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  • I don't want you to know who I am h0ttie.

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    Verify? WHAT? I have been away for a few months, and have no idea why or what it is. Honestly , i am private and anonymous. I don't link my cam name to this ever. This site is not earning me income, although it is wonderful. I don't verify myself, unless it has to do with pay. Sorry. I don't know who is behind this site (it is the INTERNET), and who my info would go to. I have a lot to contribute but verify is not my idea of security for a web based searchable forum. If there was a LOCKED area only for verified members, than, i would consider.

    Nice being back.

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    Like you said Bam, why should we trust you either? I honestly did not sign up for your forum, due to the fact I do not trust that easy. Plus I feel you get into too many heated arguments, for me to even join. With that being said, I am also not trying to start arguing, and I feel we can discuss without it getting to that point.

    I just feel why should anyone here trust people other than the admins, and yes, B you are also an admin, but a new one.

    I am all for a verified section to post, and I am glad tinydancer clarified my main concern. Plus the "verified cam girls' icon is really cute! j/k just trying to be light here. No drama. Remember, no drama!
    Taking a break from all unproductive shit will prove to be the best choice you can make.

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    Default Re: Why are you not verified?

    Ok ladies, I asked Bambalina to edit her post because I don't want to have to close yet another thread. I have to be honest and say that I have a shitty feeling about this thread. I will be keeping my fun police hat on and watching this thread

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    Default Re: Why are you not verified?

    Obviously people are split down the middle about this, and I hope the thread stays respectful, and positive. I think everyone has a right to their opinion, and I think it is safe to say some people would prefer verification by the owner, or mod. I hope we can all just be peaceful in our opinions.
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    Also I hope my post to Bambalina was not rude. If so let me know and I will edit it. I really am just having a peaceful debate.
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    Default Re: Why are you not verified?

    Quote Originally Posted by Marleysade View Post
    I want it to keep out he creepers from my damn cam buddy group! lol..but it not for everyone but i love my cliqe!!
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    Last edited by GlamourRouge; 08-16-2011 at 09:15 PM.

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    Default Re: Why are you not verified?

    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    Also I hope my post to Bambalina was not rude. If so let me know and I will edit it. I really am just having a peaceful debate.
    No it wasn't rude... thank you though

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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    Also I hope my post to Bambalina was not rude. If so let me know and I will edit it. I really am just having a peaceful debate.
    Busty, I adore you! No rudeness taken at all.

    As far as verification, like I said, I only added the boards with verification after being specifically asked, and posting a long thread with a poll and stuff...95% of the site is wide open. But I don't allow un-registered people to just read the boards...you must be registered to have access to MANY of them...

    But either way, I just wish it was more "official" and part of the StripperWeb team that was doing the verifying.

    B

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    Default Re: Why are you not verified?

    I'm not so sure anymore...this pressure to 'verify' all does seem really random. I've found some great information on this forum through my own motivation and searching, and hopefully I've contributed something useful. I've always appreciated the openness of SW as well, but at the end of the day a lot of us are still strangers to each other, with our jobs being the only things we may have in common. I just don't feel like I have anything to prove, and that verifying is a moderator's job. I do applaud your efforts though h0ttie.

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    Default Re: Why are you not verified?

    Ok just to reiterate what tinydancer said...
    I will be the only one to see who you are. I also am not going to keep your picture or anything weird lol. Once I open the mail, check your picture, get your name and what site you work on I delete it.

    I also want to say that I would never under any circumstances share any info you gave me. I respect everyones privacy so much. Even in my other thread about verifying when I had a problem with anyones stuff (such as my state being blocked, links not working, not being able to message on the site they gave me, etc) I told them I emailed them. I never posted the smallest info like "hey blahblah your streamate link doesn't work"...just because that would allow others to know a site you work on and..well thats your place to decide if you want to share that...not mine!

    Even in the event that I became enemies with someone I verified and they talked shit about me every day 8 times a day ...I would still not tell anyone who they were. I'm not that kind of person. There is no circumstance that I would ever let anyone know who you are...even if you knew who I was and told the whole world..I still wouldn't. I already had a girl I am friends with on here asking me "omg [so and so] verified!?? who are they? I have been dying to know!" Of course I didn't tell her and will never. Like I said I respect everyones privacy.

