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    Default Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

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    Guys are constantly scratching my back/arms. We're sitting at the bar conversing, he's scratching my back. I'm dancing for him, he's scratching my back. I'm going for a walk in the park, he appears out of the bushes and scratches my back.

    When they're drunk it's even worse, they do it over and over again....hard. Did I tell you I was itchy? Notice how I'm not scratching you? It's not sexy. It stings. So stop it.

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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    that's weird... do you have a unique skin complexion or something?

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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    Unique? No, not at all. Unless you count being black? lol

    This doesn't happen to you guys? Just me? I don't think I've ever made it through a shift without being scratched! lol smh

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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    I have some customers who really enjoy rubbing my back or lightly running their fingers over it, but never scratching. Have you told them to stop?

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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    Is it like actual scratching, or that thing where guys lightly run their nails over your skin? If it's the first, that's bizarre but quite amusing. If it's the second, some guys think (misguidedly, IMO) it's a turn-on/feels good.

    Also, I've given up trying to explain why drunk people do certain things.

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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    huh?? that's even weirder, is the club is near a park or something???

    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    Because there are a lot of people who think lightly running nails over skin feels nice... and some strip club customers are retarded so they expect to be able to sit next to you for free and touch you like they would thier girlfriend.

    HATE when they jump out of the bushes and start trying to hold my hand. Me letting you pretend I'm your girlfriend ends in the club, fucko... you don't get free walks in the park.

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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    agreed. not sexy.. creepy. unless I say, hey I am itchy from camping, its just gross and weird. Older guys like to do this too. WHY? ew.

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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    Quote Originally Posted by Addison View Post
    [rant]

    Guys are constantly scratching my back/arms. We're sitting at the bar conversing, he's scratching my back. I'm dancing for him, he's scratching my back. I'm going for a walk in the park, he appears out of the bushes and scratches my back.

    When they're drunk it's even worse, they do it over and over again....hard. Did I tell you I was itchy? Notice how I'm not scratching you? It's not sexy. It stings. So stop it.

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    I find this clever and true. They DO scratch. I don't know why some men seem to like it. Or seem to think we like it. Silly men.



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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    I've never had that happen to me before? I get a lot of guys that like to massage me which I also hate blegh get your hands off me

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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    I have this bizarrely soft skin which invites a lot of touching and commenting. I can't tell you how many times I have been in this converstaion:

    Hey, you have really soft skin. Do you do anyth8ing to it?

    Me: No, it's just that way.

    Him (Stroking my skin) Hey, Joe, come here ane touch this strripper. She's r4eally soft!

    Joe: (Also stroking me) Yeah, youre right. Hey fred! come here and touch this girl. . She feels amazing!

    Fred: You are so right! Hey Al .......

    So before long, Ther ecan be as many as 4 or 5 guys standing around, petting me lik ethe family cat. Weird!


    But to answer the OP, Ye4s i have been scratched before. People enjoy doing crap like that, along with pinching, biting, hair pulling, etc, that I have taken to telling them at the beginning of the dance that they are not allowed to hurt me. I have no idea why anyone would want to do this, but they do.


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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    I don't get scratched , but I have received quite a few painful "massages" from customers. The best part is when I tell them that's not necessary and they say "oh Im just trying to make you feel good!" . Um pulling at my skin and roughly kneading my back and neck does NOT feel good!

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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    I fucking hate those massages.

    Never gotten scratched, but I did have a guy ask to see my nails and then pay me 5 bucks to scratch his back for him. Haha.

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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    I'm a weirdo and I very rarely get upset when a customer tries to give me a massage. Even if the massage kinda sucks I just love massages. I was actually thinking about starting a poll about this.

    Do you ...
    A. Like getting massages from customers
    B. Tolerate it if you're getting paid
    C. Hate massages from customers

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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    I love massages too, but Im talking about when the guy literally just pulls at my skin and really has no idea what hes doing. I dont even consider that an actual massage lmao!

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    Default Re: Why, sir? Why are you scratching me?

    I would rather be scratched than the kind of bs guys try to pull on me! ie, slapping my ass when unexpectedly or getting too touchy feely.

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