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    Default A question about being shy.

    Im trying to renew my persona.
    When i lived with my parents (Im in my new place btw, I did my cam room in pink french theme , with the xpert xpole , and the built in spa sized tub right next to it)
    Anyways , when i lived with them, I couldn't be really loud , The internet was horrible so it was kinda like a photo show..

    I want to be more active, but old habits die hard.. I need some serious tips on being interactive with the room , Especially if its empty. I rarely want to entertain 2 people.
    So what are some new things i can try
    I already do tits4gold , And tried to inter grade the pole in with it, But not to many are impressed lol.
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    Default Re: A question about being shy.

    ..put on some fast tempo music and dance to it..
    look like ur having fun..it ll loosen u up in the process

    ..have a sip of wine? ive seen models drink wine/alcohol and talk like Speedy Gonzalez

    ..dance slowly/strip on ur pole..show some intermediate moves to some sexy-ass music?
    OR
    ..do something out the ordinary on cam..something u enjoy talking about and that will have u and ur men's attention
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    Default Re: A question about being shy.

    k, this is gonna sound so retarded I'm almost embarassed to be writing it...but anyway...when I started camming, I lived alone. After work, I'd come home, do school work for hours, and then log-in 'cold' to a 'free-chat' site. I found the first 20 mins or so was always torture, as I hadn't 'warmed up' or really gotten in the mood to have fun AND sell those privates. What I found really helped was to blast some tunes, dance around til I freaked out the cats, singing at the top of my lungs. Then I'd get on cam, all giddy off endorphins with cheeks flushed.
    My aim was to create an atmosphere in my room where, whether I had 5 visitors or 25, a guy just coming in would feel like he had stumbled upon a really fun thang in progress...and I found that had WAY more to do with my attitude and demeanor on cam than it did the actual number of people who were already watching me. My warm up routine also helped me start earning from the very beginning of each shift.
    My advice? Warming yourself up is way more important than making sure hair/make-up/outfit is prisine and perfect, just do something you find fun as a part of your pre-cam routine,and carry that feeling with you when you do log on.
    and p.s. if that's you in your avatar you are GORGEOUS, carry that reality with you in your head when you work that pole and talk to the guys

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