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    how do you deal with customers that just won't stop talking!!! I find the ones that chew your ear off are always non-spenders and are just trying to take up your time. I feel rude interrupting and just walking away while they're midsentence so I always get stuck with these assholes

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    Default Re: just shut up already!!!

    Don't feel rude. If you just want to get away from them, then get up and walk away.

    If you still want to try and sell them something, then interrupt them mid sentence saying something like "OH woah, sorry to interrupt you, but that last girl on stage got me all hot. Lets stop with all this serious talk and head up to the VIP for some dances!".

    If they pretend not to hear you, or continue rambling on, then that's your cue that they won't spend anyway.

    Your time is money. Don't feel bad or rude for not wanting to waste it.



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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    Your time is money. Don't feel bad or rude for not wanting to waste it.
    THIS.
    "Strippers are like pet tigers. They are nice to look at but they are not for everyone."

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    Default Re: just shut up already!!!

    I say after one song I tell them I would love to hear more but can we take it to the LD or vip if you want something more private. Then make an excuse that you get fined for being lazy on the job. And that you don't know about the other girls but every penny counts.

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    Default Re: just shut up already!!!

    Say, "I'm sorry but my time costs money." Don't feel bad when he's a waste.

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    Default Re: just shut up already!!!

    If it's a customer who is important to you (regular) don't do this, but I let my eyes wander a bit. It's SO RUDE and nothing I would ever do to someone in real life, but it can let a gabber know that you are beginning to be disengaged by his epic story and that it's time to wrap it up.


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    Default Re: just shut up already!!!

    "Can we finish this conversation in the V.I.P.?"

    Easy.

    If they say no then you say "You know I'd love to hear the rest of this story but I have to go and get some more dances tonight".

    If they can't meet you half way why should you be expected to do the same.

    It's very rare that a guy agrees to move to VIP without the intention of spending some money.




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    do not feel bad about walking away from someone who doesn't think that you are worth giving money to for listening.
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    Default Re: just shut up already!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    Don't feel rude. If you just want to get away from them, then get up and walk away.

    If you still want to try and sell them something, then interrupt them mid sentence saying something like "OH woah, sorry to interrupt you, but that last girl on stage got me all hot. Lets stop with all this serious talk and head up to the VIP for some dances!".

    If they pretend not to hear you, or continue rambling on, then that's your cue that they won't spend anyway.

    Your time is money. Don't feel bad or rude for not wanting to waste it.
    I'm gonna have to practice this. I personally hate being interrupted so it's hard for me to interrupt other people, but hey they're being rude by keeping me from making my money so whatever!

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    Default Re: just shut up already!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    "Can we finish this conversation in the V.I.P.?"

    Easy.

    If they say no then you say "You know I'd love to hear the rest of this story but I have to go and get some more dances tonight".

    If they can't meet you half way why should you be expected to do the same.

    It's very rare that a guy agrees to move to VIP without the intention of spending some money.
    that's a good one! thanks!!

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    These guys are like their own category of strip club douche. I've met a lot of them, I think it's like a game to them to see how long they can keep us at their side for free, listening to them babble while they cop cheap feels or get a good free look at us. They do it because they're counting on us being too nice and polite to interrupt. If I suspect that they're one of these guys then I will stand up and lean over (they will almost always shut up at this point) and while smiling ask them to continue telling me their story in the private dance room. I'll usually grab their hand and gently pull it, too. It's pushy as hell but I know most of these guys aren't going to spend a penny so I don't give a damn, I'm not losing anything and I like putting them on the spot. They always get the funniest "Oh, shit," looks on their faces when they realize I'm not going to let them babble at me for half an hour, and once in a blue moon they'll actually go back with me. When they say no, I tell them (as the other girls have said) that I'm enjoying his company but I have to get back to work and then ask for a tip for my time while holding the side of my thong out for them to put money in it. That way I at least get something out of them, lol. And if they don't even give me a tip I tell all the other girls I know to avoid him.

