I work in a bklyn club. The chics are ghetto. They all are always striving to shoe who's the "baddest" of them all. I sooo don't fit in. I keep to myself and have like 1 real aquaintance who I talk to. I'm very professional and pleasant. So no drama basically. However I'm noticing certain people trying to mess with me. The bouncer was a DOUCHE the other night and I never even spoke to him before! I asked him a polite question and he was rude and then later in the night he told me off out of nowhere when i was in the car with his other bouncer buddy who was giving me a ride. I didn't know the way to the train and I thought the guy knew so it was simply a misunderstanding. He was like "omg. WTF? Blah blah blah u don't know where the fuck u are going?! Omg!" and the stupidest part was it was NOT his car!!
And I was like soooo exhausted and shocked I was like "why are u talking to me like that?" and he just was being soooo mean and without merit. I hate confrontation as I am someone who explodes. So I stayed calm and ignored him while telling the driver to let me out. After getting home I was fuming!! I thought of a good way to tell him off after I slept and had a brain to think with. By that time it was too late Of course. So now he thinks im a doormat i bet!
Now I'm dying to tell him off when i see him but yet I don't want to be branded as yet
another ghetto chic AND yet I know I need to say SOMETHING or I will look like a doormat since I didn't lay into him like he deserved. How do I balance standing up for
myself VS ending up fired or worse in jail from arguing/fighting with future idiots? In
this urban club I can tell if I don't yell a little from time to time going to be trampled. AOk thx. And no the manager doesn't care. ANY strategies for dealing with a-holes who are loud ghetto and mean???? I can't afford to go to jail so don't say "if I were u I would knock them out if i were u blah blah blah"



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