    Also...I want to say I wish someone more "reputable" was doing the verifying. I wish one of the admins would do it. I wish a girl who was at least a moderator would do it. But that hasn't happened and the topic of "this should be private" is discussed so often and is never solved. So this is the solution we have for now. It's the best I can do...and I think its pretty OK. I am glad that a lot of girls have trusted me already and I hope more will also see that I have no interest in drama, or no interest in who you are (other than making sure that you are a real cam girl).
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    Quote Originally Posted by blkschoolgirl View Post
    I'm not so sure anymore...this pressure to 'verify' all does seem really random. I've found some great information on this forum through my own motivation and searching, and hopefully I've contributed something useful. I've always appreciated the openness of SW as well, but at the end of the day a lot of us are still strangers to each other, with our jobs being the only things we may have in common. I just don't feel like I have anything to prove, and that verifying is a moderator's job. I do applaud your efforts though h0ttie.
    This all the way. Tbh, I tend to stay out of this particular sub forum because it hasn't really yielded anything as of late. Nothing I don't already know and nothing that hasn't been answered at least 10 times before.

    And to be quite frank, I don't think these steps would be necessary at all if people were a little more discerning with the information they share (both business and personal). Yes, it's quite therapeutic to fellowship, but you can't have it both ways.
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    Default Re: Why are you not verified?

    As much as i want useful info to be public , i do want to talk to girls that i know are real about personal stuff,so i will do it

    edited..sent the info to your email hottie
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    Default Re: Why are you not verified?

    I prefer not to verify because I only share who I am with, with people I select to know for whatever reason. It is great that there is something like this for those willing to verify though.

    But I am a real cam girl. I promise. And Im okay with making do with the open areas of the board...they have served me well so far.

    Now that that's settled...who wants to show me pictures of their feet?!

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    I think it's wonderful that we have this verification system in place for those who want it, and I'm glad to see that a lot of us are getting verified. But anonymity is very important to some posters, and some just do not feel comfortable verifying to h0ttie. And that's fine, no one should have to do something they aren't comfy with. I don't think we should make our unverified posters feel like they're not in an exclusive clique or like we don't trust them. If there's another reason to doubt that they are a cam girl, them being unverified could be something to think about. But for most members, they just have personal reasons to be cautious with their info, and we should respect that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by prettygreeneyes View Post
    I think it's wonderful that we have this verification system in place for those who want it, and I'm glad to see that a lot of us are getting verified. But anonymity is very important to some posters, and some just do not feel comfortable verifying to h0ttie. And that's fine, no one should have to do something they aren't comfy with. I don't think we should make our unverified posters feel like they're not in an exclusive clique or like we don't trust them. If there's another reason to doubt that they are a cam girl, them being unverified could be something to think about. But for most members, they just have personal reasons to be cautious with their info, and we should respect that.
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    For those wondering why a mod isn't doing the verifying it's probably because we didn't come up with the idea. I have no problem with lending a hand to verifying. I'm pretty sure almost EVERYONE knows who I am by now or where to find me between my pics in the Pictures section, my website, my blog, my BDSM blog, my camming twitter, my BDSM twitter, my SM, AW, MFC and the fact that my name is right out in the open on this board and in my signature which links to all these accounts. Honestly if you don't feel comfortable verifying to me, someone that hides NOTHING about her camming I really don't know who you would feel comfortable with.

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    Here is the thing...and I am not trying to be rude at all. I KNOW Hottie is thorough (sp?) and that is why I joined this group. I feel genuinely safe with her doing the verification. I don't know who Hottie is. I have never asked her to verify herself to me (though I have taken a couple of guesses and been dead wrong ).
    I feel like since it is her group she needs to be the verifier and if anyone doesn't want her to verify to her than too bad for them. We all had to do it. It's only fair that everyone has to verify to her.
    If someone else is doing verification, I want to know about it. I am not trying to be a spoiled brat, but I really don't want to post in here unless I know that it is her that is doing the verification. So far she has been nothing but fair, discreet, and very thorough.
    I joined hottie's group...if i wanted someone else to verify I would have joined their group.
    Honestly, safety is my biggest concern here and I want there to be the same verification standards for every member.
    NOTHING against Aria at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by h0ttie View Post
    Ok just to reiterate what tinydancer said...
    I will be the only one to see who you are. I also am not going to keep your picture or anything weird lol. Once I open the mail, check your picture, get your name and what site you work on I delete it.