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    I had this problem a lot. My biggest issue was that, at my club, girls would often make just as much, if not more, off tips than dances. And most of the customers were townies who came in regularly. Every girl I saw employing bitchy "You're not gonna spend on me? Well, fuck you then" attitudes were always going home with nothing because customers would remember and not only not buy dances, but also wouldn't tip, so they made zilch. As much as I wanted to employ this tactic and act like it wouldn't affect my money at all, the reality was that it would for a small club like that. If I saw some other customer I knew, even if I knew that customer also wouldn't spend, I'd say "Do you mind if I go say hi to my other friend over there?" Then say a quick hi, how are you to the other guy, then go about my business. Or, if it was close enough to my time to go onstage, I'd say I needed to use the bathroom/go to the DR to freshen up for stage, then go onstage, and then avoid his table when I got off.

    The "fine for being lazy" thing worked for me a couple times though. We actually were fined if he didn't sell a certain number of dances throughout the night, so if I asked for a dance, and the guy got all uppity because I wouldn't just sit and listen, I could say "Sorry, it's not that I don't like talking to you, but we get charged a "lazy bitch fee" (what they actually called it) if we don't sell a certain number of dances, so I really need to go do some. If I sell enough while you're still here, I'll come back and see you." Then just never go back over...

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    Quote Originally Posted by rareaspasia View Post
    These guys are like their own category of strip club douche. I've met a lot of them, I think it's like a game to them to see how long they can keep us at their side for free, listening to them babble while they cop cheap feels or get a good free look at us. They do it because they're counting on us being too nice and polite to interrupt. If I suspect that they're one of these guys then I will stand up and lean over (they will almost always shut up at this point) and while smiling ask them to continue telling me their story in the private dance room. I'll usually grab their hand and gently pull it, too. It's pushy as hell but I know most of these guys aren't going to spend a penny so I don't give a damn, I'm not losing anything and I like putting them on the spot. They always get the funniest "Oh, shit," looks on their faces when they realize I'm not going to let them babble at me for half an hour, and once in a blue moon they'll actually go back with me. When they say no, I tell them (as the other girls have said) that I'm enjoying his company but I have to get back to work and then ask for a tip for my time while holding the side of my thong out for them to put money in it. That way I at least get something out of them, lol. And if they don't even give me a tip I tell all the other girls I know to avoid him.
    it IS a game to them and it's rude as fuck. it'd be like going to a car dealership and just test driving cars all day. and they don't realize how much it hurts our money because EVERYONE just assumes we all make a thousand dollars a night. they don't realize that while they're babbling there could be a good spending customer who's ready to drop a couple hundred dollar and now we're missing out because this loser needs to talk about how cool he is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    I had this problem a lot. My biggest issue was that, at my club, girls would often make just as much, if not more, off tips than dances. And most of the customers were townies who came in regularly. Every girl I saw employing bitchy "You're not gonna spend on me? Well, fuck you then" attitudes were always going home with nothing because customers would remember and not only not buy dances, but also wouldn't tip, so they made zilch. As much as I wanted to employ this tactic and act like it wouldn't affect my money at all, the reality was that it would for a small club like that. If I saw some other customer I knew, even if I knew that customer also wouldn't spend, I'd say "Do you mind if I go say hi to my other friend over there?" Then say a quick hi, how are you to the other guy, then go about my business. Or, if it was close enough to my time to go onstage, I'd say I needed to use the bathroom/go to the DR to freshen up for stage, then go onstage, and then avoid his table when I got off.

    The "fine for being lazy" thing worked for me a couple times though. We actually were fined if he didn't sell a certain number of dances throughout the night, so if I asked for a dance, and the guy got all uppity because I wouldn't just sit and listen, I could say "Sorry, it's not that I don't like talking to you, but we get charged a "lazy bitch fee" (what they actually called it) if we don't sell a certain number of dances, so I really need to go do some. If I sell enough while you're still here, I'll come back and see you." Then just never go back over...
    LOL lazy bitch fee. just out of curiosity how many did you have to sell?

