Great forum, lots of valuable info - thanks for the time.
I'm a middle aged guy, but new to the SC scene and have gone to clubs only about 10 times now (all in the last few months). However, at one particular club I met a great woman and I have really enjoyed her attention. I buy dances and drinks and she spends a lot of time hanging out and talking as well - very enjoyable. She gives great dances, very sensual and erotic - but 2-way touching is pretty much limited to her hips and back (rules established on the first dance). Still awesome, but really leaves me crazy for just a little more contact (she's doing her job very well).
Here's the dilemma. At this same club I have had only a few dances from other ladies, but have had them place my hands all over their bodies and really encourage a lot of touching. I'm a guy, that feels great and is very tempting when considering how to allocate my scarce dollars. In many threads on this forum I have seen ladies take tremendous offense to guys requesting a higher touch dance stating that "we are not whores" and I definitely understand that and do not want to communicate anything even close to that to her. I'm wondering what you ladies would recommend with regard to my favorite given what other ladies in the club are happy to do (I'm talking touching above the waist, nothing else). A higher mileage dance would guarantee her all of my budgeted cash, but I really don't want to offend her with a question that appears to be taken with offense quite often.
Am I better off leaving things as they are and let her communicate increased boundaries if she decides to, and get dances from other ladies when I'm in the mood for a higher touch dance, or discuss the question? I know this is supposed to be all about the money and I'd just as soon give it all to her if the rules were the same for all the ladies, but clearly this is a "touchy" topic with some, but not others.
Thanks for the time and any advice.


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