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    Default New to having a sugar daddy - any advice?

    He took me on a weekend trip out of state (which is all my schedule would allow, he wanted to go longer) that included having my own hotel room, shopping, and sight-seeing. We've been seeing each other for a few weeks which has included multiple shopping trips and fancy dinners, but I'm not sure how to go about getting more of a financial gain from it rather than purely material (i.e clothes/makeup/shoes are not going to pay my bills, unfortunately...)? This is my first experience with a SD type of relationship so I'm not really sure what to expect or how to handle it so it'd be great to get input from someone who knows more than I do.

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    Default Re: New to having a sugar daddy - any advice?

    Just tell him you appreciate the shopping trip, but you need some money for bills. When I had sugar daddies I told them I don't want to go shopping, I just want cash.
    You can just say something like I really appreciate the shopping trip it was a lot of fun, and I love the (blah blah whatever) you bought me. But I need some money to take care of a few things, next time we meet lets (go dancing, to dinner, to a movie, etc) instead of shopping.

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    Default Re: New to having a sugar daddy - any advice?

    Easy! From now on Next shopping trips get only jewelry. That way, their value never decreases and you can always sell them for cash.
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    >Easy! From now on Next shopping trips get only jewelry. That way, their value never decreases and you can always sell them for cash.

    Not to toss too much cold water on this plan, but. Buying jewelry is like buying a car: as soon as you drive it off the lot, it loses half it's value. Jewelry is awesome, but you will never recoup what was paid for it - unless it's a rare estate piece. And for that to happen, you pretty much have to be dead or famous. Or a combination of the two.

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    Default Re: New to having a sugar daddy - any advice?

    Unfortunately, I'm not famous and I don't think I'll be dead anytime soon so I'm going to probably not go for the jewelry option. But I think h0ttie's idea to just ask for money to take care of a few things is probably the best plan of action.

    I'm seeing him tomorrow so hopefully it goes well, lol!

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    I wouldn't worry about it too much. Since he has no qualms about taking you shopping I doubt he will balk at the idea with giving you cash to help out with bills and things. If you are hesitant to mention bills you can simply say that you need some money to keep yourself beautiful until you next see him, he doesn't need to know you didn't use that money for the spa.

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    Default Re: New to having a sugar daddy - any advice?

    Girl go for the money. Tell him your momma needs an operation and has no insurance. With a tear in your eye ask if he can help.

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    Default Re: New to having a sugar daddy - any advice?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kat w View Post
    If you are hesitant to mention bills you can simply say that you need some money to keep yourself beautiful until you next see him, he doesn't need to know you didn't use that money for the spa.
    That is the best idea ever! Definitely trying that out tonight.
    I brought up having problems paying my bills the other night and it just felt really weird. It probably wouldn't to anyone who's been in this situation before, but to me it was kind of odd.

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    Default Re: New to having a sugar daddy - any advice?

    It's a bit weird also to ask for money and pretend that there's family having medical need etc but I think it's about time to learn.
    I used to feel bad asking money.. but I believe things can be changed and this art can be perfected.

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