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    Quote Originally Posted by xGigi View Post
    LOL lazy bitch fee. just out of curiosity how many did you have to sell?
    5. It was actually you had to sell 5 dances or dancer drinks or any combination of them. But I would tell customers it was just dances and I wouldn't tell them the exact number so they wouldn't see me doing 5 dances, then get pissed when I didn't come back to them, or try to just buy me drinks all night and keep me held hostage until I was too drunk to drive home... lol

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    one guy started yabbering on years ago to me and he got so carried away that let slip he "would never ever spend a penny on dances" and "liked talking to dancers for free, have no money" at which point i managed to pipe up that i would leave him to it, realising his mistake he then came out in a rather desperate voice "no wait, i might spend some money" i repeated what he had just said a second ago about having no money and he looked very glum and dissapointed his plan to get me stuck with him had failed by his own stupid big gob running faster than his brain, i went and sat on a nearby table and clearly just trying to get my attention and lure me back, he started shouting "all you care about is money" i completely ignored him and he soon shut up.

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    Depending on what part you're playing, its usually pretty easy to interrupt with an 'Oh my God...!' and branch off from something he has said. You have to be quick to turn the conversation around to dances or whatever your hustle stems from though.
    If you just want to escape, then look over their shoulder and react as if someone has beckoned you or pretend you heard the DJ call your name, put your hand on theirs and say 'Oh, sorry babe, hold that though, my boss/the DJ just signaled me, I just have to go find out why. Don't go anywhere.'
    Try not to promise to return if you have no intention of doing so, but saying this can make you appear busier or more in demand and if you do return you can cut to the chase and explain that you are busy but would love to dance for them before you are occupied elsewhere.
    You can also try and turn it into a VIP by pointing out the loud music and saying 'I'm sorry, I'm having trouble hearing you over the music. I'd love to hear more about suchandsuch, let's go somewhere quieter where we won't be disturbed any more.'

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    Quote Originally Posted by TigerToes View Post
    one guy started yabbering on years ago to me and he got so carried away that let slip he "would never ever spend a penny on dances" and "liked talking to dancers for free, have no money" at which point i managed to pipe up that i would leave him to it, realising his mistake he then came out in a rather desperate voice "no wait, i might spend some money" i repeated what he had just said a second ago about having no money and he looked very glum and dissapointed his plan to get me stuck with him had failed by his own stupid big gob running faster than his brain, i went and sat on a nearby table and clearly just trying to get my attention and lure me back, he started shouting "all you care about is money" i completely ignored him and he soon shut up.
    what a loser! do guys seriously think they're that interesting that a STRIPPER would stick around after they say they're not gonna spend? on what planet would a dancer be like "oh that's ok that you have no money I'm having such a good time with you"

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    At my club the dances are 10 bucks on the floor. If I happen to be in that situation(dread) I will jump up, apologize and cut him off. I tell him I would love to hear his story, but it is important to me to sell 10 dances an hour. He either says ok or well, you know...

    I also let him know that it is easier to hang out in the champagne room. That we can dance and talk back there on the couches.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettJanuary View Post
    Lol, sadly there are a lot of guys who seem really confused about this. Like, I'm sorry hon, I'm not here for your sparkling personality.
    :o but I thought all strippers were just sluts who liked to take their clothes off and talk to men and get all horny???????????

    ???????


    ???????????????????????

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    Quote Originally Posted by xGigi View Post
    what a loser! do guys seriously think they're that interesting that a STRIPPER would stick around after they say they're not gonna spend? on what planet would a dancer be like "oh that's ok that you have no money I'm having such a good time with you"
    i think he totaly fell for me pretending i actualy found him funny/interesting and got so relaxed and open with me he thought he could tell me his secret plan, unfortunately for him as soon as i found out this little nugget my act was over and i was on my way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TigerToes View Post
    i think he totaly fell for me pretending i actualy found him funny/interesting and got so relaxed and open with me he thought he could tell me his secret plan, unfortunately for him as soon as i found out this little nugget my act was over and i was on my way.
    lol I feel ya on that one. stripping makes me feel like such an amazing actress. I could be listening to a guy give me a play by play of him folding laundry and I'd be like "WOW!! *giggle* that's awesome!! how exciting! and then what happened? . . . oh my gosh REALLY?! NO. WAY. wow! *giggle* that's sooo cool!!"

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