I will not be verifying. I like to keep my cam persona private. Besides I figure this is a clique and trend that happens every few months on SW that will soon die off.
i'm real and I know I am. I do not need to prove that to anyone. Thanks![]()
I am going to...just give me a couple days.
It's too much work to verify myself.
I don't want you to know who I am h0ttie.
Who cares if we are verified or not? Whats the big deal?
What is this verification thing? did I miss something?
I'm not really a cam girl..I am a creepy man




I will not be verifying. I like to keep my cam persona private. Besides I figure this is a clique and trend that happens every few months on SW that will soon die off.
i'm real and I know I am. I do not need to prove that to anyone. Thanks![]()



I should've gotten a free pass for using my camname as my SN hereI honestly don't give a damn about those who are or aren't verified, but as mentioned, it's nice to have a little more peace of mind, given that this is the bloody internet and all. It's just another way to not be completely surprised if another Alexa Dicarlo shows up. -shrug-
Personally, I like using variations of my names everywhere, so you can tell, anywhere I am, that I'm definitely -me-, it's just easier if everything's not webbed together. I'd give examples, but that would provide the middle of the web o3o
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Idk, I kind of just started paying attention to all of this verification stuff. I'm on the fence. Am I one of the few who doesn't have a seperate persona? I don't mind verifying if anyone is in doubt as to who I am, but on the other hand I rebel strongly at some of the insinuations that I'm reading. I enjoy the forum, reading...contributing where I can and I don't want people questioning my intentions or identity. On the other hand...I feel like who cares? I'm not a drama starter, I contribute when and if I can...is it really that serious? I guess it is...smh. I kind of think if you are going to ask as many girls as you can to verify, that you should take off the post requirements. Only my humble opinion, of course...and I probably don't have enough posts to verify.





Well personally I don't think it *is* that serious![]()
To me it's just a little extra thing that you can choose to participate in after you've got a lotta posts and want to have a more private place to post certain things that maybe we don't want a cam customer to see.
I still think the majority of the posts will be out in the open so I really don't think it's that big of a deal. I normally just hit "view new posts" and read what interests me.


I like the idea of Aria verifying based on the fact that I would be outing myself to someone identifiable. That just makes more sense and feels more comfy to me.



Well, I did try to verify but I do not meet the post requirements...=( Alot of people already know who I am and some don't. I do rarely post and just read and will talk through PM's to people if I want to say something. I usually post if I have something valuable to say or to joke around but when it gets to catty or negative here, I dip off in my lala land..lol
I still think verification is a good thing for just at least knowing that we are who we say we are....does not matter if you are a woman just interested and want to know or a Vet but just that you are not some guy or stalker was why and my only reason for liking the idea. =)
I personally do not care for having the post requirements but that is the rules for the group so it is what it is....lol
I do like the idea of one well know person or moderator who does not get caught up in lots of catty behavior being here to verify for those who may feel more comfortable with that but again that is just an opinion. ( That does not mean any thing towards Hottie, I did verify with her and she is cool, I mean so everyone can feel comfortable)
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Totally my feeling!! I dont start or get into the middle of anything, I post if I have something worthwhile (imo) to contribute, other times I might be a lil goofy or whatever if Im feeling giddy, but otherwise, Im pretty on track...
MUCH appreciated..seriously! Do like the point of view that its a bonus feature, which includes a private area.... And you know, with that in mind, I would *love* to be a part of something like that. Ive got all the credentials to prove I belong there
But to have read in the other thread that for some, they would feel little better about reading posts from those who are verified as opposed to those who chose not to...essentially creating a divide like that between who is in and who isn't just doesnt seem fair....



I chose to be verified because I wanted a place to eventually discuss certain topics without feeling like random lurkers are reading. I stay to myself for the most part, so I don't feel like that my decision "brands" me to a clique at all. I only post here when I see something that I can help with. I may be here for two hours, reading and catching up, but then not return for another month.
As of lately, I have wanted to bond with other cam models. I even mentioned a convention or mini-vacation type of meet and greet idea. Marleysade, for example, invited me into her Yahoo chat and I am grateful. Why? Because sometimes it sucks not having friends or co-workers to share my job related interests with.
I just wanted to share my personal reasons![]()


I would like to, when I have enough posts. Time to stop lurking!



" Be Positive, Patient, and Productive after all we are all Perfect Pretty Princesses" XOXO
No Negative Nancy or Drama Queens Please, Thanks xoxo
"I let my haters be my motivators..Now we can settle this like you got some class or we can get into some gangsta shit."
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And remember not to take this too too seriously.
I have ppl from here that I talk to on my personal messenger and skype. But they were able to earn that level of trust with me because they talked to me for ages and have a solid online presence. If a lesser known person from here asks me to add them they are more likely to get a yes from me if I know they are verified. So that when we have in depth fetish convos when they say they're new to BDSM and want to learn I know it's actually a new camgirl. That I can barely find her online because she has only been working on her first site for a month. Not because she is some creepy dude trying to get their rocks off on my messenger.




