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    ive been dancing for 3 days now and i finally feel comfortable and confident with my stage shows, which means its time to focus on my hustle. because, being perfectly honest, its terrible.

    to give a bit of background on myself, ive never been in a relationship. ive never even been on a date. so beyond flirting with guys in clubs, i pretty much have zero experience with talking to guys on this kind of level. which means that at the moment, im talking to them the same way id talk to anyone i was meeting for the first time. and obviously, that aint gonna cut it. i need to make it special, i need to make it sexy, i need to make them believe that dancing for them will be the highlight of my nite.

    has anyone got any tips on how to keep myself out of the friend zone?

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    ooze sex. Be like Jessica Rabbit. Be uber-sexy. make gentle physical contact, such as a lingering hand shake, or a hand on the knee. Speak slowly, not too high pitched, slightly breathy like you just had awesome sex or a great orgasm. And flirt, a lot.

    When you walk, don't lumber along but more gentle and slowly. There is a girl in my club that lumbers and I just want to shake her and teach her how to walk. It's sad...

    Keep eye contact, and give them your full attention. Keep the conversation more on them than yourself.

    hope that helps a bit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by papillonluvr View Post
    ooze sex. Be like Jessica Rabbit. Be uber-sexy. make gentle physical contact, such as a lingering hand shake, or a hand on the knee. Speak slowly, not too high pitched, slightly breathy like you just had awesome sex or a great orgasm. And flirt, a lot.
    this is great thx! ive been worrying so much abt what i say that i havnt thought abt how i say it

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    Something I see a lot of new girls in my club doing is talking for WAY TOO LONG. Seriously, ten minutes is MORE than enough; if I sit with someone for more than 10 minutes (or about 3 songs in my club), they're paying me.

    What tends to happen is that the longer you sit, the more you feel that you know that person and can drop your stripper persona. Never do this. When I walk in the door, I'm Jolie, and she's TOTALLY different from who I am OTC.

    On that note, make sure you keep the conversation light. Don't talk about your classes or your family; talk about how much fun you had at a bar last weekend or that time you made out with your best friend (even if these things didn't happen!). These guys don't come to the club to have intelligent conversation; they come to relax and escape reality.

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    Ugh, the dreaded friend zone! You def don't want to be the girl who warms the custy up with conversation before he's ready to buy a VIP with someone else. Stay out of the friend zone by being the best sexpot you can. Envision yourself as whoever you think is tremendously sexy. Try to always stay in character with customers because the more you do it, the more it starts to become natural.

    Appeal to their senses. It's the fastest way to arouse the little brain, which in turn switches off the big brain - smell amazing, touch their neck, talk close to their ear, speak slowly, and keep good eye contact. You may feel awkward at first but remember that you felt awkward learning how to walk too. Almost without exception everything gets easier the more you do it.


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    Try to build up to the sale from the beginning. Small talk can be sexy. Ask him what he does for a living - then turn it into something sexy about you. He works in an office? Tell him you've always been curious about what that's like, that you've always had a fantasy about working in an office and wearing a tight pencil skirt and unbuttoned blouse to work, with sexy lingerie underneath that only you knew about...
    Does he travel a lot? Ask him which country has the most beautiful girls.
    Does he prefer summer or winter? Talk about how great it feels to relax on a beach with a cocktail in hand wearing nothing but a skimpy bikini. Or how much you enjoy stripping down and hopping in a hot tub when there is snow all around.
    Create a mental picture in his mind and he'll want to see the real deal.

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    Kitinboots - great example of ABC. Always be closing!


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