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    Default Female Customer Hating on Blondes Bc SHe was a Brunette

    Sooo...Last weekend I came across a random female who straight up said she preferred brunettes. I know everyone has a preference but it seems blondes are getting all the grief these days. Even girls in the dressing room were talking about how this girl was waiting around for this one particular brunette. I told several fellow blondes in the dressing room "Not everyone likes blondes". One of them said "Come on everyone loves a blonde". I said not ur friend out there whos a brunette. I honestly feel like its bad for business when people go on and on whether it is for or against another..In that case it was against me and I just took it in stride as I kicked that clubs ass voerall that night...I didnt give a rat's ass about this girl..It just got me to thinking...That girl was a fan of her own hair color..And It got me thinking I actually think blondes are hotter than brunettes or should I say that most blondes r..I do have my exceptions.. SO do u think u r more drawn to women of ur same hair color or do u like the opposites? For ex Ur a brunette who favors blondes or girls w black hair? R most of ur female friends ur same hair color? Idk thought this may be interesting to find out...

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    I'm a brunette who favors other brunettes. It's my preference and it's not to put down Blondes in any other way (if I click with a Blonde as I have recently and get on "in that way", the fact that she's a Blonde does not factor in). There is a certain "look" that most Blondes I've encountered try to go for and I don't find it appealing as it's very generic. I also don't like that most Blondes feel they need to "enhance" their color and end up with shades that are not becoming of their natural undertones. Very clashy.

    Suppose my point is that Brunettes draw the eye more because Blondes here are easy to overlook when the "look" they have has since become generic, not that Brunettes are necessarily "hotter". Just more individualized.

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    I'm a blonde and tend to attract other blondes or medium brunettes. There are exceptions - two of my best friends are dark brunettes.

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    Default Re: Female Customer Hating on Blondes Bc SHe was a Brunette

    If a girl is hot, she is hot no matter what hair color she has.

    I can be friends with whoever too, no matter the hair color. That seems silly to me to choose your friends based on hair color.

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    I agree with Vyanka, hair coloring prejudices with regards to who you befriend or don't is silly.

    Although when it comes to a man I am dating I prefer non white men or if they are white men with darker hair. I myself am I natural very light blonde by the way.

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    Thank u all for ur 2 cents. I dont associate w people due to hair color I associate due to whats on the inside but people r drawn to certain types. SOmetimes people dont realize it. Sometimes its like "we r all on the same team" as far as hair color goes. Blondes get used to the airhead stereotype and brunettes the intriguing type and redheads the wild in bed asians exotic etc...I will tell u guys something though..When I dyed my hair brunette 90% of the people I met hated it on me..SO I had to dye it back. One club I used to work at actually told us we were not to alter our looks. They said we were hired w a certain look and not to change hair color add tattoos etc..One club I work at has an overabundance of blondes. I actually hate working there sometimes as I call it "the blonde hour" as its a booking (2 hrs/booking) when there are about 4 to 5 blondes up at once. At work I think its actually too competitive when u have too many blondes. I actually end up getting along better w the brunette yea finding myself attracted usually more to the blonde. Although there are the exceptions..

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    Default Re: Female Customer Hating on Blondes Bc SHe was a Brunette

    ^ Say what??? Thats a crazy statement considering most "blondes" arent actually blonde. What about Heidi Clum, Charleze theron, Reece Witherspoon, Gwen Steffani, Jessica Simpson, Cameron Diaz, Scarlet Johansson, Gwynth Paltrow, Carrie Underwood... dont think any of them would be dogs without hair and makeup.

    Hair colour is just that... hair colour. Certain colours may enhance your skin tone or eye colour but it certainly doesnt make your face ugly or pretty.

    Ive always thought it was weird when people have a preference for a particular hair colour. Im blonde and definitely had brunette female customers hate me, but I figured they were just jealous. I dont know why because to me hair colour is not really important. Its all about a pretty face IMO... And my face is pretty so I guess Im the exception if blondes are not naturally pretty lol.

    I think hair colour just gets peoples attention initially. But if your ugly it wont matter what colour your hair is just as if your hot then it wont matter either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shift_6x View Post
    Sooo...Last weekend I came across a random female who straight up said she preferred brunettes. I know everyone has a preference but it seems blondes are getting all the grief these days. Even girls in the dressing room were talking about how this girl was waiting around for this one particular brunette. I told several fellow blondes in the dressing room "Not everyone likes blondes". One of them said "Come on everyone loves a blonde". I said not ur friend out there whos a brunette. I honestly feel like its bad for business when people go on and on whether it is for or against another..In that case it was against me and I just took it in stride as I kicked that clubs ass voerall that night...I didnt give a rat's ass about this girl..It just got me to thinking...That girl was a fan of her own hair color..And It got me thinking I actually think blondes are hotter than brunettes or should I say that most blondes r..I do have my exceptions.. SO do u think u r more drawn to women of ur same hair color or do u like the opposites? For ex Ur a brunette who favors blondes or girls w black hair? R most of ur female friends ur same hair color? Idk thought this may be interesting to find out...
    FUNNY! I heard that comment recently from a chick, and i walked right up to her and said "yeah I like girls with dark hair too"...she goes "BUT you're blonde". i was like "so? I can't help the way I was born" *smile* and walked away
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    There is an attractive blonde guy customer who is crazyyy about me. In the past couple of days the words that came out of his mouth were "I like that you are blonde like me." It seems like people are drawn to those on their "same team" even in the male/female partner sense. Not just the female/female way. I have heard a few guys that like me say "I like that ur a blonde." But that really isnt a common statement.

