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    went to work tues. and a dancer I work with on most shifts says all catty.. " Have your clothes been stolen?? Every time I see you you are wearing that outfit." grr
    ok.. I bought an expensive corset that I wear every other shift. I only work 3 shifts a week. I am the type to buy a quality outfit and use it!!
    In the past this same girl has told me she thought my outfit was fugly..
    I didn't think so!!
    anyhow.. i was just pissed.. and wore it anyway.. but i caved and bought a new work dress partly out of insecurity. I work with her again tonight and I am not really looking forward to it. bleh

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    Default Re: Wearing the same outfit often

    OP - that girl just sounds like she's jealous of you.

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    Default Re: Wearing the same outfit often

    And every time I see you, you're wearing that same ugly face.

    (Not saying you should say that, but that's what immediately popped into my head upon reading this post.)

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    Default Re: Wearing the same outfit often

    One of the girls at my club wears the same outfit everyday. As long as you wash it, I really don't see the big deal. In fact, it can be a good thing since customers who return to the club have an easier time recognizing you because they'll remember the outfit. Besides, most of the customers you encounter won't see you again, so it doesn't matter how often you wear it if it works for you. Let her hate on your attire all she wants and laugh internally as it helps you make the money while she throws cash away on new outfits.

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    Default Re: Wearing the same outfit often

    I wear whatever my current favourite is for weeks at a time. I wash it, no problem.

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    I wear the same three outfits in rotation allllll the damn time. I don't get why some girls are obsessed with constantly having new outfits, I see girls at my work trading outfits around and/or changing multiple times a night. I'm the opposite, I get really comfortable in a certain outfit because of how flattering it is or how much it boosts my earnings and will wear it to death (washing after every use, of course). The only thing I constantly switch throughout the night is the g-string I wear under my outfit. Or I'll change if I get too many rejections and want to start fresh.

    That girl's just going out of her way to be rude to you because she's a fuckface.

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    Default Re: Wearing the same outfit often

    Some ppl can bc so rude. I wonder if they even realize it. Tell her that's the outfit that makes you money, & you're not there to impress girls at work.

    Bitches don't know how to mind their own damn business.
    Last edited by Vyanka; 08-04-2011 at 02:23 PM.

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    Default Re: Wearing the same outfit often

    This girl is just a miserable bitch. Even if you wore a different outfit every single shift, she'd probably find a way to make a comment about how you waste good outfits by only wearing them once You can't win with people who are hell-bent on putting you down to make themselves feel better. I worked with a girl who wore literally the same skirt, top, and boots every single time she worked. Never seemed to hurt her. Next time she says something about an outfit being ugly or over-used, take your wad of cash, look at it, gasp, and say "Omg, you're right! I should go return ALL this money to the customers who thought I looked hot tonight and tell them you opened my eyes to how shitty I really look." Then laugh and walk away. Bonus points if you fan yourself with the wad of cash while doing so.

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    Default Re: Wearing the same outfit often

    jealous and insecure. Wear your corset. Based on her comments, it probably looks great and makes you a lot of money.

    I have the same few outfits that I wear in rotation. A lot of girls I know wear the same one over and over. I only think it's weird when it actually looks bad on them / isn't flattering but I would never say that.
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    That's a mean thing to say. She doesn't sound nice at all. I would just avoid her as much as possible.
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    Yep, she's just jealous of you... she's not making money so she has to time to pick on what the other girls are wearing...

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    Quote Originally Posted by LazyButterfly View Post
    Yep, she's just jealous of you... she's not making money so she has to time to pick on what the other girls are wearing...
    I agree. If that miserable bitch was making money, she'd be far too busy to even notice what you're wearing to make an issue out of it.

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    Don't feel bad. I was at another Deja Vu last weekend participating in the melonfest competition and this nasty hoe with a HORRIBLE weave was outside smoking with me. She was like

    "Is he your boyfriend" (pointing to DISGUSTING customer next to me)
    I said "No, I'm a stripper"
    This bitch gets in my face and is like "OMG I DON'T LIKE YOU, YOU ARE NOT A STRIPPER. YOU ARE AN ENTERTAINER OF MEN, DO YOU BRING WORK HOME WITH YOU?"

