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    Default Ok I need to rant...

    Ok so... I had (what I thought) was a BRILLANT idea to bring my most gorgeous friend over tonight to cam with me! (She's a cam virgin) Thought we could have a few drinks and make out/play on cam... well, it turned out to be a horrible idea. I found out later (after she left and some regs told me) she was taking shots every time I wasn't looking! She ended up getting absolutely WASTED within the first hour. She said she only had 10 (which is a lot) but I honeslty believe she had more... she used my real name like FIVE times, kept showing her tits before anyone tipped, falling over, yelling, etc etc. I'm soooooooooooo pissed off... she's beautiful and we could have possibly made a ton tonight, but she ruined it for us both within the first hour of being on cam. I'm so pissed, I tried to get online again after but i'm seriously only getting like 20 people in my room cuz my camscore took a nose dive... I just gave up. Ugh, sorry for bitching. I just had to get it out. Not like I can say "Mia got too drunk on MFC tonight and made us lose out in what could have been a shit load of tokens" on FB or anything

    Oh, btw... this is her: GORGEOUS right??






    PS: anyone live in central cali wanna cam with me??
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    Default Re: Ok I need to rant...

    SMH .....yea any girl can cam is a lie! lol
    She is foul for the real name shit tho
    Sounds like a drnk to me.
    I have that issue everyday....
    Hella girls over ....No common sense ....its sad!
    I feel like im in the French Revolution!!!!!! "Sooooo Many heads sooooo little time!!"


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    Default Re: Ok I need to rant...

    I'm sorry that happened, that majorly sucks. If I was in Cali I'd cam with you, but I'm a few hours away.

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    Default Re: Ok I need to rant...

    I had a similar thing happen to me. Had a friend over to cam and thought it was a great idea but it was nothing like I imagined. The whole time she kept going on about how fat she looked (out loud to the whole room) When this girl is clearly skinnier than me lol. Went on about how cheap all the guys were, how she's worth so much more etc etc. All round fail!

    And yeah she's hot. But looks alone definitely don't make a camgirl.

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    Aww that sucks.... I'm in Cali! hehe
    She's pretty but like PurpleSkye said.... doesn't make her a cam girl!
    "Strippers are like pet tigers. They are nice to look at but they are not for everyone."

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    LOL Welcome to being in porn. Just because someone is beautiful doesn't mean they are going to be great on camera.

    Look at some of the top gals on every cam site. There are tons of top earning gals who are not 10's at all. PERSONALITY! is key.

    The fact that she had to drink in order to do it says it all right there. Plus, it is ILLEGAL to provide someone with alcohol or anyother drugs to do porn. Camming is porn. Under the law you must be sober & of sound mind to do this job. So Shame on you for getting her involved with something she clearly didn't want to do. And pray that she doesn't sue you for it in the future.

    No matter what the job is, if you have to drink in order to do it then it isn't the job for you.

    Of course, she said your real name. It is what she has done your entire friendship.

    What you did by putting her on cam is ruin a friendship. Hope it was worth it. I would never do that to any of my friends who don't do porn.

    I don't feel bad for you at all, but I do for her.

    Camming isn't for everyone. Porn isn't for everyone. Camming is porn. Any so-called normal job will see it that way too.

    You should NOT be posting her pic here and take down any material involving her in this calamity.

    Sam

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    Default Re: Ok I need to rant...

    Camgirl Rule #75: Never get a non-professional involved in your business, and never give them alcohol. Take it as a lesson learned.

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    It amazes me sometimes just how little girls who have never worked in the sex industry know about how to act during a job like camming/stripping/whatever. I know it's not like I knew everything at the very beginning but I think even back in my newbie days, I knew enough to not act like I was on Girls Gone Wild.

    I don't think this girl was forced into anything, and it's her own fault she got so wasted if she kept taking shots when the OP wasn't looking. But I agree you should take her pictures down. She's gorgeous, and she did fuck up, but no matter how badly I embarrassed a friend with my drunken mistakes, I would find it disrespectful to post my picture on the internet in regards to complaining about me... I doubt anyone here knows her, but still.

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    Oh man, what a bummer. I don't think I'd have her on cam again. It sounds like she didn't want to do it and because of that she drank too much and messed everything up.