    I also want to say that I would never under any circumstances share any info you gave me. I respect everyones privacy so much. Even in my other thread about verifying when I had a problem with anyones stuff (such as my state being blocked, links not working, not being able to message on the site they gave me, etc) I told them I emailed them. I never posted the smallest info like "hey blahblah your streamate link doesn't work"...just because that would allow others to know a site you work on and..well thats your place to decide if you want to share that...not mine!

    Even in the event that I became enemies with someone I verified and they talked shit about me every day 8 times a day ...I would still not tell anyone who they were. I'm not that kind of person. There is no circumstance that I would ever let anyone know who you are...even if you knew who I was and told the whole world..I still wouldn't. I already had a girl I am friends with on here asking me "omg [so and so] verified!?? who are they? I have been dying to know!" Of course I didn't tell her and will never. Like I said I respect everyones privacy.

    Also...I want to say I wish someone more "reputable" was doing the verifying. I wish one of the admins would do it. I wish a girl who was at least a moderator would do it. But that hasn't happened and the topic of "this should be private" is discussed so often and is never solved. So this is the solution we have for now. It's the best I can do...and I think its pretty OK. I am glad that a lot of girls have trusted me already and I hope more will also see that I have no interest in drama, or no interest in who you are (other than making sure that you are a real cam girl).
    i sent my info to that email did you get it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by exquizit View Post
    i sent my info to that email did you get it?
    yes i sent u a message on where u work already
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    Quote Originally Posted by h0ttie View Post
    yes i sent u a message on where u work already
    just responded, i was looking at my couples messages and not my single profile durrr

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    okk i invited u to the group now
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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    For those wondering why a mod isn't doing the verifying it's probably because we didn't come up with the idea. I have no problem with lending a hand to verifying. I'm pretty sure almost EVERYONE knows who I am by now or where to find me between my pics in the Pictures section, my website, my blog, my BDSM blog, my camming twitter, my BDSM twitter, my SM, AW, MFC and the fact that my name is right out in the open on this board and in my signature which links to all these accounts. Honestly if you don't feel comfortable verifying to me, someone that hides NOTHING about her camming I really don't know who you would feel comfortable with.
    aria i would LOVE if you could help me verify any of the girls that don't feel comfortable with verifying to me. :
    i just dont want any girl to not join because they don't want me to know who they are.
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    No worries, the group is HOTTIES BABY *hands in the air backing away slowly*. All I'm saying is that if people prefer a mod and HOTTIE were to ask a mod to lend a hand to help verify those people, I have no problem helping her out. That's ALL I meant. And since ppl were saying "but who the hell is this h0ttie chick we don't even know who she is!" Well lots of you guys know who I am and have even visited me in my cam rooms. THATS ALL! Loooooove you guys!

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    Quote Originally Posted by h0ttie View Post
    aria i would LOVE if you could help me verify any of the girls that don't feel comfortable with verifying to me. :
    i just dont want any girl to not join because they don't want me to know who they are.
    I think (no offense!) people would be more comfortable with Aria doing the verifications because she has a google-able online presence and is also a mod. It seems like most people don't know too much about h0ttie, myself included.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LAChloe View Post
    Here is the thing...and I am not trying to be rude at all. I KNOW Hottie is thorough (sp?) and that is why I joined this group. I feel genuinely safe with her doing the verification. I don't know who Hottie is. I have never asked her to verify herself to me (though I have taken a couple of guesses and been dead wrong ).
    I feel like since it is her group she needs to be the verifier and if anyone doesn't want her to verify to her than too bad for them. We all had to do it. It's only fair that everyone has to verify to her.
    If someone else is doing verification, I want to know about it. I am not trying to be a spoiled brat, but I really don't want to post in here unless I know that it is her that is doing the verification. So far she has been nothing but fair, discreet, and very thorough.
    I joined hottie's group...if i wanted someone else to verify I would have joined their group.
    Honestly, safety is my biggest concern here and I want there to be the same verification standards for every member.
    NOTHING against Aria at all.
    If more girls are willing to become verified if Aria verifies them, I think this is a good thing. I guess you're against the idea so you can keep trying to start bitch fights with well-known members on here.

    Anyways, there are a lot of well-known girls on here who have said they would join the group, but they don't feel comfortable sharing their identity with someone they don't know. I think Aria should do the verifying unless h0ttie feels comfortable verifying herself to anyone who asks. I don't need to know who h0ttie is, but I know there are girls' who would rather verify to someone who is open about who they are.

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