Im fighting with a friend because one of us allegedly was talking shit out the other. I want to know if it was or wasnt, or if the other is wrong or not.
Friend A-Susie is talking with an old guy friend-John- who Friend B-Jane is kinda interested in.
John asks Susie if Jane would like to go out drinking. Susie says, yeah, Jane definitely likes to go out and drink, but "Ive gotta warn ya' watch out cause when she's drinking she gets a temper, hahaha".
Susie thinks nothing of her comment. John files it away for later.
A couple weeks later....
Jane and John are hanging out. Jane mentions she likes drinking. John says he knows, susie "warned him" about Jane's drinking. Mentions he didn't really appreciate the warning, made him uncomfortable.
Jane later confronts Susie. Says she really doens't appreciate the shit talking behind her back, and would Susie please keep her mouth shut. Susie says she wasn't talking shit, just made that comment in passing.
Was it shit talking, backstabbing, talking behind someone's back? Or was it a "normal" comment made in regular conversation?
I'd really appreciate the input. Thanks!



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