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    Default For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    Not glamorous.
    Not that much fun.
    You will be in the "Jail" House non stop.( aka your house)
    You will become a computer nerd.
    You will get used to being called names... fat. ugly. whore. all day long!no matter what. You could be Pamela Anderson, you will be called names.
    You will spend your $ faster then you made them. Easy come, easy go.
    You will start second guessing yourself " Am I pretty enough"? "Am I worth few bucks"?
    You will suffer.
    You will cry.
    You will get mad ( at least once a day)
    You will get used to disrespect.

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    Lol @ the jail house. That's what it feels like sometimes!
    Taking a break from all unproductive shit will prove to be the best choice you can make.

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    Default Re: For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    You will feel isolated at times.
    You will have to make an effort when you log on.
    There will be days when you make next to nothing.
    "If you don't value your time, neither will others. Stop giving away your time and talents - start charging for it." - Kim Garst



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    Default Re: For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    You will be sore
    You will be an expert with angles
    You will experience paranoia of 'being found out'


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    Default Re: For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    You will become fed-up with men.
    You will become jaded.

    This job will carry into your personal life,

    Example? Ever try camming for a year then try to date again? It's Hell.

    The guys I've tried dating, I've tried to talk too - the dumb texts messages asking me for a dirty picture/sex. My entire mood turns sour. The poor innocent guy I've been seeing who's sending me a text message wanting some 'ass, babe' is dangerously close to getting his head chewed off.

    I immediately get defensive. Turned off. Annoyed, like 'No! You cannot see my ass." And my entire thought process goes from that to, "That fucker - I should be getting paid for this." What. The. Fuck.

    The sad part is that I NEVER used to be like this before camming. I was always flirty, sluttyish back and now I'm a complete cunt when someone flirts with me. Funny thing though, is if it's verbal I don't turn into the hulk - only if it's via text...email/text message. Like camming.

    Still though... Maybe I just wigged out worse than most girls but it's definitely affected me.








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    Default Re: For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    but all the while you will not be doing that thing you hated that you did before that drove you to camming in the first place.


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    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post
    I immediately get defensive. Turned off. Annoyed, like 'No! You cannot see my ass." And my entire thought process goes from that to, "That fucker - I should be getting paid for this." What. The. Fuck.

    The sad part is that I NEVER used to be like this before camming. I was always flirty, sluttyish back and now I'm a complete cunt when someone flirts with me.

    Holy shit! ^^ this.

    I haven't been doing this for a long time yet, but still.

    I order my luch everyday, and once, I had been working at night and fell asleep in my camming lingerie. So next day the dude arrived with my food, the doorbell woke me and I just ran out to get the food. In the afternoon he texted me something like, "no offense but did you dress up for ME or for getting your lunch? yes it was really nice".

    I was furious. WTF does he think? Will I dress up for HIM? For free? He seriously thinks I can only dress up for him? Go screw yourself you fucking idiot you could never afford a piece of me!

    And then I was like. Oh my God. I'm not like that. Or... am I?

    And you will be lying. A lot. And it will be frustrating. It will be hell to meet new people. Everyone always wants to know what do you do for the living? Why are you at home all day? You don't work? If you do, what is that? I want to work at home too! After a while you will be like: Oh shit! No other topics to talk about in this fucking life?

    And as for me sometimes it doesn't matter if I make a bank, I do some math and then I'm like: Damn... I seriously let them watching me doing THAT for this little? Okay it adds up but still... Do I worth that little?


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    ... you will hear and see some things that make your stomach churn
    ... you will hear and see some things that make you feel like contacting the police
    ... you will sometimes have to get creative when telling people what you do for a living
    ... you will have to pay taxes, and they will not be cheap even if you write off a lot of shit
    ... you will experience burnout
    ... you will likely wind up camming during your period at some point, and that is pure hell
    ... you will have seemingly great regulars, then they will either randomly disappear or turn psycho/annoying on you


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    Default Re: For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    You will have some nights where you can't unwind and wonder if you stayed on *just* 30 more minutes if you would have banked.
    You WILL get burnt out^^
    You will start to place trust in your regulars just to have them turn into the same piece of shit as the rest of them.
    You will end up spending more money than you could imagine on looking pretty, even if it isn't stuff for camming.
    You will order lots of food.
    You will start considering camming your daily workout!!
    >>>>You will reap what you sow.<<<<
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    You will have pride in financial independence...
    You will have safety in being an adult worker in the comforts of your own home...
    You will explore more about yourself sexually and learn new things
    You will wake up, work, and say holy shit i made 200 dollars and it's not even noon yet
    You will be in control of your own schedule
    You will be in charge of your own brand and however you want to market yourself
    You will realize that the potential is unlimited, but determined by how hard you work