I will. I'm not glued to my computer, as I've been moving and stuff and hey, I think folks know where I stand on the whole verification topic. I'll read the how-to thread and get a hold of someone for it.
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Lol @ someone checking "I'm not really a cam girl..I am a creepy man." I wonder if they are serious...







Really I don't give a shit. Most of the stuff I share on here I would say to customers. Plus I have shared with you all my cam IDs a few times. I don't have to prove anything to anyone. Part of the reason why I like being a cam girl is that I feel like I don't have to be accountable to anyone. Personally this whole "verified" thing to me spells clique. I don't like what is going on in terms of critiquing other women who choose not to verify. To those who think that girls who don't verify have something to hide....lol go believe whatever the hell you want. At the end of the day it does not effect me.
My only concern with posting so much information on a public board is newbies and over saturating the market. But then again in some respects we are not all competing for the same dollar. For example a guy who is into thin black girls is not necessarily going to spend a ton of $$$ on a BBW white chic. Although he may get curious one day and give her a try!
Right now I am on a ban on streamate again. So I have some time on my hands to ponder these things.





Imma creepy man. Who's with me?



Just to add my lil two cents:
The private group is active and there are already some threads in there with really great, highly valuable info that won't be posted in public. There will be more to come![]()
So if you're a real live camgirl and haven't verified, get your ass in gear and get in there!
tessarubyxoxo: somehow i ended up on SW's homepage.... then i clicked on "forums." & i was in fucking narnia.
I want to say that I hope my last option in the poll of "I'm not really a camgirl, I am a creepy man" was not taking as a stab at anyone who doesn't want to verify. It's just a joke but maybe people are misunderstanding it?
Also the purpose of the group is not to make those that don't want to verify feel bad. Would I love everyone to verify?--yes. Am I mad at or do I think any less of those that choose not to?--no.
I have said this before but I will say it again. This thread was not started to say there was anything wrong with not verifying, but instead to hear your reasoning for your choice. Not in a "wtf is wrong with you, tell me why you don't want to verify" way. But in a nice way. And also to make sure that there were not girls who wanted to join but didn't like the verification process itself.
group hug for EVERYONE!! not just the verified girls
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Nah, it's just that having all our insider info in public is bad for business for 2 reasons:
- We're teaching our competition how to better compete with us. Too easy for people to just grab our valuable advice without contributing anything.
- Too easy for customers to read our insider info, and you can be sure they do. They don't need to be privy to all our hustle strategies, for example. Really bad for business.
I have a shitload of really good info to share that I just won't post in public. I don't mind sharing it with other camgirls who also share information (in fact I really like doing it), but I'm just not going to give away all my info that I've worked fucking hard to learn to the whole world. I know a lot of girls feel the same way. That's why the verified group came about. Nothing whatsoever to do with clique-ing up.
Obviously those who participate in a group are bound to get to know each other better and form closer bonds, but it's not like we think we're "better" or more "exclusive" or anything like that. It isn't personal.
Ya, there are different markets but there are limits to the spending in each market. There is only so much to go around, period. Oversaturation is an issue no matter what.
Last edited by SupaByoch; 08-17-2011 at 06:26 AM.
tessarubyxoxo: somehow i ended up on SW's homepage.... then i clicked on "forums." & i was in fucking narnia.



Let me start by saying, my biggest issue is the banners. THIS IS SINGLING PEOPLE OUT! If you are part of the "restricted group" why do you need the rest of us to visually see your really a cam girl? If we are so concerned about real vs creepers, we should ask that the site consider a verification process.
I have my twitter, blog, and FB in my signature. All have links to my camsites. If you still don't think I'm a real cam girl, stop by my room and ask me a question regarding SW (although with all the drama recently i haven't been reading). I don't block models from my cam room, so please come check me out, keep me company. However, If you step outta line I will report you. I don't play games.
I was once a no-name forum stalker who wasted hours of my days, weeks, and months searching and reading these forums to find helpful information. Now I try to contribute to topics and be as helpful as my knowledge will allow, but I mainly come here for the advise and helpful threads. Because I don't want to "verify" with someone that I am a real camgirl I am missing out on helpful forums? Whatever. I don't understand how this isn't clique-ish, or how ladies aren't supposed to feel less quality by not having a silly banner in their signature.
h0ttie, you are a great contributor to this forum! This post is in no way an attack on you or your mission. I'm just tired of reading numerous thread regarding the same mission. There doesn't need to be a slip in the forum. Post wisely and use discretion and no one will get too much information.
I <3 it! Can I please get one of the verified creeper banners?
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