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    Default Re: the infamous wanna dance line

    ..grinding is legal in Michigan.
    ..full nudity is legal in Michigan when you don't serve alcohol, which my club doesn't.

    Breast touching is not considered an extra. Some clubs allow it, some don't. There is no statistic that says how many dancers allow it and how many don't. If the majority of dancers allow breast touching then it is not an extra, it's normal.

    $20 air dances don't sell in Detroit Metro, unfortunately. Air dances are only required in the city of Detroit. I work in Ypsilanti, and contact is legal, there is no distance specification. The customer is not supposed to touch my breasts or butt. Since it is standard at our club to give "titty kisses" at the tip rail and has been for two decades I can say that 100% of the girls at my club are "violating" the law.
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    Reminder Re: the infamous wanna dance line

    If the majority of dancers allow breast touching then it is not an extra, it's normal.
    Sorry I do not consider prostitution in strip clubs to be the norm. Just because everyone is doing it doesn't make it acceptable.

    Mob rule = everyone is doing it so you have to do it too.

    Obviously it happens. Some girls could care less and other girls wish it would stop.

    My whole point from the very beginning is:

    Why sell yourself short.

    $40 in any state for what you're offering is not enough.

    You may be charging more than other girls but it's still not by much.

    Most girls anywhere do not want guys touching their boobs.

    So even to say "$300-500 minimum and you can touch my boobs" is still not something most girls would want to do even at a premium price.

    Not I.

    What I like about Stripper Web is that there is a lot of good advice on how to make money without settling for less and doing more than what is acceptable.

    So I don't think the advice you're offering is not legal (or acceptable in general) in most places. I would never tell someone "just let a guy touch your boobs and you'll make money". One that's not the only way to make money. Two it's not respectable, and three it's normally not legal.

    Trust me I know all about dirty dancing. In my state there are no distance laws but flashing and grinding are considered low level offenses that you can get ticketed for.

    Anything beyond that is considered prostitution.

    Illegal touching is in conjunction with offering and accepting and prostitution which are felonies in most places.

    In most places there is no such thing as a legal dance. Prostitution is on a state by state basis but it's still pretty much the same. Also you have to consider if law enforcement cares or not.

    At least charge for it.

    $40 a pop versus $400 minimum.

    This sends the wrong message to customers.




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    Default Re: the infamous wanna dance line

    ..$400 to touch my boobs.

    Do you know how much full service costs...even in areas outside of Detroit?

    No one is going to pay $400 to just touch my boobs. If they do in your area then great. Anyway, read my other post in the other thread.

    I admitted it! I'm a dirty extras girl so there, do you feel better? I am totally fine with what I do so your opinion matters none. I am done discussing this.
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    Default Re: the infamous wanna dance line

    It's the same where I'm at:

    Full service starts at $75 an hour on Backpage.

    I never said a customer could touch my boobs for $400.

    I said I would think about it.

    I admitted it! I'm a dirty extras girl so there, do you feel better?
    Yes I am. As long as you charge for it no one cares because guys will not expect it from every dancer.

    Have guys touched my boobs? Yes.

    But it's not the basis of my game and like I said:

    1%.

    The reason that you ask for an exorbitant amount of money upfront is to discourage that type of behavior.

    Don't treat paupers like royalty.
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    Default Re: the infamous wanna dance line

    Wanna dance doesn't work if you just plop next to a guy n make some small talk n then throw out wanna dance. It seems forced n fake and guys that have done this for a while are often annoyed by it. Plus time wasters prey on this behavior. But if you captivate them enough from the start it is a natural progression for them to want to follow you for a dance. And then you can figure out what they're turned on by and tailor the dances to him n keep him there for as long as possible. If you go up to a guy n his eyes light up as long as you keep it sexy n mysterious his money is practically already yours. Ask him a relevant and engaging question requiring short answer (did you come from work? how he likes cocktail, etc) or compliment him on something at least somewhat genuine. Let him eat it up, act interested n put in some personal commentary if applicable, then throw in the lets go/ ready for dance. He may even beat you to it with this approach. If he looks disinterested, doesn't make eye contact, or grabs his drink he will probably not spend but I like to bark out "wanna dance.. ok I'll be back" bc as I see it it's just crazy to go to the club n not want dances. N if they are just shy and awkward at least they know we expect to dance for them so they'll spend on somebody. If your club is primarily champagne then this approach is hard to work bc chances are the customer already knows girls will sit n drink with them for long periods of time n they expect that even if they aren't big spenders.

