Ugh. I am mixed but in club lightening i look Asian. Now, I am a great hustler and do well with guys of ALL races, backgrounds, EXCEPT OLD asian men. I now there might not be that many asian girls on this site, but, I was wondering if you guys have noticed that you do the worst w/ older asian men?
I have noticed older asian men of all backgrounds, economic status, etc, dont treat asian strippers as well, often bordering on downright rude. THis is for Asian-American older males only. It's likethey dont like asian girls cuz they can't realistically get blondes, brunettes in real life so in the club they treat them like gold. They can get asian women OTC, so if they see them in the club, they treat those girls like shit.
Now, that would be fine...BUT they often use tricks to lure these asian girls to hang out with them (i.e., let's get a dance! But, i dont like this music...wait until the next song...next song...BS) and then go get a dance with a non-asian girl. It's almost as if they are spiting the asian girl.....
Now, I work in washington state,oregon, and several major California cities and this is EVERYWHERE.
it suck cuz being half asian, i see older asian men in my family and friends all the time and everytime I see them I have this burning flame of hatred inside of me....I am good at judging men and i know for a fact that if half of these men were in a club they would treat me like shit! (accidentally throwing away my drink, bsing girls, etc)
it's really messing with my mind...
I do not EVER notice this with young asian men...only older asian men >40. Younger asian men seem to have grown up in a more open generation and so they dont take their hatred out on asian strippers!
what do you guys think?



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Usually oriental is to refer to objects, such as rugs or furniture, but not people. Again, no disrespect meant so I hope you don't take this as me talking down to you because that's truly not how I mean it--but just thought perhaps you weren't aware of how some people view the term when used towards ethnicity. I've had the same discussion with my current boyfriend and he totally didn't know some people felt that way, but appreciated the insight

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