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    This is very interesting! I don't really factor in similar hair color when making decisions as far as who I choose as friends. In fact, I think that sometimes I have subconsciously sought out friends who look different then me, because it makes me stand out more in a crowd! I don't think one is better than the other. I have seen stunning brunettes and gorgeous blondes (and redheads too, for that matter). I have also seen some fugly brunettes and some blondes who were absolutely hideous, no matter how much they dyed their hair or caked on the makeup. There is no "right" hair color, it really just depends on what works with your skin color and undertones, and eye color.

    As far as men go, I've never really been attracted to blonde men. Something just looks a little too "soft" to me, it's hard to explain.I have a strong preference for men with dark hair. I find though that a lot of blonde men hit on me even though I'm brunette, and I've come in contact with quite a few blonde men who had a preference for brunettes/ darker haired women. But I have also noticed that a lot of guys with dark hair seem to really like blonde women. Has anyone else noticed this?

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    I don't care hot is hot, but its not like she was hating cuz she had a preference of hair color.

    I generally go for girls with super long dark thick str8 black hair down past her waistline cuz I have a thing for that shiny strong silkiness that goes along with it most of the time, but I'll go for chicks with pink or blue pixie short hair as well. I love women blonde, brunettes, redheads & everything else.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelCummings View Post
    This is very interesting! I don't really factor in similar hair color when making decisions as far as who I choose as friends. In fact, I think that sometimes I have subconsciously sought out friends who look different then me, because it makes me stand out more in a crowd! I don't think one is better than the other. I have seen stunning brunettes and gorgeous blondes (and redheads too, for that matter). I have also seen some fugly brunettes and some blondes who were absolutely hideous, no matter how much they dyed their hair or caked on the makeup. There is no "right" hair color, it really just depends on what works with your skin color and undertones, and eye color.

    As far as men go, I've never really been attracted to blonde men. Something just looks a little too "soft" to me, it's hard to explain.I have a strong preference for men with dark hair. I find though that a lot of blonde men hit on me even though I'm brunette, and I've come in contact with quite a few blonde men who had a preference for brunettes/ darker haired women. But I have also noticed that a lot of guys with dark hair seem to really like blonde women. Has anyone else noticed this?
    The ex of mine who looks wise was exactly what I wanted had dark hair and dark eyes. So this goes against my "same type" idea. But normally guys that are blonde tend to go for brunettes so idk why this one blonde guy customer is all about me. I have been in ltrs with both brown haired and blonde haired guys..so there is no point proven in that dept. Guess everything is on a case by case basis.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UV69 View Post
    I don't care hot is hot, but its not like she was hating cuz she had a preference of hair color.

    I generally go for girls with super long dark thick str8 black hair down past her waistline cuz I have a thing for that shiny strong silkiness that goes along with it most of the time, but I'll go for chicks with pink or blue pixie short hair as well. I love women blonde, brunettes, redheads & everything else.

    Actually the female customer if thats what u were referring to was hating on blondes. I was up and she straight up said I prefer brunettes while I was on stage. I was nice to her about it bc frankly guys were putting up money for me to dance for her. Quite honestly the female customer was a brunette and she went on and on in front of me about how she wanted to see this one brunette. Overall the girl was rude and if it wasnt for the fact she was bringing me in money I prolly wouldve said something shitty to her and wouldve cared less what she said afterwards. But I wanted the money in front of her and said "Oh, thats cool not everyone likes blondes". I was cool only bc I didnt want to run off business when its been non existant i the clubs most of the time. Actually last Sun night it was reported that only 3-4 customers walked through the bar all night long.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shift_6x View Post
    Actually the female customer if thats what u were referring to was hating on blondes. I was up and she straight up said I prefer brunettes while I was on stage. I was nice to her about it bc frankly guys were putting up money for me to dance for her. Quite honestly the female customer was a brunette and she went on and on in front of me about how she wanted to see this one brunette. Overall the girl was rude and if it wasnt for the fact she was bringing me in money I prolly wouldve said something shitty to her and wouldve cared less what she said afterwards. But I wanted the money in front of her and said "Oh, thats cool not everyone likes blondes". I was cool only bc I didnt want to run off business when its been non existant i the clubs most of the time. Actually last Sun night it was reported that only 3-4 customers walked through the bar all night long.
    Wait all you have said so far was that she said she prefers brunettes & wanted to see another brunette. Hatin would be saying something negatives about blondes, but maybe it was in the attitude I'm sorry I wasn't there & I don't take offense to any1 having a preference unless they were dissing or saying something negative to you which of course would be uncalled for hating & rude.
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    I always say I like petite brunettes but as of late I have wound up in bed with tall skinny redheads with small tits. I don't purposely look for them it just winds up that way...
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    Quote Originally Posted by UV69 View Post
    Wait all you have said so far was that she said she prefers brunettes & wanted to see another brunette. Hatin would be saying something negatives about blondes, but maybe it was in the attitude I'm sorry I wasn't there & I don't take offense to any1 having a preference unless they were dissing or saying something negative to you which of course would be uncalled for hating & rude.

    The girl was sitting directly in front of me at my runway(I am the only one on it) with a few guys next to her and said in front of my face "I prefer brunettes". I am a blonde and idk how much more insulting that can be while I am up there trying to work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    I always say I like petite brunettes but as of late I have wound up in bed with tall skinny redheads with small tits. I don't purposely look for them it just winds up that way...

    Sounds like u just prefer a diff flavor of the week lol.

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