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He made the mistake of trusting you enough to open him email account on your computer, you snooped through it and now you want to f*ck with him? Dont you think you've already done that. If I were you, I would leave it alone and let him jerk off to whatever he pleases, in peace.




I wouldn't....being funny or not.
Things like that have a way of backfiring in your face.
Not passing judgement. Just saying - I'd just leave it alone....
guys look at cam sites, that's why we're in business. If its just a cam site I really don't see why you wanna fuck with him, that frankly seems dishonest. Even if he left his email logged on, that doesn't mean you can get on and continually check it.




Well I know a few ways.. Having a tattoo in a picture you don't have in real life, slightly change eye color, hair shade lighter or darker. You can make your hair look longer. A blurred picture is nice but it can lessen the prank.




Yeah - all guys look at some sort of porn online or offline, whatever - they still do it.
It's like, habitual beat-off offenders....it's the way they are. You just deal with it or go gay.
I am just not for snooping even though it's open and right there. It's a trust thing with me I guess. If someone trusts me, I can't snoop. If I don't trust them, I just have to tell them outright. I can't go looking through his shit....regardless.
I just wouldn't do it. If it backfires - then it he may not trust you. Whatever - you asked for suggestions and I don't think it's a cool thing to do.
If you didn't want judgement - then you shouldn't have asked any of us. We are chicks and in posts, the majority of us pass judgement because text is all we have to go on. We can't hear or see feelings. We only have words on a screen.
We may not know your relationship love...but you are asking an opinion on something that is obvious you snooped through his e-mail, regardless if you trust him or not....even if you think it would be funny - we don't know that...All we know is that it appears dishonest because if there is trust there - then there is no need to break it with a prank that could possibly backfire.
I am not trying to or claim to be Dr. Phil or the Sex Lady on TV for a relationship, I am just saying...you asked - I responded.
Yeah I would just let it go. It's not that serious. He is just surfing porn, and we work in porn, and are not serious about our customers. Well, most of us.
Plus I am not trying to be funny or judge you, but to fuck with him would just seem a waste of time.
You also stated he would "freak" out if he knew you were camming. So like Kitana says, what if it back fires? You fuck with him now, then he ends up finding out about you being a cam girl, and he decides to fuck with you?
Taking a break from all unproductive shit will prove to be the best choice you can make.




Yeahhhhh I agree with Busty.
If you DO go ahead with this and he doesn't know you are a cam girl....
and he is going to wonder HOW you got some other cam girl to mess with him, etc. Questions are going to start being asked that you aren't going to want to answer.
If you value your secret and he doesn't know...I'd NOT do it.
Chances are though - if he is surfing online, he may find out on his own that you are.
Either way, I think you are flirting with fire. I wonder if you checked his e-mail just to see what sites he was on so you could know to stay away from those sites? I understand that point...but you need to cover your ass a little bit more.
Don't make yourself a sitting duck and have it backfire in your face dear. It's NOT worth it.





How is it "permanently logged in"? Just click "log out". Delete the cookies, clearing the cache isn't going to do it. Computer's don't just stay permanently logged in if you log the account out... if they did we would have a lot of issues. Honestly how would you feel if he was reading all your emails behind your back?
Not judging, but that's my suggestion. Instead of fucking with him over it.




All I know is - I have to be honest with who I am dating with what I do. I don't feel right if I don't. I am almost 28 years old. Simply put - I don't have time to play games. Either you are with me or you aren't. I have NO PROBLEM being alone. I actually prefer it. I don't have time to get slipped the dick either. I'll fuck someone I'm with rather than a one night stand.
You can't be permanently logged in - unless she means that when you log out - that "keep me logged in" box is checked with the saved password. I have that on almost all of my sites because I have so many passwords I can't think straight. However - when you clear the history on Chrome for example, you can stop it from clearing that and clear everything else....that's possible. Nothing keeps you logged in forever though.
However, back in the day when I was a big yahoo chat fiend....I dated a guy off and on for at least 5 years. I met him from there and I was deadset on NOT letting him read my archives on the chatline - WHY? There were conversations I didn't want him to see. Needless to say, the truth ALWAYS comes out in one way or the other. We are still friends - but he was being just as shady as me and as secretive. I HATED anyone going through my shit in any way. It always boiled down to be a trust thing and it really is, but when you are young, dumb and full of cum....that's how you think.
Now - if someone is going to go through my e-mails, it's a violation of trust to me. If you wanna see what I am doing - ASK and I'll show you. Don't snoop. It just goes to show that their is NO trust - and then it's just not worth it. If anyone ever did that me again, I'd hit the ground running - because it just showed me I wasted my time.





