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    Dizzy are men obsessed with sex?

    I feel like every man in my life has been OBSESSED with sex. to the point of being very annoying! why is this? even men that im just friends with are constantly talking about sex or trying to get it. i think it makes them look sooo stupid. There are so many amazing things in the world but all they want to experience is sex nothing else! how do i find a man thats different than this? it might be that i work in the sex industry that im burnt out on it idk....

    am i crazy?

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    No I don't think you're crazy at all. For me personally it annoys the shit out of me. I joined the sex industry for this very reason. I was like well hell if it's so necessary then at least I can bank off it. I'm not burned out yet and If I was I wouldn't even be able to recognize it because whether I'm in the industry or not it's always been a main focus whenever I've interacted with men. It really shocks me sometimes the level to which a man will go for ass. So to me I feel like it's best to get paid for it rather then give it away for free. I find that men don't value it when they're getting it for free.

    Look at your custies and see that half if not more are married or have relationships . Many of these women work, keep their children well behaved and still have time to throw on the sexy lingerie. Does it stop them from masturbating to porn, cam model, LD at the strip club, phone sex , escorts and prostitutes? Umm nope! Best to get in there and be one and make them pay! For their "wants" do very well in providing for what I "need".

    I even had friends that would try to have sex with their bf's as much as possible, almost to a point of pain. Their purpose was to keep his drive low since he was getting an abundance of the goods. This didn't stop the guy from cheating , porn etc. They were always shocked like wtf? We have sex everyday !! Umm yeah but men do like variety and you just made him feel that if he can get it from you so easily , then who else can he bend over?

    Live and learn and go into the sex industry!!

    PS. yes there are those men that view sex as a gift not a requirement but they are far and few... The search continues...

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    ThankYou omg i was starting to feel like i was the only one who was seeing this! i totally agree with you about the men chasing sex even though they get it regularly... I dont understand it.

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    I would say age has a lot to do with it but yes we do like sex. If you feel its a obligation..then your fucking the wrong guy.

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    Sex is a big part of the human psyche. Not sure how old you are, but if you're dealing with guys in their 20's (not sure I'd call them men lol) that is primarily what they think about and what they want. Being a sex worker doesn't help because you're just surrounded by it constantly.

    Guys are visual creatures. They're built that way. That's not going to stop regardless of what's at home and truthfully, within reason (ie. they're not cheating and not sending they're family into bankruptcy to feed a habit) there's nothing wrong with it. Hell, I adore porn and SC's myself.
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    Yes men think about sex all the time. We cannot help it due to hormones, specifically testosterone. If your testosterone levels were as high as the average man, you couldn't help thinking about sex all the time. In fact, women who makes the transition to becoming a man often report feeling an increase in intense sexual desires due to the testosterone supplements that they are taking.

    I can see how it is annoying for some women, hell, it is even annoying for me when some of my friends are constantly talk about fucking. I don't think it makes men stupid though.

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    Yeah we are, it's because of the penis
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    Yes

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    I don't think all guys are obsessed with sex. I mean, most people (in general) love sex. I love sex! Aha. My bf and I do lots of things that aren't sex.
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    Great thread, I don't have much to add..


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    Default Re: are men obsessed with sex?

    Also depends on the age of the guys we are talking about.
    Yes we do think about sex 24/7
    But there is a time and place for everything in life.
    Im not trying to hook up with the 7-11 chick I just want my friggin coffee.

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    "Obsession" is a misnomer. That's like saying a starving person would be obsessed with finding food. No, they just need to eat in order to, you know, stay alive. Men are programmed to reproduce in order to continue the existence of the species. Doesn't mean every guy is horny all the time, but that's the genetic code. You don't like it, blame nature.

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    Well I guess I'm wired like a dude then.





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    Default Re: are men obsessed with sex?

    Hence the expression.

    Young, dumb, and full of Cum.

    If your surrounded by guys in their 20's yes, evolution made them that way.

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    I would say that in the main, men ARE obsessed with sex.

    I'm not just talking about them thinking of 'doing it' with a woman, consider all the other things in life that have sexual connotations and are created by men. For example - car designers often say that they had a woman's figure in mind when they desigened the curves of a cars' bodywork (although not so much now as they're all ugly boxes) - then there's stiletto heels (invented by and designed by men), most women's clothing, music and song lyrics, art, sculpture, literature...etc, etc...blah de blah.

    ...And then there are sexual fetishes which are nearly always the product of a man's mind. How many women do you know who have a sexual fetish....and who take it to the extremes that many men do...?
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    Everything in the world is about sex except sex...sex is about power.

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    Quote Originally Posted by unbeleavable View Post
    Everything in the world is about sex except sex...sex is about power.
    A great quote for a siggy!


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    Yes, and espcially if we're not getting sex.
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    Quote Originally Posted by unbeleavable View Post
    Everything in the world is about sex except sex...sex is about power.
    tell me more...
    is it really... if so, this is a hell of a subject... and I mean it...
    if we dont want sex, we give up on the power?
    lets talk about this.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    if we dont want sex, we give up on the power?
    Yes. At the end of the day, sex is what it's all about. From the way we make OUR money, to the soap they sell on tv.
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    Most advertising & choices are associated with sex mostly subconscious & when you get there, there is either a Dom or Sub.

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    To answer the OP's question, yes. And also, sandwiches.

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    hey lets not discriminate here.. lol
    most women are obsessed with sex too...
    *raises hand*

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    7 billion people on the planet and counting. I think the answer is a resounding YES.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    To answer the OP's question, yes. And also, sandwiches.
    You forgot sports.
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