I find after reading the threads, a lot of the things the women are discussing about motivation, getting in the "right frame of mind" is similar to what guys have to do when asking women out, or approaching them in a club (real world club, not SC). Ie. if we walk in with an attitude of "oh she probably won't wanna talk to me or go out with me, etc..." then thats what we get.
Yes, I get that for strippers at the strip club, it's a job and no one's looking for relationship material, and ultimately you're looking to get paid. Completely understand. But within that framework, the fantasy you're selling is that of being almost the "perfect" girlfriend, even if it's only a 1 minute one and to a motley crue record and immediately turns off after the song ends.
And I dunno about other guys, but I'd pass on getting a lapdance from a girl for the same reason I'd pass on approaching (or pass on being receptive to women, whenever I do get approached), that is, I'm not attracted to her.
In a weird way, I think some of the women that work as strippers can actually understand us guys that struggle with women... a bit better, even if you don't give a rats #[email protected] at a conscious level.



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