After reading this I feel this was some sort of mind fuck game. He wants to make you jealous. Why ? Not sure. If you're a cam model and he knows this , then why would he want to go and check out other cam models? Seems a bit rude. So perhaps he's trying to fuck around with your self esteem.
Best way to handle this is give someone a taste of their own medicine.
Sign up on all of the male cam sites that you can. Have a bunch of shit on your computer of "big cock" men . Hell it would even be more of a sting if it was a man of another race.
Typically ( not all ) men that date women in this industry may have some insecurity issues. If they can throw that in your lap then you'll both be worrying about loosing one another. It's vicious cycle , but it does happen to many couples.
Go out and buy yourself a different race dildo, hell you may already have some but let him catch you fucking it when you're not on cam, Make sure it's super fucking big too. lol
See how he handles that. It's so funny how we all say " men always look at porn" as if it's normal. Yes we know they do , but we've accepted it as normal. Women look at porn too probably not as much as men or maybe it's a bit softer porn but still it's almost shocking to men when they find this out. Why? because it's not typical.
Ok hope my thoughts help. He needs a lesson in tact because to me that was no accident at all. I've had those guys come into my room bragging about how they're banging a cam model gf. Shit is annoying and I usually ban or kick them from my room right away. I mean you have a real life cam model that can cam for you for free and sleeps with you too? and you still need to see if you can go and play with another? Just seems shitty.





Just note there is no gaurantee that he will click Zinaida. I love her, she is great but what is he picks someone else?
I'm not a cam model..... yet. I've signed up to be, but haven't actually done anything. He would break up with me and never talk to me again if he found out I was camming. Who knows if he left it open purely out of cockiness, or by accident, or he trusted me, or he just didn't give a fuck. To be honest, I'm partly hurt that he's looking at cam girls/talking to them. I know he's not spending money because A. he's a cheap Jew and B. there are zero funds in his account. I'm not sure what to make of it.... If I had found porn I wouldn't care at all, but cam girls, maybe he's talking to them, interacting, I don't know, it's a whole different ballpark. I'm at the point though, part of me wants to find something incriminating so that I will have a reason to break up with him.





Yeah. This.
Obviously, I don't know your relationship... but pranks like this tend to turn into "You fucking cunt, you've been reading my emails" a lot more than "Haha, you totally got me! Great job, baby!"
Alternately... dumbass men do stupid things like this all the time to "test" women.

I'm all about respecting boundaries, but you guy is a hypocrite. YOU can't cam, decide what you want to do with your body, how you make money, or let other guys see you?
That would be fine in itself I suppose.
But HE can look at girls, talk to them, tell them they're sexy, watch them masturbate if they have free shows?
I agree, guys look at porn, but cam girls are different. Half the guys look at free porn, and they don't talk to the porn star, and tell her what to do. Lots of guys view the girls as vessels to imagine their girl as. Why is he DIRECTLY giving any money at all to another girl? Even if it's a dollar, he should be spending it on you. From what I can see, you're a beautiful woman, and probably successful and confident. Most guys I've met secretly hate that. I think he's trying to fuck with your mind.
I had a guy tell me, no, you can never dance, than went to clubs himself. No, you can't model, and I found all sorts of nude pictured. Guys are hypocrites.
This is just my opinion, but if that's what is going on, you deserve better.![]()




See I used to do this same thing...
However - I feel this is just a way to justify breaking up with someone instead of just doing it because you don't want to be with them anymore.
I think saying I don't want to be with you anymore is sufficient reason enough. If you don't want to be with someone - of course you have a list to back that up but you don't have to explain yourself. Say it. Move on. Be done.
Don't do something else to justify the breakup and screw them over or make them hurt....that's something you only do to make yourself feel better for something guilty you have pulled. OR just to make you feel justified in breaking up with them period.
Dump Him! Actually I read that he's cheap . I saw that you said he's "sort of your bf" but really I'm thinking a fuck buddy. He sounds lame and needs too much attention or validation. Get rid of him and move on. If he's not doing shit for you and now creating unnecessary space in your head or doubts then he's got to go. He serves no purpose. Yes I think he's a hypocrite. Ok so you're not a cam model , but a dancer then? Watching some girl's live show where he can connect with her is a step above pre recorded and rehearsed porn. Because he's now looking to engage and spend money on another woman. Drop that loser now! He'll probably become one of those "pre paying for pussy" types that hopes to eventually meet the cam model. Just ignore his calls and hope he disappears.
Did you ever think maybe he is trying to fuck with you?
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