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    you think it's "fucked up" that I don't remember you? maybe you should get your fucking head out of your ass and realize that I meet over a hundred people in a night and if I don't remember YOU it's not because I was trying to make a personal attack, you just don't really stick out in my memory, probably because you spent zero dollars on me and then at the end of the night the image of your face faded into dust. why the fuck do you even care if I remember you? I'm NOT gonna date you, be your friend, or even talk to you if you're not spending money. I doubt we had some deep meaningful conversation, because I never spend more than 5 minutes with a customer before asking for a lap dance. last time I saw you I probably asked you your name, where you're from, what you do for a living, what you do for fun, then asked if you wanted a dance. I do this to EVERYBODY. I don't go into the dressing room between my sets and write down all this information in a notebook

    do you also get mad at the grocery store checkout woman for not remembering you? does it make you mad that her 5 minute transaction with you didn't change her whole life? that you don't stand out from the other 300 people she has to deal with everyday?

    you're not as awesome as you think you are. sorry. go back to sipping your warm beer in the corner.


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    Default Re: "you don't remember me?" that's fucked up!"

    LOL. I love the "you don't remember me?!!?!?!?!?!" logic.

    My response is as follows: "Obviously you didn't spend enough to be memorable."
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    Default Re: "you don't remember me?" that's fucked up!"

    I guess your fantasy-selling was so good they actually believed they were special! I don't specifically look at customers as "wallets and nothing more." I'll genuinely try to remember people, but come on. When I meet at least 50 different guys a night and the majority of them don't even spend anything on me, sorry, but my memory's just not that good. Honestly, the majority of the time I've remembered someone's name, they haven't remembered mine. And my name gets announced over a loudspeaker several times a night.... Ask them if they remember the name of every stripper they've ever talked to. No? Well, I don't remember the name of every customer either.

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    Default Re: "you don't remember me?" that's fucked up!"

    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    I guess your fantasy-selling was so good they actually believed they were special! I don't specifically look at customers as "wallets and nothing more." I'll genuinely try to remember people, but come on. When I meet at least 50 different guys a night and the majority of them don't even spend anything on me, sorry, but my memory's just not that good. Honestly, the majority of the time I've remembered someone's name, they haven't remembered mine. And my name gets announced over a loudspeaker several times a night.... Ask them if they remember the name of every stripper they've ever talked to. No? Well, I don't remember the name of every customer either.
    I'm sooooooooooooo good at getting people to think I like them. unless the guy smells, is sweaty, or has extremely horrible breath I'll get up reeealll close and charm the pants off them. it works to my advantage when the guy wants to spend money but when he just wants my phone number he's like "huhh???? but you're SO into me! we click perfectly!" or when he comes back and asks if I remember him

    I should just start telling people I have brain damage from falling off stage and I can't remember things very well

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    Default Re: "you don't remember me?" that's fucked up!"

    One time I did a VIP with this really nice customer. Great rapport, fair amount of time spent together, fun time had. Well, he came back in the next day (not to see me, just to come in) and damnit if I didn't sit down and say, "It's so good to see you again, when was the last time you were in?"

    .........very uncomfortable silence.....

    ....more silence......

    Then it clicked that I met him the day before. That was very embarassing and he never spoke to me again. I get asked a lot "do you remember me?" Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't, but not remembering someone ONE DAY after we got a VIP? I felt like a jerk.


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    Default Re: "you don't remember me?" that's fucked up!"

    ^^ shit! Next time try and keep a poker face as you realise your mistake then start to smile a little bit then laugh, play it off as if you are teasing him . I do this when I realise I've offended someone and try to play it off as if I was setting them up.
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    Default Re: "you don't remember me?" that's fucked up!"

    Quote Originally Posted by pipermonroe View Post
    One time I did a VIP with this really nice customer. Great rapport, fair amount of time spent together, fun time had. Well, he came back in the next day (not to see me, just to come in) and damnit if I didn't sit down and say, "It's so good to see you again, when was the last time you were in?"

    .........very uncomfortable silence.....

    ....more silence......

    Then it clicked that I met him the day before. That was very embarassing and he never spoke to me again. I get asked a lot "do you remember me?" Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't, but not remembering someone ONE DAY after we got a VIP? I felt like a jerk.
    At least you clearly remembered him. He shouldn't have been that offended... You could have laughed it off by saying something like "Man, the days just rush together/I missed you so much it feels like an eternity from yesterday" or if you had been drinking in VIP "Damn, guess I need to cut back on the drinks, huh?" If he had any sense of humor, he would have been ok, since at least you didn't go up and re-introduce yourself like you had never met him. I feel like the days are so long, I often can't remember how long it's been since I met/saw someone... It's understandable.

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    Default Re: "you don't remember me?" that's fucked up!"

    Quote Originally Posted by pipermonroe View Post
    One time I did a VIP with this really nice customer. Great rapport, fair amount of time spent together, fun time had. Well, he came back in the next day (not to see me, just to come in) and damnit if I didn't sit down and say, "It's so good to see you again, when was the last time you were in?"

    .........very uncomfortable silence.....

    ....more silence......

    Then it clicked that I met him the day before. That was very embarassing and he never spoke to me again. I get asked a lot "do you remember me?" Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't, but not remembering someone ONE DAY after we got a VIP? I felt like a jerk.
    LOL! at least you remembered him. I forget almost everyone after the club closes VIP or not.

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    Default Re: "you don't remember me?" that's fucked up!"

    On the flip side, I've had a few instances with customers where we've had conversations (weeks or months before), I remember them clearly, but they don't remember me. I am heavily tattooed, which to me would be memorable, but clearly not always.


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    Default Re: "you don't remember me?" that's fucked up!"

    I blame it on the a-a-a-a-alcohol! Hey, it works!
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    Shake your ass and preserve your heritage.
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    Do it for the present and future generations.
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    Default Re: "you don't remember me?" that's fucked up!"

    Quote Originally Posted by PleasureVictim View Post
    I blame it on the a-a-a-a-alcohol! Hey, it works!
    ME TOO ! then they forgive me quickly

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    Quote Originally Posted by femmefatale88 View Post
    ME TOO ! then they forgive me quickly
    lol I wish I had read this before last night. a guy came up to me and was like "do you remember me?" and I had no idea who he was so I was like "ohhh yeahhh! you were here last week!" and he was like "um NO. I've been here 4 times in the last month". in my head I'm like who the fuck cares but I tried going along with it and he just ended up getting mad so I said fuck it and walked away.

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    Default Re: "you don't remember me?" that's fucked up!"

    so what do you ladies say? just like "sorry I was drunk" how do you say it without making yourself sound like an alcoholic. whenever I tell customers I drink at work they always respond negatively

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    Default Re: "you don't remember me?" that's fucked up!"

    "Then give me a substantial amount so I will remember"
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    ^^^^ he he he

    " did you know that along with gingko biloba, large ammounts of money improves memory"
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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