, I'm smiling on the outside, too.

    A blue PM-ed you about having it coming? When you get mugged or attacked on your workplace, I hope you'll have someone kindly tell you you had it coming.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    to the blue that PM'd me to tell me that I had it coming...go fuck yourself.
    Oh - but don't you know - if you turn a guy on enough, he's entitled to do anything he wants with your body. Though he is otherwise a competent adult allowed to mingle freely in society, here he is not responsible for controlling himself. Some might think that a man should not go to strip clubs if he doesn't like when people give him boners with no further sexual favors, because that's sort of the nature of a strip club. Some might also think that if a man finds himself very aroused but with a person who's unwilling, then he should respect said person's boundaries and, if it bothers him that much, leave and find someone who is willing. Those people are full of shit, though. Men shouldn't have to be responsible and exercise self-control when it comes to hot women, not like they do in every other aspect of life.

    Isn't that right, blue-y?

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    Sorry this happened to you, I'm glad you're ok and that your club was on your side and that of the girl working with you. Indeed, you never know who will snap. And of course it's always the fault of the person who decided to commit the assault - no one else's. That PM was ridiculous.

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    Thanks for all the support pinks, to the blue that PM'd me to tell me that I had it coming...go fuck yourself.
    I hope you reported him for that. That's bullshit, and he should be banned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    to the blue that PM'd me to tell me that I had it coming...go fuck yourself.
    Really.. I hope hes banned by now..

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    Just a suggestion ... any dancers working in clubs where they're NOT covered by REAL surveillance and immediate bouncer backup should invest a few hours in self-defense / martial arts basic classes !!!

    It's an unfortunate trade-off that clubs that don't pay too much attention to what's actually going on in the VIP / private dance area ... which can often be a good thing from an earnings standpoint ... can just as quickly become a bad thing from the standpoint of a physically aggressive customer.

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    I'm so sorry that happened to you and your friend. Thank goodness the club was on your side and beat the shit out of that guy. Hopefully his wife knows martial arts so she can protect herself from him and give him the same ass kicking the bouncers gave him.

    Someone should beat the shit out of the loser that PMed that was dumb enough to say you had it coming.

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    Sorry you had to go through this. What an awful situation. Just a reminder how we need to stay on our toes. Even an asshole who isn't drunk can turn violent if it's in his nature.
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    Wow that really sucks. Sorry that happened to you.

    When guys pull down their pants finish the dance and don't ask for any more money from them.

    Not that all guys are violent psychos but it's just a good policy to avoid customers like that.

    Up scale or not girls deserve better than to have to deal with rowdy pulling their pants down customers.
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    i havent been in this forum in soo long and this was the first post i saw
    ....soooo sorry that bullshit happened to you hunny-bun
    u were very courageous and strong to let us in on ur story and to give us words of wisdom from it
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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    Well according him, I should have known because he was drunk.
    Maybe people who can't contain themselves when drunk shouldn't drink. That's no excuse anyway, though - there are tons of guys who would never assault a woman, drunk or not.

    Eh, I hope they ban him.

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    Of course you had it coming, filthy stripper, doing your job instead of providing sex for that man. What a rip off bitch.


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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    Thanks for all the support pinks, to the blue that PM'd me to tell me that I had it coming...go fuck yourself.
    i hope you reported the blue douche. you can report pm's too.

    also, some clubs have panic buttons?
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