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    Default Re: the infamous wanna dance line

    Quote Originally Posted by Laurisa View Post
    Telling a customer he can touch my boobs is solicitation? Depends on the local laws. In Michigan, it is considered lewd conduct but it is the norm in my club and all surrounding areas......There is a difference between prostitution and lewd conduct.
    Ah. I asked because I've worked in areas where things like "I give a better dance for more $$" qualify... Basically anything implying you will do anything addition for extra money = solicitation.
    Laws are different everywhere I guess. Was just curious.
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    Default Re: the infamous wanna dance line

    This thread seems to have digressed a little... I'd love to join in but I'm an English girl and we don't do touching at all in Liverpool or we'd get fired.
    As for the 'wanna dance?' line, I had no idea that it was so frowned upon. I use this on almost every guy - and the ones I don't use it on are the ones that ask me. I'd say I'm one of the club's top earners if not the top earner.... We don't usually compare and we're not ever told but sometimes you overhear girls saying how many dances they've done, which is how I've come to that conclusion. Anyway.
    As DesuvsDeath mentioned, I think it works because it's the norm for my club, and indeed my city.
    I tend to go around to every guy and say it, sometimes I approach the group and ask the whole group. Normally this means that one who has had his eye on me but was too nervous to approach jumps up a bit excitedly and is ready to go. Of course sometimes no one wants a dance, but I just continue asking the rest of the club. Sometimes I will even go back and ask again, and they'll take it. Occasionally guys will try to engage me in conversation, in which case I will lean in and rest my hand on their leg seductively and answer their questions which pretty much closes the deal. There aren't THAT many guys who ask me to sit and talk. I had one the other day ask and I said no. I lost the opportunity to MAYBE make money with that guy, but by refusing to talk to him I got a dance straight away with the next guy I asked, who tipped as well. I hate talking to them when there are other guys in the club because I feel like I'm wasting time, time I could be potentially spending dancing for someone who's gonna pay me, and talking is not a way to secure a dance for me. It might work for other girls. When I started out I'd spend a LOT of time talking to guys, and soooo frequently they would say 'I don't actually want a dance' after I'd sat with them for 10 minutes, no matter how sexy the chat had been. Talkers are lonely timewasters.

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    Default Re: the infamous wanna dance line

    Guys fondle the shit out of my tits for $20/song.

    I guess I'm a dirty, filthy extras girl too.

    Oh well. Imma laugh to the fucking bank.



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    Default Re: the infamous wanna dance line

    One way I get around the tittie touching is whispering "I'm a dirty little whore and I love getting my ass spanked" (My ass is so fucking big I don't even notice it) Also, I tell customers I just got out of jail and my nipple piercings are fresh, so please be careful or not touch at all.

    I would rather get my ass spanked than my tits touched by someone.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    lol "I just got out of jail"

    To get them to not even try to touch my pussy this is what I say:

    "Hey, to be honest I'm a pretty laid back girl, but I almost got fired two weeks ago because I broke a guy's pinky finger when I reacted to him grabbing my pussy. Can we try to keep things friendly in here so I don't lose my job? Management is watching me!"

    They always nod like they're in on some big secret. Not surprisingly they don't try to touch my pussy.

    I like the get out of jail one.

    Back when I first started I sprayed a guy in the face with my breast milk because he licked my tit. I had quit breastfeeding a few weeks before I started, but I still made plenty of milk. The look on his face was priceless.
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