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    I've noticed while browsing the threads that a lot of ladies are mentioning that they ask for a tip when they have sat with a customer for a period of time.

    How do you do it? How do you say it? How long should one wait before attempting to ask? (Ive even heard it referenced multiple times as push for a tip, not ask)

    I tend to not stay long with a customer, actually. If I sit with a customer, I shoot for a dance by the 2nd song, tops. Most of the time, I get the dance but there are customers that I've come across that def do need some extra time. In this situation, I have sat with a customer and have not always landed my goal of collecting the cash in the end.

    This topic really interests me. Thanks in advance.

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    Yes I'd be interested to know as well. I've had men occasionally offer to pay me to hang out but it's rare and I've never flat out asked. How IS it done?


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    just ask "can I have a tip for my time?" boom!

    I tend not to do this though unless it's REALLY busy because I like to check back on customers who turned me down to see if they changed their mind. if a guy tips you $5 for sitting with him and you go back and try to get a dance he'll be like "I already gave you money!"

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    If a guy has talked your ear off without leaving you an opportunity to gracefully exit and doesn't get a dance in the end, I think it's fine to ask for a tip. Maybe I'm short sighted, but in my opinion there's nothing to lose with shitty customers like this.

    If it's busy and a guy is genuinely interested in my company but isn't ready for dances, after a song or so I'll tell him that I would love to keep chatting with him and stay lost in the moment but that it would be so much better for both of us if I weren't anxious about making money. If they take the hint but give me a small amount of money I'll thank them and politely say that I can make $x per song and need to stay focused because it's my only job. If they ask how much I want I give them the whole "I can make $x per song" line. Sometimes if he seems on the fence and it's not too busy I'll throw in a small discount.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lol1337a View Post
    If a guy has talked your ear off .....

    If it's busy and a guy is genuinely interested in my company but isn't ready for dances, after a song or so I'll tell him that I would love to keep chatting with him and stay lost in the moment but that it would be so much better for both of us if I weren't anxious about making money. If they take the hint but give me a small amount of money I'll thank them and politely say that I can make $x per song and need to stay focused because it's my only job. If they ask how much I want I give them the whole "I can make $x per song" line. Sometimes if he seems on the fence and it's not too bust I'll throw in a small discount.
    That is a beautiful line and will def wok in seamlessly with my hustle, Thanks.

    "If they take the hint but give me a small amount of money I'll thank them and politely say that I can make $x per song and need to stay focused because it's my only job.....";You could always throw in something about the intimacy/quietness of the VIP lounge and comment that its so special/unique/rare to meet a man who loves the talking as much as my yummy cuddles, particularly if you went to emphasise that he is paying for time AND you can mention that in the CR you can always lose a piece of clothing if he mentions any taboo topics (ie. whatever you don't like talking about). Make it a game.

    I figure if you are trying to get $$$ and you have the brass to ask for tips for time then do it properly and Hard Sell - practise and experience and you will learn to gauge what is working for you. More than anything it ishaving absolute confidence that you're worth it (a tiny I dare you to refuse expression is good too or a touch of smirk but not bitchy because you are above all that!)- did that make sense?
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    i used to ask for a small tip for "my beauty" if someone turned me down for a dance. They usually gave 3-5 bucks. Its not much but it adds up.

    As for paying for a "sit and chat," I would make an offer to buy me out of rotation at rate I would be paid to get a VIP, if it was worth it at the moment. In a packed club, where you would make more money jumping from lap to lap you can adjust it.
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