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    Duh Private dance FAIL slash WINz?

    Ok so I met this dude who was interested in a private dance, younger black guy. I'm new to this so I barely remembered to get his last name and the reverse phone lookup I did didn't return any names. So I say fuck it and still go to meet him midday, he says were going to a "corporate spot" where his company puts people up. Ok without giving too much away it's a major Hollywood film/music/ent company. Um, probably the biggest. Anyway 2x he wanted me to just ride with him (I didn't) and 2x the address was hard to see so I starting punking out bcuz he kept being on the phone when I was still trying to get a business card or SOMETHING legit looking b4 we went to the room.
    He's a little distraught/bewildered by my 180 but oh well buddy, I work for ME. I was even getting suspect he wasn't really on the phone but was just trying to control the flow of time. Plus I noticed his iPhone was all smashed up.

    So I get home and do a better search? Guess who's picture shows up with a different name???A ton of other professional websites come up under this new name, and yes he is married. I guess he IS a top exec but he didn't want me to really know that! Damnit!

    Told him what I found and confirmed that he gave me a fake name to start and did not want to "let me in" quite yet.

    So whatever we are turned off now but this was the closest call I e er want to have. How do you stress to guys that you don't care about their happy home and professional life? I only want you when you're ready to party but I have to know you are who you say you are...even a "top exec" could rape and beat you but what recourse do I have with a fake name? My safety is always going to be more important that someone's paranoia that I'm going to mess with their personal life or career!!

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    He picked such a goofy fake name too, with the same initials as his real one but more exotic sounding lol

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    Default Re: Private dance FAIL slash WINz?

    It's just like dealing with guys in the club. I doubt you can really stress those points anymore than you already have. Either they are willing to see your point of view or they will be douchebags. Anytime a guy won't submit his honest info consider him a bullet to dodge.
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    Default Re: Private dance FAIL slash WINz?

    My personal experience is when a guy won't give you his real name he's married. Now in the clubs this doesn't matter because that's where it should stay. Once it goes beyond that gives me bad vibes.

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    Yeah he bugged me on multiple levels, just sucks he actually IS a millionaire but my honest gut feelings led me away. Oh well. I decided not to do dances like that anyway. Just off the cuff agreeing to meet. Or if I ever did again it'd be for someone special!

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