Hey there,
I'm 19 and have been wanting to get into this industry for a very, very long time and I have come to the conclusion that this is something I need to do for myself. However, my boyfriend doesn't share the same opinion. He is a wonderful, caring, and almost all the time understanding guy and I can genuinely see a future with this guy. (Don't say I'm too young or naive as I know well enough by now) He bluntly said he is not okay with it and that if I am to enter this industry in any way, he will break up with me and cut me out of his life.
I know it basically comes down to what I think is most important, but I've read everything from "He should support you and care more about your happiness than his insecurities" to "No wonder he hates it, you're selling your sexuality to other guys". The more I hear people talking down about this industry, the more it irritates me and urges me to go forward. I have no issues with my life other than money, and I genuinely want to do this job as it seems perfect. I am a very sensual, sexy, intelligent and down to earth girl and I figure this is worth a try as I have previously found out how much busting my ass over retail and hospitality jobs for shit pay isn't worth it.
I was just wondering for anyone who has just started or had the same problem, what are your thoughts?
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