Any one here from KS? More eastern than western, I get out to the TopekaClubs once or twice a year (so not nearly a regular).
And a question:
I've had times when a dancer has approached me for a lapdance and I've politely said no, then she sits down with me. At that point no other dancer will approach since I've been 'marked'.
Usually if a dancer I like sits with me, I'll chit chat, offer to buy her a drink and then inquire about the pricing of the dances (even if I damn well know what it is). The dancers I don't like I'll ignore and won't buy drinks for and won't ask about lap dance pricing
So, how can I tell the dancer to GTFO without saying that in so many words and avoid looking like a cheapskate?



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At that point, you may have to just be as blunt as possible and say, "Sorry, I don't want to waste your time, so you should know I have no intention of buying a dance tonight." You don't necessarily have to say "from you." If she sees you getting a dance from someone later, she may get mad but it's none of her business, and if you weren't planning on getting in her good graces, it shouldn't matter to you anyway.


Ah well, I ended up giving her tag team friend all my money.

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