    I was like "Don't tell me what I am, I'm a stripper and I can stomach that reality"

    Her nasty ass had her pimp yelling at her to get inside and "make sum moneyz" and her saggy stomach and stretchmarks fell out and I almost puked.

    Nasty, trashy STRIPPER.

    Later on she got drunk, took a piece of MY $8 pizza, and was blabbing about how she'd 'give me two dollars'--which she never did---'cuz she is a strippaaaa'
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    Quote Originally Posted by kitinboots View Post
    I wear whatever my current favourite is for weeks at a time. I wash it, no problem.
    Same, it's no big deal.

    Sounds like jealousy to me!

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    Fuck her. Really. Do your thing. I wear the same outfit a lot. No ones ever complained. At least not those who matter.
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    Very highschool isn't it, Tell her if it bothers her that much she can always gift you with a new outfit
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    [email protected] flickdreams.. right.. here get me a gift card! I have gotten lots of compliments from men on it.
    @ shannadior.. you're right.. I don't like to waste money on lots of work outfits.
    I don't see the point to buy lots of cheaply made dresses that I can't return b/c its lingere...
    Anyhow I've consistenly gotten champange rooms when I worked with her, and she sat around and hated. At the same time, I stayed busy in my old (washed) outfit and focus on customers not dancers. We work 2 shifts together and I am pretty much way over doing it-- to emotionally draining. today when I worked w/ her she through an old coat from the dressing room over my stuff.. ??? not sure what the purpose of that was.. its not cold. but yea u know.. ive lost weight, gotten a good outfit, and friends w/ pretty much everyone but her..

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    Sounds like those girls are a little jealous. If your outfit makes you feel good & makes you money, keep wearing it!
    I wear my schoolgirl skirt and a black triangle top ALLLLL the time because guys love it. Fuck whatever your competition has to say. Next time just thank them for their unsolicited opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pink_bunny View Post
    vent warning**
    went to work tues. and a dancer I work with on most shifts says all catty.. " Have your clothes been stolen?? Every time I see you you are wearing that outfit." grr
    ok.. I bought an expensive corset that I wear every other shift. I only work 3 shifts a week. I am the type to buy a quality outfit and use it!!
    In the past this same girl has told me she thought my outfit was fugly..
    I didn't think so!!
    anyhow.. i was just pissed.. and wore it anyway.. but i caved and bought a new work dress partly out of insecurity. I work with her again tonight and I am not really looking forward to it. bleh
    Just say you have 100 of the same outfit. JK
    I wear the same outfit all the time because it WORKS for me. I make more in this (type of) outfit than anything else because it works for my body and the color really makes my personality and sexuality stand out. Im sure everyone at work is sick of seeing me in the same color and type of outfits but they can go f themselves, I'm making money for myself not them.

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    Default Re: Wearing the same outfit often

    Great responses, & yes I agree, sounds like a jealousy issue


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    I think we all have our favorites, nothing wrong with that. She sounds jealous to me too.

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    Default Re: Wearing the same outfit often

    I think I read in another thread that a lot of top earners seem to wear the same outfit frequently. Hell, I just finally retired my first night big money outfit from years ago, and bought a new one that I intend to last me a few more years.

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    Do what you want, me personally i have outfits that go with my songs, like if I dance to 'welcome to the jungle" I will have a leopard print dress on and metallic or clear heels on.... But thats just me plus Im addicted to shoes. It just gives me some wierd sick pleasure to see a walk in closet full of platform heels XD. But tell that bitch to kick rocks and stop hatein so maybe one day she can make money like you lol

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    If it wasn't because she said " have your outfits been stolen", I'd dare to say that the other girl may have asked you out of curiosity. I've asked other dancers who are always wearing the same outfit the same thing, but just out of curiosity.

    It seems to help in the money department; I have the same outfit in five different colors (blue, neon green, neon yellow, neon pink, and white), but I have never though of that until I read this thread.





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    eh. some people just believe in having a lot of outfits, but in her case yeah totally sounds like she's a bitch. she probably didn't have a magic outfit of her own and was jealous.

    a few years back, i spent a bunch of money on new outfits. i only really made any money in one of them. it was the one i was most enthusiastic about in the store. the rest were a waste of money, even though they were all awesome on me. it's not like i was gonna rotate just so i could get some rest at work.
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