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    Default How do you manage time with the Significant Other and peak hours?

    I find it really challenging to manage time with my girlfriend, and working the busiest hours. She usually wants to do things in the evenings and at night because she is busy during the day, but I always feel like I am throwing cash out the window.

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    Default Re: How do you manage time with the Significant Other and peak hours?

    Oh honey you are not alone...
    My husb is available in the evening ( like any other normal human being who works during the day lol ).. and I cam at that time...
    You have to find a happy medium.. try to work mornings 2... and set up a few nights/week when you will not cam and spend time with your gf....
    And put a time limit on your evening work ... if she comes home at 9 pm lets say... work only till 10 pm..

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    Default Re: How do you manage time with the Significant Other and peak hours?

    For me, I figure out what are consistently my most profitable day/nights/times to work and then make a deal. Tuesdays and Sundays generally suck (for me) and he can have both of those days every week to hang out all day if he wants to. Saturdays on the other hand, forget it, somebody better be on their death bed for me to budge.

    Just kindly remind her that you dont go up to her job while she's working and wanna hang out and that she should respect that you've got to have some discipline in your job as well. I'm sure you'll figure it out

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    Default Re: How do you manage time with the Significant Other and peak hours?

    My solution may not be for everyone, but it works for me. I cam from home so that I AM at home. My family comes first, so I cam at the times they are off at school/work, and when they are home..I'm "home" ie. not working. I never cam at night, rarely on the weekends. I prefer to spend the time with my family...I know that means I am probably taking a loss of income. But it also means that I work my schedule and what I earn, I earn. I know I don't bank like some of you do...but I make what I need...

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    Default Re: How do you manage time with the Significant Other and peak hours?

    I cam late late, my guys is usually in bed by the time I get on. So we spend evenings together.

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    Default Re: How do you manage time with the Significant Other and peak hours?

    I like to cam in the morning while he's at work and then usually get on in the late-night hours when he's going to bed. He understands it's a job though and never complains. He likes when I'm done and tell him we can go have a nice dinner out on the weekend
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    Default Re: How do you manage time with the Significant Other and peak hours?

    Ugh! I'm having trouble with juggling my kids and getting on cam! By the time they go to sleep and I want to cam I'm exhausted! My bf is easy he's a workaholic and works night shift.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kballar View Post
    Ugh! I'm having trouble with juggling my kids and getting on cam! By the time they go to sleep and I want to cam I'm exhausted! My bf is easy he's a workaholic and works night shift.
    My son just started walking and his naps are like half the time of what they used to be.. so difficult to cam. I used to be able to cam during his 4-hour newborn naps!
    KhamilleXXX @ MFC

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    I CAN NOT wait for school to start!!! Lol

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    Default Re: How do you manage time with the Significant Other and peak hours?

    Since AW has picked up for me I have usually reached my goal by the time my bf comes home. When it wasn't that way I would juggle by taking breaks every couple of hours to snuggle. Also he would text me from the living room so we could chat while I was locked away.

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    I am DYING for school to start too! LOL

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    Default Re: How do you manage time with the Significant Other and peak hours?

    My fiance works 10-12 hour days, starting at 6 am so I pretty much work the hours he works and have hit my goal by the time he comes home.

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    I make him do the stuff around the house that needs doing while I work Less time taken away!

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