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    okay ladies, I am a situation where I don't know what to do. Any advice I would appreciate. I am a part time dancer currently (mostly weekends), work fulltime and school at night. I had to quit an amazing job during this past April. I had gotten another job who lead me on to believe it will be just as or more amazing but it turned out to be all lies. I feel like my job is very racist, unprofessional, and unorganized. I am absolutely hate this job. But this job pays me enough to pay my bills. I have before this hazzard according to my boyfriend. I am not happy bubbly self anymore, I'm mean and its very unlike me. I am going away in two weeks for a strip trip. I am wondering, should I just out right quit my job and just dance until I find my dream job or keep my hell. I have gotten interviews and job offers but it doesn't pay me enough for me to pay for school and bills. I am going for a second degree and I'm not done and won't be for sometime. If I dance, I will probably go away for several weeks at a time. My issues would be I be leaving my dog with my parents. I hate sleeping without her every night. My boyfriend who does not approve of dancing. But I am so miserable that I am willing to dance fulltime. Bad idea? Pls advise ladies.

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    If you are really that unhappy with this job that it's fucking with your psyche to that extreme I say quit and pursue dancing FT then - or also try to find like a cocktail waitressing/bartending gig in conjunction with dancing so you have more freedom and can maximize your earning potential. Life is too short to be doing anything but being happy & living it to the fullest.

    As for your boyfriend not approving of your dancing...that wouldn't even be a factor to me; AT ALL. YOU pay your OWN bills and its YOUR life; how anyone else feels about it is irrelevant - do what's best for YOU.

    As for the dog, a lot of business folks have to leave them behind to travel on trips etc - just think of it as you're doing what's necessary to provide a good life for you and your pooch & get on with traveling and making $$! I wish I could take a strip trip for a few weeks at a time.

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    Thanks my dear. My man doesn't stop me from dancing but its hard for him to see how dancing could pay for a life without extras. I have been dancing for awhile now, and since the clubs around me approve of prostitution he thinks $ will win me over. he's so old fashion too. But he suggests that I stick with the job until I find a replacemement one. But my personal happiness will drop to hell in the meanwhile. I am seriously going have to do some soul searching.

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    in this tough economy i would just hang on to any job possible

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    That's what I was thinking. I know I am very talented in my full time position. I have been recognized through their major associations. I got a job offer last week that would pay me close to what I need to pay my bills but the problem is they need me to work past my time that I need to go to school. I can't hold off on my degree anymore. My first degree is in something my parents want me to get. Besides that I am not getting younger. I feel like shit almost every shift of my day job. My day job is my passion, I love the career but not the placement or company I am with ;*(

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    may i ask what field this current job is in?
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