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    Quote Originally Posted by xfatrabbitx View Post
    You will realize that the potential is unlimited, but determined by how hard you work
    Right..
    You will have to work hard. Harder then at a normal 9-5.
    Let me repeat : This job is harder then a 9-5 job.
    Why?#1 Your 9-5 is now your 10 am- 10 pm. On and off.
    Why? #2 You will have no holidays.
    You will work on weekends!
    You will work on Easter and Christmas.
    You will become O.B.S.E.S.S.E.D. with camming. But unfortunatelly you wont be able to brag to people about your new obsession. Its going to be your life time secret.
    If you did not have a big secret, now you do ( lol)

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    Forgot something really important damn

    You will (eventually) be told by your significant other that YOU HAVE NO JOB!...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    Right..
    Why?#1 Your 9-5 is now your 10 am- 10 pm. On and off.
    Its going to be your life time secret.
    If you did not have a big secret, now you do ( lol)

    Soo true! I log on for a few hours then log off then on all of the time. Sometimes it makes a difference... sometimes it doesn't.
    "Strippers are like pet tigers. They are nice to look at but they are not for everyone."

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    Default Re: For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    you could seriously replace the words camming with stripping in most of these and they would be true.

    camming seems like such a different world. I applaud you ladies for the hard work that you do!
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    Quote Originally Posted by xfatrabbitx View Post
    You will have pride in financial independence...
    You will have safety in being an adult worker in the comforts of your own home...
    You will explore more about yourself sexually and learn new things
    You will wake up, work, and say holy shit i made 200 dollars and it's not even noon yet
    You will be in control of your own schedule
    You will be in charge of your own brand and however you want to market yourself
    You will realize that the potential is unlimited, but determined by how hard you work
    So good to see at least one positive post here! man. I know there are some negative things about camming but the negative things about the corporate world have by far outweighed anything I've run across camming. It's not easy, but damn, really sounds like some need to get out of the biz.

    Also if your significant other is disrespectful enough to say you don't have a real job I'd think seriously about ending things. I can not believe the disrespect some get from those who are supposed to love and care about them.


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    Default Re: For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    I think we have a few positive threads already, I thought this was the bad side. You know the shadows of the "glamorous easy money" lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    So good to see at least one positive post here!

    Also if your significant other is disrespectful enough to say you don't have a real job I'd think seriously about ending things.
    The good and the bad goes hand in hand.
    The sites make it seem so amazing that you can "Make up to $200/hour.. or Make up to $5000/2 weeks-- YAY! Become a model"....
    None mention the ugly part...
    None. Zero.

    I can bet at least 50 % of the models were told by someone in their family that they do not have a job. Not necessarily out of disrespect but out of concern for their future, for their pension plan ( how many models have one? I dont), out of aggravation with the secrecy of it all....

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    Default Re: For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    Also the longer you do this without a back up vanilla job, the longer blank period you will have to fill in your CV somehow, when you want to do something else, something "secure".

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    Default Re: For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    You will have days where you will not want to be to bothered or talk to anybody. Yet, this is your job. In camming, that's all you do is talk, flirt, and touch yourself. So you might take a day off. That day can turn into two, or three or a week, or a month because you feel burnt-out. What a relief to get away from those idiots yesssssss! Then you remember, this is my source of income, I have to go back! You miss the loads of cash on a good day and love the freedom of being your own boss. But it will feel like starting all over again You may have lost some of your best regulars and gain some new idiots


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    Quote Originally Posted by luscious sadie View Post
    you could seriously replace the words camming with stripping in most of these and they would be true.
    I used to think stripping was "worse"( to me, cause I could never deal with face to face contact).

    But now Im not so sure anymore..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glasses View Post
    Also the longer you do this without a back up vanilla job, the longer blank period you will have to fill in your CV somehow, when you want to do something else, something "secure".
    hmm well I guess if you plan to ever go back to the corporate world it's a bad idea to make this your only job. I was in it for many years and got so sick of the politics, low pay and backstabbing I would never want to return. My health was suffering badly from the stress. My company went under and it was one of the best things that could have happened to me in the long run because it pushed me into camming full time.

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    This is a great thread. Not everyone is cut out to cam and when newbies decide to skim through camming connection for ideas on how to get started they can get an idea of not only the up side of camming but also the down side.

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    Default Re: For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    I'd add to the list but you guys pretty much have it all covered. Lol
    Lucky newbies, I wish I could have been spoiled this way when I first started. Shit I learned all this the hard way,by actually going through this kind of stuff.

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    Default Re: For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    you will be asked the same questions over and over, day after day.

    how old r u bb?
    where r u from bb?
    what do u do in pvt bb?

    WE HAVE PROFILES!!!!


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    Default Re: For all newbies... if you wonder how camming is like...

    Eye strain
    Bright lights hit you constantly and your room sometime gets extremely hot.
    Urinary Tract Infections!
    The 12.00USD profit day
    Keeping a consistent schedule
    Slow days/weeks/months
    HARD HARD work getting privates. Some days it is easy and some days it is hell.


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    Your vag will hurt at times.

    (I've worked a lot of hours in the past few days in hopes of getting better placement on my new DP account---I'm sore.)

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