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    Default How often do you run into assholes?

    I've been dancing for a while, and it just occurred to me that I haven't run into ANY assholes. (knock on wood) I can't recall a customer ever saying anything mean or insulting to me (at least not to my face), but from reading threads here, one would think the SC is full of douchebags.

    How often do you encounter these jerks? Regularly? Rarely?
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    Consensus between me and my bf, who listens to my nightly recountings very patiently, every three days.

    I think I run into minor league assholes nightly but the big hitters are less often.

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    Default Re: How often do you run into assholes?

    85-90% of the customers I've encountered were perfectly nice, respectful guys. Maybe another 8-9% were a little abrupt or rude. But only 1-2% were truly douchebags.

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    Default Re: How often do you run into assholes?

    I meet someone who I'll think 'what an idiot' about several times a night.

    But I'll meet someone who's such an idiot I have to tell them so once every three nights.

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    Default Re: How often do you run into assholes?

    Regular run-of-the-mill jerks, nightly.

    Ones that are pretty mean? Weekly.

    A true douchbag whose insults stick for a while or do something completely out of line? Maybe once or twice a month.
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    Default Re: How often do you run into assholes?

    Yeah...the completely out of line ones are pretty rare. I can count those on one hand in about two years of dancing.

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    Depends on the level of asshole, but pretty frequently. If I go a night without a dose of asshole I'm impressed. Might be my area though.
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    ^ same.
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    I definitely encounter assholes almost nightly at my current club. I think it's because the clientele consists of mostly younger men. I also have a really short fuse so it makes me burnout faster.

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    op, if you aren't running into assholes a lot, you're doing something right. that is something i loved about dayshift.

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    Default Re: How often do you run into assholes?

    Honestly I've only ever had someone say something REALLY rude to me twice ever. And once it was some kid who was pissed that I wouldn't fuck him... so Idk that it even counts.

    I mean, there are always those guys who are abrupt in cutting you off to get rid of you and are like "NO" when you say "Hello"... but I don't pay that much mind, really.
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    Dayshift does bring about a whole different type of clientele - it's my favorite to work.


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    op, if you aren't running into assholes a lot, you're doing something right. that is something i loved about dayshift.

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    Default Re: How often do you run into assholes?

    I think it depends on the person's attitude and what they consider to be an asshole.

    some girls are more sensitive and if a guy says "I'm not ready for a dance yet" the second she walks up to him some girl might think "UGH what a jerk!" but another might think "oh well at least he's honest".

    as for guys who are just insulting and don't care about pissing anyone off once in a GREAT while, but I just remember that they're just mean because they hate themselves. this one guy told me I shouldn't be a stripper because my boobs were too small so I just raised an eyebrow and sauntered off. I try REALLY hard not to let people get to me

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    Default Re: How often do you run into assholes?

    I don't know how often but I'll start keeping track. There were wall to wall assholes in the club Friday night.

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    I'm starting to think that every man is an asshole--it it just a matter of who he is being an asshole to that particular night. The guys who aren't assholes to me are complete assholes to my friends, and vice versa. jmho.

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    Default Re: How often do you run into assholes?

    Quote Originally Posted by ZePeanut View Post
    I'm starting to think that every man is an asshole--it it just a matter of who he is being an asshole to that particular night. The guys who aren't assholes to me are complete assholes to my friends, and vice versa. jmho.
    So true... it's all relative! Just like how every girl makes a different amount of money on the same night at the same club, we all have different experiences with the same guys.

    Although some treat ALL the girls like crap, and have zero respect. These guys are the worsttt. I'd say maybe once/twice a week I run into a guy like that.

    I'm not a total cynic, though. There are nice guys in the club, too... just harder to find. I probably dance for truly NICE guys about as often as I dance for the worst assholes.

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    Probably 10 % of the time. They're out there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ZePeanut View Post
    I'm starting to think that every man is an asshole--it it just a matter of who he is being an asshole to that particular night. The guys who aren't assholes to me are complete assholes to my friends, and vice versa. jmho.
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    Default Re: How often do you run into assholes?