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    Default Re: Ok I need to rant...

    I think most of you are being WAAAY too harsh on the OP
    I mean come on some girls are just sloshy and dont understand this is a job so she got wasted and acted like a kid on chat roulette or some other chatroom where silly-gals go to act a fool online, I have known tons of those kinds of girls. She obviously didnt do anything against her will and any moron who got on cam shouldn't freak out if a picture is up online somewhere, its just a beauty photo anyway geeze not titts and twat.
    But seiousley she was just being a drunk hoe, witch is not good for business, but I dont think its anything to ruin a friendship over and she obviously was having fun and wasn't tricked on cam, its just life people drink, make mistakes, its not like she killed anyone, so I think all this crime talk is just a little over the top...
    But I am sorry things didn't work out for you.

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    Default Re: Ok I need to rant...

    Thanks for all the comments...

    As for Sam38g, I have a FEW things I'd like to say to you... refering to your quote "it is ILLEGAL to provide someone with alcohol or anyother drugs to do porn. Shame on you for getting her involved with something she clearly didn't want to do. And pray that she doesn't sue you for it in the future."

    Most ridiculous thing I've heard all day. FIRST off, camming is definitely not pornography, lol. But idk I think that's an entirely different topic that is pretty subjective and I think everyone has their own opinion on it but that is mine... and what little we DID do last night on cam definitelyyyyy does not fall under the category of porn, sorry.

    Also... SHE provided with ME with the alcohol, lol. AND, I didn't get her involved in anything she didn't want to do! She made the SOBER decision to get on cam with me, before even a single drop of alcohol was consumed. It was definitely her fault for drinking past her limit, espcially behind my back because I could have at least stopped her if I knew she was drinking that much. She's an adult... she made her own big girl decisons last night.

    As for posting her pics, it's the fucking internet. People post other people's picture without their permission all over the place. Ever heard of facebook? It isn't illegal and it's not like i'm "Oh look at what an ugly ho of a friend I have" I'm actually saying the opposite. She's gorgeous and I wanted to make a point most all of you got immediately, not everyone can be a cam girl regardless of how hot/pretty you are!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by EternalRose View Post
    I think most of you are being WAAAY too harsh on the OP
    I mean come on some girls are just sloshy and dont understand this is a job so she got wasted and acted like a kid on chat roulette or some other chatroom where silly-gals go to act a fool online, I have known tons of those kinds of girls. She obviously didnt do anything against her will and any moron who got on cam shouldn't freak out if a picture is up online somewhere, its just a beauty photo anyway geeze not titts and twat.
    But seiousley she was just being a drunk hoe, witch is not good for business, but I dont think its anything to ruin a friendship over and she obviously was having fun and wasn't tricked on cam, its just life people drink, make mistakes, its not like she killed anyone, so I think all this crime talk is just a little over the top...
    But I am sorry things didn't work out for you.
    Thank you

    She came over today to get her stuff and feels really bad about it, definitely not going to ruin our friendship, she knows her behavior last night was innappropriate and wants to make it up to me today by taking me out to lunch

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    Did NOT say she forced her friend to do this.

    But It is against the law to do porn drunk or high. She and the cam company can be legally held responsible. It was her cam, it was her idea and she did allow alcohol to be apart of the show.

    How could she NOT know the girl was doing more shots? They were in the same room after all.

    If any of you had taken the time to read the contracts you sign, it states that you can NOT be under the influence of drugs or alcohol while camming. Companies have these rules for a reason.

    If her friend regrets what she did that night to be exposed on a porn site dressed or not then she can sue both the model & the cam company.

    Just because many others may do the same does NOT make it legal in the eyes of the law.

    Obviously they are NOT great friends because she came on here and threw her friend under the bus the 1st chance she got. Instead of feeling bad for putting her friend under pressure to do something she obviously was NOT comfortable doing.

    She was well aware the girl had done 10 shots... OMG I have never done 10 shot in my life in one night, much less an hour. And I weigh twice as much as that girl, I would be shit faced & passed out at that point.

