Ok so last time I worked I had one of my boyfriends coworkers come in. I didnt know that he worked with my boyfriend until after the fact. He came in tipped me onstage and said he wanted some dances after I got off. He looked pretty familiar but I just assumed that I had seen him in the club before. I went and danced for him and he spent a pretty decent amount ($300) and asked about a VIP. I dont go to the VIP rooms so I turned him down. I asked him during the dances why he looked so familiar. I even asked him if he knew my boyfriend. He said no.
Anyway, after the dances I went outside to smoke and he pointed out my car. I asked how he recognized my car and he changed the story and said he saw me come see my boyfriend at work. I told him not to mention me dancing for him and he said he wouldnt. After thinking about it though I decided to tell my boyfriend anyway which in hindsight I think I should have just kept quit about it. I told him because I thought maybe he was sending people in to check on me.
His coworkers and friends know I dance because he would bring them in when he would come see me. He just never brought this particular guy before.
Now he is freaking out because he thinks all the guys that work with him are laughing behind his back and trying to get with me. He says that he will walk into the room when they are talking and everyone will go quiet. He isnt sure he can deal with me dancing anymore. He was furious and hurt when I told him.
I have no idea what I can do to make him feel better and let him know that Im only for him and that its just a job. Im not going to quit dancing for at least another year because I pay most of the bills. Im not really open to finding a new club to dance at just because I have established so many regulars at my club and rely on them. I hardly ever go up to tables unless Im asked for a dance.
Any advice on how to make him feel any better? Id like to get guys perspectives on this as well.



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