    Id say I talk to at least one a night..I work in a suit type club so they think they are smarter than you and they'll always be 1 who tries to belittle your intelligence. Honestly I think it goes over most girls heads so they don't even realise. Especially if english is their second language. But ones who are blatantly rude... as in make an awful comment... probably only 1-2 a year.

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    Default Re: How often do you run into assholes?

    when i was dancing, it depended on where i worked. at the local dive type bar, not all that often, but when they were there they were high level assholes. when i worked at another club, a "gentleman's club" I ran into them every night....several of them. Mostly just irritating. Some made me come within moments of physical violence. one sexually assaulted me.

    So, they happened pretty regularly. I developed a whole scale of "asshole-ness", lol. below a 5 and i could deal with it. above a 5 and started to get bad. above a 7 and the real me/temper came out and it was dealt with. never hurt anyone, physically anyway. That was the benefit of being the floorguy/bouncer favorite as well as managers pet....shit got dealt with.

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    I don't consider myself to be sensitive, but while at Showgirls I came across an asshole every night. I've never had someone attack me personally on my looks or anything, but I consider the guy who gets up to take a leak every time a girl gets off stage and is walking the floor for tips an asshole. Or the guy who comes in and sneaks into a dark corner trying to avoid buying drinks and refuses to tip, those are assholes. OR the guys who gets on his phone as you're walking up for a tip and pretends to not see/hear you standing in front of him.

    Oh, and another guy who did kinda insult me, this one I remember clearly. They were asking me how much it would be to fuck in the champagne room. After I told them time and time again that I don't do extras, I finally asked, you got a million dollars on you by chance? So this Cuban douche bag says, it ain't like you're all that sweety.

    I live in Miami, lots of assholes down here.

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    Garden variety assholes? Ugh it seems like 70-30 mix these days, the 30% being the douchers. Out of that 30%, about 10% of them really make my blood boil, and one or two a week will make me flip out on them.

    The ones I hate the most are the Shit Talkers ("Yeah girl act like you're fuckin' me! Yeah! You like that? I bet you'd love to blow me you fucking slut!" <-- true story, a month ago), and not to be racist, but the Indian guys who I've told the rules to a billion times and play stupid. It's like seriously dude? I told you yesterday there's no prostitution here. "Im not talking about prostitution, I mean fucking!" ... What do you think that is, fuckface??? UGH. And I can't toss them for being idiots and feigning idiocy.

    My bullshit tolerance has gotten so tiny, it's maybe visible under a microscope on a good day.

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    I guess my worst one personally was on the last goddamn day I danced. He was an old harmless looking dude, drunk, and his buddies bought him a table dance for $20. I obliged and he was fine, til the last 20 seconds. He looked up at me with a shit eating grin, pokes my vag over my thong and goes " Boop boop!" like you'd beep a kid's nose. He looked so smug I wanted to smack him in his old, weathered, grandfather time face. I came unglued, read him the riot act, and bullied his buddies into giving me an extra $40. I know that doesn't sound bad, but that old fart's expression made me so ungodly pissed. I'll take verbal bs any day over some fake cutesy bastard who thinks he has no repercussions because he's drunk.

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    This doesn't happen often but a group of racist douche bags slithered into my club Saturday night. I swear, most of them looked like something that had fallen out of a cat's ass!!!!

    The leading douche bag was rude to all the ethnic dancers, was dumb enough to think he was friends with the owners (the owners are way too classy to be bothered low lives like him), and he had homosexual tendencies with the way he repeatedly caressed the faces of of "friends" the whole time they were there. It was great to see them finally slither out the door so we could sanitize the chairs they sat their filthy repulsive asses in.

    In the end, all the dancers wound up having a great night.
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    I come across...well not so much rude assholes just ALOT of guys that think they know fucking EVERYTHING and say the most cliche things that they think we have NEVER HEARD before, which i then walk off thinking they are an asshole anyway.

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