I wanted to get your opinion or what would you do in my situation.
I been with my boyfriend for 2 years, before that we were friends for 7 years. He is truly an amazing guy, hes sweet to me, listen to me and pretty much all around great guy, if we broke up. I believe we would remind friends forever.
But the problem is hes really poor, he has a dead an job that barely pays anything. He's still living with his mother (Which i could understand cause she is in her 60s and I wouldn't want her to live alone anyways.) and really he cannot afford his own place.
I never been the type of girl that requires a guy to have money to date me and when i was younger...money never was an issue, cause as long as you have love its all good lol
But I am at the age in my life where I would like to have securities and a nice outlook on my future life. Whenever we go out I mostly pay cause he honestly don't have any money and I can afford it. I really don't mind paying for now but forever? I don't think so.
I love him alot, hes the best guy ever and we have such a good friendship and love connection. But at the same time I'm nervous about my future with him, I don't want to take care of him for the rest of my life. I want to be taken care of. I'm always taking care of people, so I really want a man that can finally take care of me.
I guess I'm really just stuck, I love him yet I don't know can I see a future with him. He said he'll go back to school and get an education to get me the life I deserve but I guess time can only tell if he will follow through...and should I even wait for that...
Have you ever been in this situation? what would you ladies do?




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