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    WHAT WOULD YOU DO:

    You've been dancing for 10 years, all over. You are a great hustler and make money, however the industry is waring on you. You moved back to your home state after a very bad relationship. You needed friends and family for support, unfortunately the "real" job you have in this state is crap. Even though you are fulfilled by it spiritually, you are headed to become very, very broke. Having worked all over the country, the clubs in your state are shit. 15 dollar dances, when you are used to doing 3 for a hundred.

    1. A friend has offered you a place to live on the west coast, a 45 min flight from Las Vegas. 9 hour drive. You've worked there recently (again after the crap that happened in the other post), did great, and reunited with old coworker. The place where you would live has lots of job opportunities for you in your "real" job. However, how would you explain your moving AGAIN to your family? They are unaware of what you do, and you feel guilt.

    2. Stay in the current state you are in and fly to other destinations for work. You do have a great support system, but you feel something is lacking. You only returned to this place because you needed support, definately not because of the weather or high cost of living. You are bored majority of the time because you have tried every club and can't stand the nastiness for little pay. You work out, meditate, but find that you are maybe trying to please other people. However, you are hesitant to move because your saftey net is here and afraid you may get sucked back into "the lifestyle".

    In conclusion, I'm looking to balance dancing and my spirtuality, I feel grounded where I am.... but... I'm not happy. ANY THOUGHTS WOULD BE SOOOOO APPRECIATED : )

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    Default Re: Curious:: What would you do??

    You have to do what is best for you and not others. You may have to make that move again even if others don't understand and get upset. You are only young once and nobody is going to build your dreams for you... you have to do it. There are times that we need to make changes that are hard and it separates us from the ones we love... but it will make you stronger.
    Have you ever tried getting out of the club and going private party stripping? Girls and Guys make more money Entertaining that way and in less time. You don't have to deal with a bunch of caddy girls all night long either, less drama.

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    Default Re: Curious:: What would you do??

    I would move to the place with multiple opportunities for success in a heartbeat.

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    However, how would you explain your moving AGAIN to your family? They are unaware of what you do, and you feel guilt.
    There is always a good lie. Always. You shouldn't feel guilty either. You know what is best for you, and if they wouldn't understand you doing what's best for you it's not your problem.

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    Default Re: Curious:: What would you do??

    Zinaida, can we brainstorm and think of one !

    Exotic, thank you, I appreciate your words and agree.

    I think what I need to do is formulate a plan and instead of leaping before I look (which I tend to do, in numerology my life path is 5... freedom and adventure are 2 things i CRAVE)...

    So, I'm going to work at this local shit club til Sept comes along and I can fly to LV. In the mean time, i will work PT at the "real job" to balance me out.

    My goal is to spend holidays with family, and have enough money saved up that I can move to west coast. I am itching to throw my shit in the car by the end of this month, but that would leave me stressed and is super hasty.

    Thanks for your feedback ladies. If you have any other suggestions Id love to hear them

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    Default Re: Curious:: What would you do??

    I would need to know more details, what is your real job and what did your fam think you were doing when you used to live out on the west coast?

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    Default Re: Curious:: What would you do??

    Tell them that in these hard times you need to not lean on them but, make your own way. Thank them for the support and move to where the money is.

    It is honest, though vague. Both sides come away with a feel good attitude on the whole matter.

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