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    Default Time wasters vs costumers - newbie advice!

    I haven't been camming for a long time at all but the one thing I've been trying to learn to optimize my time and patience is try to identify a possible costumer between the heap of time wasters that get on your PM box or chat (especially on MFC!)

    Personally I've been compiling a mental list of dead giveaways for guys just trying to bust a nut through chat or trying to rip you off for any free cam time. Some are really obvious, some took me a lil to catch onto. Now I sort of have a 5 line rule - if it didn't get to booking a private or tipping me in 5 lines, I'll ask straightforward to be taken private, this either makes it or breaks it, but it either makes me money or it saves me time.

    (Hardly) ever got anything from anyone using the lines of:
    -Show this and I'll pay that
    -Heavy talk about their fantasy (guys wanting an actual private will just ask if you're into doing it speedily so if you say no, they can move onto spending money on the right match for them; the rest just want to bust a nut from your detailed explanation)
    -So what do you do in private? (paying custies tend to tell you what they want)
    -Do you like big cocks?
    -Want to see my cam? (cock is not currency)
    -Any attempt to slip you their contact info, they're just looking for free chat out of the site...
    -Any talk about meeting up (seriously this is my favorite, so you'll fly me wherever and pay for my shopping trips, but you can't tip me 5 bucks out of good will? Wouldn't want to be your local prostitute, cheapskate...)
    -Smooth talkers. You're too good looking/smart/sweet to be doing this (oh? I'm always so tempted to answer well, you're too broke to be wasting your time with me then...I'm working - you could try and do the same!)
    -Skype show requests. Here I have a 50/50 split. Some custies have an actual reason to request a show out of the site (they want a couple, they want a time block, they want something unusual). The others though, wants to pay unreasonable rates. Now I list my time block discounts upfront because when I was a newbie, it was heartbreaking to spend a long time setting it up only to find they wanted to pay a ridiculous fraction of my site rate.

    Of course seasoned camgirls are going "well duh!" at this list, but other newbies like me should take it to heart - don't stress yourself trying to make the unworkables work out for you

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    Default Re: Time wasters vs costumers - newbie advice!

    Very helpful!
    I'm not a newbie anymore but I wish I'd known these things when I started!!! Aha
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    Default Re: Time wasters vs costumers - newbie advice!

    "-Smooth talkers. You're too good looking/smart/sweet to be doing this (oh? I'm always so tempted to answer well, you're too broke to be wasting your time with me then...I'm working - you could try and do the same!)"




    ^^^^laughing out loud, amen!!!

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    Default Re: Time wasters vs costumers - newbie advice!

    As a week old newbie I've seen these and totally got suckered the first night by quite a few, I also got the 'VIP' guy, promising to help me get into the top 50 etc, yadda yadda, he's helped other girls that werent as pretty as me and so on.
    I got a few fake tippers, though I didnt fall for it, they seem to swarm around my room!

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    Default Re: Time wasters vs costumers - newbie advice!

    [QUOTE=SybilVain;2178014]
    -Smooth talkers. You're too good looking/smart/sweet to be doing this (oh? I'm always so tempted to answer well, you're too broke to be wasting your time with me then...I'm working - you could try and do the same!)

    I so love this come back!!!!!!!!!! haha yes I know that's probably something you said in your head , but some of these fools need to hear that! lol

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    Default Re: Time wasters vs costumers - newbie advice!

    Wow MFC is the loosers that hit you up when you have the "new model" caption in front of your name.

    Just so you can see who these guys are, go to any new model room and like clockwork they'll be there. It's always the same too, they don't have money, the just try to talk you out of your clothes and if that doesn't work , you get the same asshole that says " he's reporting you" lol. Fucking clowns!!!

    If you ever want to see it go to a new model room, you'll learn a lot and see the same game played over and over again by the same men. It's typically before the girl starts really getting used to using the ban button.

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    Default Re: Time wasters vs costumers - newbie advice!

    Something else I might add are the guys that seem like they really want to help you hustle. Not by tipping or anything, but by telling you to do shows topless, do really obvious teasing, and they'll even try to get in the lounge [so they say] and work your room. These guys end up liking being in control, and that's what they cum to. They want to feel like they control your income, your actions, everything. And then they want to bug you all the time because they feel like they're the sole reason you made anything.

    This might sound so obvious to see when you read it, but it took me a long time to 'get' this one.. never seen it before MFC!
    KhamilleXXX @ MFC

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    Default Re: Time wasters vs costumers - newbie advice!

    Quote Originally Posted by Khamille View Post
    Something else I might add are the guys that seem like they really want to help you hustle. Not by tipping or anything, but by telling you to do shows topless, do really obvious teasing, and they'll even try to get in the lounge [so they say] and work your room. These guys end up liking being in control, and that's what they cum to. They want to feel like they control your income, your actions, everything. And then they want to bug you all the time because they feel like they're the sole reason you made anything.

    This might sound so obvious to see when you read it, but it took me a long time to 'get' this one.. never seen it before MFC!
    That is a really good tip!! MFC should have this list on there site to teach new girls how to hustle..webcams.com has that!

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    Default Re: Time wasters vs costumers - newbie advice!

    I think Im going to write a letter sughestting it..what do you ladies think?

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    Default Re: Time wasters vs costumers - newbie advice!

    On MFC you can make it so no one can PM you unless they're on your friendlist. Common practice is to charge 50-200 tokens for friendlist, so they can PM you. I think average is 100? Correct me if I'm wrong, ladies.

    Anyway this is a great way to weed out those who are serious from the time-wasting wankers. If they can't ask about your show in public, or pony up for the friendlist privilege, then they just want to waste your time.


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    Default Re: Time wasters vs costumers - newbie advice!

    I tell them I add to my friends list for tips. Usually they tip 50-100. If it's slow I'll take whatever they give me. Sometimes the guys who tipped 20 to be added spend way more down the road.
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