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    Hi all! So ive been thinking about dancing for a long time and think its about time to give it a go. I have a pole at home and dance nearly everyday (i LOVE pole dancing!).. im still pretty nervous about giving lap dances however. i worked at a SC before as a waitress and have been in a few times as a customer.. ive received and seen some great lap dances but feel awkward when i try. i mean i can dance fairly well but i feel like i would run out of ideas.. any help ladies??

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    it's something that you have to learn by doing. I have about five moves that I do and just switch them up and find things to talk to the guys about. Honestly, that's the best advice that any of us can probably give. Just go in, work a shift and see what works for you. Don't do anything that you're uncomfortable with and make sure you know the rules.
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    Just relax be confident try dancing sexily at ome in front of the mirror you will be fine just try not to over think about it good luck xo

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    Also, remember the nerves are a temporary thing really - they go away very quickly. As soon as you get through the first few nights you'll be MUCH more confidant. Men don't really care about repetition and dancing ability to much either, so don't worry about repeating the same moves over and over; we ALL do that. I have about 5 'moves' that kinda float into each other that I do again and again. Never heard any complaints.

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    Thank you so much ladies... i honestly think i just keep over thinking everything.. i know i can dance pretty good i just need to try.. thank you again for the encouragement!

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    No problem!

    Over thinking is the worst. At some point you just gotta dive in and do it. Once you do, you'll wonder what took so long.



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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    Over thinking is the worst. At some point you just gotta dive in and do it. Once you do, you'll wonder what took so long.
    this is probably the best advice us newbies need. i had months of waiting around where i had nuthin to do but think abt it way too much. but as soon as u go into the club that all went out the window, there rly is no way to learn except by doing it.

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    It's not rocket science honey. You'll get comfortable after you do them for awhile. You'll find you don't need that many "moves" anyway. Deep breath. If you can be fine on stage you can be fine anywhere.
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    i totally agree with Cammi- i just have too much time to think about it. i know its not as hard as im thinking..And its great to just have encouragement from fellow dancers.. totally motivates me!! so thanks again ill let yall know how it goes!!

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    So just to let everyone know.. i went in and got hired. i start this coming tuesday!! soo glad i actually gave it a try! thanks for the support ladies!!

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    Congratulations! Fingers crossed your first shift goes well, let us know!

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    I've been a hesitant little scaredy cat in getting started at ALL! I've got a trial this Friday though!! Fingers crossed

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    thanks sooo much! really all the encouragement and advice from you ladies goes a LONG way. thanks again for helping out all us newbies!! ill be sure to let yall know how it goes tomorrow!!

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    I was nervours too the first times. For me having bouncers and security around makes me feel better.

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