Ok so I met this dude who was interested in a private dance, younger black guy. I'm new to this so I barely remembered to get his last name and the reverse phone lookup I did didn't return any names. So I say fuck it and still go to meet him midday, he says were going to a "corporate spot" where his company puts people up. Ok without giving too much away it's a major Hollywood film/music/ent company. Um, probably the biggest. Anyway 2x he wanted me to just ride with him (I didn't) and 2x the address was hard to see so I starting punking out bcuz he kept being on the phone when I was still trying to get a business card or SOMETHING legit looking b4 we went to the room.
He's a little distraught/bewildered by my 180 but oh well buddy, I work for ME. I was even getting suspect he wasn't really on the phone but was just trying to control the flow of time. Plus I noticed his iPhone was all smashed up.
So I get home and do a better search? Guess who's picture shows up with a different name???A ton of other professional websites come up under this new name, and yes he is married. I guess he IS a top exec but he didn't want me to really know that! Damnit!
Told him what I found and confirmed that he gave me a fake name to start and did not want to "let me in" quite yet.
So whatever we are turned off now but this was the closest call I e er want to have. How do you stress to guys that you don't care about their happy home and professional life? I only want you when you're ready to party but I have to know you are who you say you are...even a "top exec" could rape and beat you but what recourse do I have with a fake name? My safety is always going to be more important that someone's paranoia that I'm going to mess with their personal life or career!!



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