    A girl weighing what? 100 to 120 doing 10 shots in an hour. Is CRAZY! drunk at that point. Not like they had a glass of wine to loosen up, but 10 shots. I am surprised that the girl didn't end up in the hospital if she was drinking more than that. If any of my friends were doing 10 shots in an hour, I would be worried about their state of mind and not let them drive or anything else at that point. 10 shots is NOT normal under any conditions.

    Heck, even when I was a stripper if a new girl just started they only had 2 NOT 10 shots.

    10 shots and this girl is surprised at the bad behavior?

    The whole message is weird to me. She was worried about her money & not her friend. Worried about her cam score more so than what is legal or right.


    Yes, there is a learning curve to every job, even camming. Yet, she didn't have that same consideration for her friend on that matter.

    We all may try things that don't pan out. I tried camming out of a pool, didn't work. But I didn't get upset with anyone other than myself.

    My opinion is not changed. She is being hard on her friend about this.... and I find her to be in the wrong all the way around on the matter.

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    CAMMING IS PORN

    What is the difference?
    There is a camera?
    There is an audience?
    You hope to make money off of your looks and sexuality.

    You masterbate in front of men jacking off.
    The whole goal is to make money off of men jacking off.
    There is no difference.

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    Default Re: Ok I need to rant...

    "How could she NOT know the girl was doing more shots? They were in the same room after all."
    -Yeah we were camming the same room, however I went to the kitchen, went outside to smoke, went to the bathroom a few times, etc etc. I made it extremely easy for her to take shots behind my back... but I didn't think she would??

    "Obviously they are NOT great friends because she came on here and threw her friend under the bus the 1st chance she got. Instead of feeling bad for putting her friend under pressure to do something she obviously was NOT comfortable doing."
    -W.T.F... How the hell did I throw her under the bus? She made the clear, SOBER decision to do this! Why would I feel bad for anything other than the fact that I wish I kept count of how much she was drinking... she wanted to do this just as much as I did.

    "She was well aware the girl had done 10 shots..."
    -No. I wasn't. At least not until she was piss drunk and started repeatedly using my real name, falling over, and acting like an idiot.

    "She was worried about her money & not her friend. Worried about her cam score more so than what is legal or right."
    -Yep. Which is totally why I cut her off when I realized how drunk she was and gave her water, took her car keys, and called her bf to have him come pick her up. Money is obviously more important than my friend.

    "My opinion is not changed."
    -Your opinion sucks.

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    wow she's pretty but has some serious addiction problems if she's doing 10+ shots a night

    To be fair maybe she was really nervous and was "self medicating"?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    CAMMING IS PORN

    What is the difference?
    There is a camera?
    There is an audience?
    You hope to make money off of your looks and sexuality.

    You masterbate in front of men jacking off.
    The whole goal is to make money off of men jacking off.
    There is no difference.

    Sam
    So if someone brings a camera into a strip club is it considered porn now?
    I see where you're getting at but camming isn't THAT extreme to be considered doing porn.... Atleast to me.
    And I don't masturbate in my shows.
    "Strippers are like pet tigers. They are nice to look at but they are not for everyone."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady Xplicit18 View Post
    So if someone brings a camera into a strip club is it considered porn now?
    I see where you're getting at but camming isn't THAT extreme to be considered doing porn.... Atleast to me.
    And I don't masturbate in my shows.
    I consider non-nude sites porn because of the definition of pornography.

    — n
    1. writings, pictures, films, etc, designed to stimulate sexual excitement
    2. the production of such material

    If we are doing something 'designed to stimulate sexual excitement' for profit then it is pornography.

    I don't have a problem with pornography or being thought of as a sex worker, but that's just me.

    As for the OP's friend. I'm sorry that happened to both of you. I've had the same thing happen to me. I didn't tell anyone when I started camming. But I finally caved and told my best friend and girl friend after she kept pushing asking why I was so busy all the time.

    Then she wanted to cam. But she got so nervous when she went on and also had to get completely wasted and high to cam. She convinced me to do a girl/girl show with her because she said it would help her relax.

    She still had to get fucked up and kept completely forgetting we were on cam. She was also saying my name and I kept having to talk over her and had to deal with her and the customers.

    It was exhausting and I shouldn't have agreed to it. But you live and learn.

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