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    So one of my favorite dancers recently left the establishment where she had been dancing. She and I got along great and her private dances were nothing short of amazing. I went a couple of months without visiting and when I returned she was gone. The other dancers didn't really remember her, and they told me that I should call up and find out if she still works there. So I did, and whoever answers the phone said that she left, and she's "probably working at some other club."

    This may be an obvious question, but is there any way to figure out where she went aside from visiting every other club in town? That could be annoying and expensive. I thought about calling the other clubs, but I only know her stage name from the last place, and she may be using a different stage name now for all I know. I'm just wondering if it's possible that the management of the first club really knows where she went, but they don't want to send me to a competitor.

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    I doubt her original management knows where she went. A lot of girls keep their stage names between clubs, so it wouldn't hurt to call and ask the other clubs. Be prepared for the possibility of them saying yes, only to find out that it's a different girl with the same stage name. You might have some luck posting on TUSCL. There's also CERB if you're in Canada. I wouldn't expect much though, sorry to break it to you. :/

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    You are probably out of luck unless you post on sites like stripclublist. Here's the problem: 1)Many girls change names and 2)Many names are very common. Unless she had a very uncommon name this could be tricky.

    Also, many clubs will tell you she's working just to get you to come in. There's also the possibility she retired from dancing as well.

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    or she doesn't want to be found.
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    Honestly if she wanted you to know where she was, she would've told you. Who knows what happened or why she might've left. This is really the very reason you guys don't get any personal info about us. Sometimes we just don't want to be found. Find a new fav. I'm sure there are other girls who will catch your interest and give amazing dances too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    Honestly if she wanted you to know where she was, she would've told you. Who knows what happened or why she might've left. This is really the very reason you guys don't get any personal info about us. Sometimes we just don't want to be found. Find a new fav. I'm sure there are other girls who will catch your interest and give amazing dances too.
    Well, like I said, I hadn't been there in a couple of months, so it's possible that she made the decision to move to a new club in that period of time. She couldn't have told me about it since I wasn't there. And is she really going to be opposed to me tracking her down so that I can spend money on her?

    Trust me, I know this is "strictly business." I'm not some dumb dude who thinks that the dancer has fallen in love with me or anything. I just really liked those dances. LOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KeithDoxen View Post
    Well, like I said, I hadn't been there in a couple of months, so it's possible that she made the decision to move to a new club in that period of time. She couldn't have told me about it since I wasn't there. And is she really going to be opposed to me tracking her down so that I can spend money on her?
    Trust me, I know this is "strictly business." I'm not some dumb dude who thinks that the dancer has fallen in love with me or anything. I just really liked those dances. LOL.
    She may be. Anythings possible, that's the point. Tracking her down could make you into a total stalker in her eyes. You don't know the situation.
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    Try asking around on TUSCL or Strip Club List.com. No guarantees you will find her and, as others have said, she may not want to be found. In any event, a new fav may be only as faraway as your next visit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    If you were a regular of hers, I'm surprised that she didn't take your phone number so that she could let you know when/where she's working. Many dancer keep separate cell accounts just for their customers....usually the ones spending lotsa $$$.
    But not all dancers do that. Business cards get makeup spilled on them and have to be thrown away, or the girl and the regular seem to get together and pretty standard intervals. Or, the girl doesn't much care for regulars but is always happy to see them.

    If you want to know, you can check stripclub list, or call around a few other local clubs. But don't expect much. I would have been very happy to see some of my favorite customers when I moved clubs and didn't bother keeping in touch. If you hadn't seen her in a few months, I am not reading stalker behavior. If you see her and shes happy to see you, cool. If not, find the next.....

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    It could go either way if you found her. There are some guys from my old club that I wouldn't mind walking into my new club. But there are a lot of guys that I would be loathe to see again. You don't know her reason for changing clubs or if she even did change clubs. She could have just quit entirely. Maybe she switched for better money, a better atmosphere, or maybe she was trying to recreate her stripping persona and start fresh and doesn't want to see anyone from the old club again. I highly doubt the management knows where she went - it's not common practice for them to ask or even care.

    You could call the other clubs and ask, but like others have said, she could have changed her stage name or another girl at the club could have the same name. But visiting every club every night of the week to suss out if and when she's there, you're right, would be a ridiculous time and money waste. There's also the possibility, like I said, that she could not even be at any of these clubs - she could have retired from dancing entirely or she could be taking a break. And even if you do find her, you don't know what her reaction could be. If you really want to spend your money on her I'd call the clubs. But if they all say no, then give her up for a lost cause and find a new fav.

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    I think if someone gave out where Im at or what Im doing now to a customer who wasnt say in good with me meaning I would have let them know I would probably become the amylynne of my dark past - which is never a good thing!

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    You should probably just let her go and find your next great gal.

    First, your odds of finding her are low. Dancers, particularly those that work in larger urban areas, are notoriously nomadic and will often change clubs AND stagenames. They also experience a high burnout rate, so it is very possible that she is not dancing anywhere at all at the moment.

    Second, even if you did manage to find her she might not welcome the experience. You might come off as stalkerish and/or she may have bad memories of the old club that she would like to forget.

    Net-net, you'd probably be better off just finding another girl to fall in lust with.

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    This is exactly what I am working on! Great minds think alike... My app would solve this problem!!!

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