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    Default Finding A Roomate in the Adult Industry?

    So I've been thinking about how nice it would be to find a roomate who is a camgirl/stripper/escort/adult model, etc. because I really need to find someone who is comfortable with the fact that I'm a camgirl/pso and would respect my desire to keep this work private (aka not blab my business to everyone lol). Where do you think would be the best place to find someone like this, preferrably a college student like me? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! Thanks

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    Specify you want "open minded, respectable roomates".

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    I'm in the same boat as you dude...It would be nice to get a house but it's so fucking expensive out here. He wanted one of his friends and his gf to move in and I was like "hell no". Dealing with non strippers is a pain in the ass. (and for those of you awesome ladies like lopaw you know I don't mean you) I mean the average plain Jane run of the mill working at Wal Mart, mid 20's slightly overweight and insecure that her boyfriend wants to fuck me or vice versa.

    And as for finding a fellow dancer at my club the ones that don't have a place/man or both are druggies, whores, thieves or a combination of the above. -_-
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    [quote=tempest666;2169996]I'm in the same boat as you dude...It would be nice to get a house but it's so fucking expensive out here. He wanted one of his friends and his gf to move in and I was like "hell no". Dealing with non strippers is a pain in the ass. (and for those of you awesome ladies like lopaw you know I don't mean you) I mean the average plain Jane run of the mill working at Wal Mart, mid 20's slightly overweight and insecure that her boyfriend wants to fuck me or vice versa.

    And as for finding a fellow dancer at my club the ones that don't have a place/man or both are druggies, whores, thieves or a combination of the above. -_-[/quote]

    See this is what I'm afraid of too, potentially. I don't do drugs and, contrary to what a lot of idiots assume about girls who work in the sex-related industry, I'm not a whore (or even that sexual, for that matter). Other than the fact that I work in the adult industry, I'm pretty straightlaced. Not saying anyone who isn't is bad, but I wouldn't feel comfortable just rooming with ANYONE, ya know? I would prefer someone who doesn't engage in any illegal activities whatsoever (um, yeah that includes weed lol), won't bring random guys home or come home drunk in the wee hours of the morning, and kind of does it on the downlow, like me. And someone who was a college student like me so they wouldn't have time to meddle in my business and we could have certain hours that were quiet so we could study But idk if this is asking too much... lol

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    I'm in the same boat as you dude...It would be nice to get a house but it's so fucking expensive out here. He wanted one of his friends and his gf to move in and I was like "hell no". Dealing with non strippers is a pain in the ass. (and for those of you awesome ladies like lopaw you know I don't mean you) I mean the average plain Jane run of the mill working at Wal Mart, mid 20's slightly overweight and insecure that her boyfriend wants to fuck me or vice versa.

    And as for finding a fellow dancer at my club the ones that don't have a place/man or both are druggies, whores, thieves or a combination of the above. -_-[/quote]

    See this is what I'm afraid of too, potentially. I don't do drugs and, contrary to what a lot of idiots assume about girls who work in the sex-related industry, I'm not a whore (or even that sexual, for that matter). Other than the fact that I work in the adult industry, I'm pretty straightlaced. Not saying anyone who isn't is bad, but I wouldn't feel comfortable just rooming with ANYONE, ya know? I would prefer someone who doesn't engage in any illegal activities whatsoever (um, yeah that includes weed lol), won't bring random guys home or come home drunk in the wee hours of the morning, and kind of does it on the downlow, like me. And someone who was a college student like me so they wouldn't have time to meddle in my business and we could have certain hours that were quiet so we could study But idk if this is asking too much... lol
    what about random girls?
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    I would be your perfect room mate lol. I sometimes think I want a room mate but most of the time.. I think I'm too crazy. I like to wake up in the middle of the night and work. I just can't handle people trying to get into my business just cause they are bored..

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    my suggestion is DON'T GO THERE !!! While it's remotely possible that you could find a roommate who is 100% trustworthy, also involved in the 'adult entertainment' business, free from personal / legal problems, and discreet, unfortunately the odds highly favor the opposite.

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    What state do you live in?

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    Tell me about it ... I wish I could find someone who was okay with it ... one bedroom places are too pricey!
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    Dude if you were here in PA I'd totally be your roomie. I don't want some chubby little bitch who makes 8.00 an hour at Target who's jealous of me because she thinks I want to fuck her boyfriend.
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    There should be some sort of board for cam girls / strippers / escorts / etc. But it would likely be hacked or something by the nerdy guys lmao
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    As cool as the idea is...I would be super very incredibly wary and paranoid.

    I can imagine, it would be like the stripper lockerroom (my only experience, stories Ive read here on SW) to the nth degree. I cant begin to imagine how much it would suck if you are having a good streak and doing great...she business isnt so good for her...the jealousy or backlash that can come of that.

    Sometimes, our worst enemies can be the ones we're working right next to.

    That being said...for me to come remotely close to this..it would have to be someone that Ive known and corresponded with for awhile, and have a really good idea of...that we get along no only business wise, but also on a personal level. Work aside, all the issues of living with someone, period, would come into play.

    Like...though I am on the boards and active here, I have *a lot of other crap going on* and am not here all the time. No offense to anyone at all please dont take it this way!!! But!! I would feel that someone who has a lot of extra time to be on the boards, would sort of start looking at, towards me as company to hang out and spend time with...and Im just not down with that.

    Its summer, and kiddo and I spend pretty much all day every day in my apt together..and i see her like..twice a day. Usually when its time to eat...shes the perfect roommate...we pretty much ignore each other Im not so much a perfect roomate..when I do have my bored moments, I annoy the shit out of her for amusement. That being said..yeah,Id probably be hard to live with. "I wanna get out the house..wanna go to CVS with me?" "Um...no, I need more conditioner though." "Come with me!!!!" "Nah..thanks though" "We can have lunch!!! Lets go out for lunch" She peer over at me and I can tell what shes thinking....please call a friend or get yourself a bf, I dont wanna go!!! "Its okay mom...but thanks!"

    *sigh!* Teenagers..dang!

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    I agree with Melonie 100%. I've never had good experiences with roommates. Every female roommate I've ever had turned out to be an insecure little bitch - even when I wasn't a stripper - and bailed out of the lease. Living with guys is just "ugh" - they're pigs. Both in terms of the mess around the house and in talking about your job. They don't respect your space/time/tools/anything. And girls who are fellow sex-workers... I've never met one I would trust to live with. (Not to be saying anything against the girls on here - I don't know anyone from SW that intimately lol). I have one female friend that I know would be cool with me doing sex work, but she is incredibly needy, like BlkSharpie was talking about. She would always be distracting me or meddling in my business and I just don't want that.

    I've come to the conclusion that, fellow sex-worker or not, roommates are just never worth the hassle. Unless I was moving in with a bf/fiance or something, I'll never go there again.

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    Girls, come to Chicago! I have trolled cl many times, & barely got an answer, unless it was from some one w/12 cats or something. Which I love animals, but not all that, + I have my bunny, which ppl do not like!
    Actually, though I want to get the hell out of the midwest flood plain!
    I agree w/Melonie, also


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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Girls, come to Chicago! I have trolled cl many times, & barely got an answer, unless it was from some one w/12 cats or something. Which I love animals, but not all that, + I have my bunny, which ppl do not like!
    Actually, though I want to get the hell out of the midwest flood plain!
    I agree w/Melonie, also

    omfg <3 I LOVE BUNNIES!!!!!!!!! too bad I have snakes! I don't feed bunnies because they are cute. I feed chickens, rats, guinea pigs and handsy mexicans
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    I've done it and sorry to say I can't recommend it. I had all of the above issues even down to her trying to get me fired from a club I juiced her into! When she made more money everything was great and when she didn't make more she got snarky and destructive. Just try to find someone stable financially and emotionally and make friends outside the home.
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    I'd highly recommend against living with a fellow sex worker. though you may be clean and drug free a lot of sex workers have drug habits which is the whole reason they started stripping/camming/escorting. even if you THINK a girl is trustworthy she could be a total different person. I've been shocked dozens of times at how many people I thought were clean and ended up being heroin or coke addicts. a couple of my closest work buddies got fired for stealing and I would have NEVER suspected them. if there's one things strippers are good at it's LYING.

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