I just discovered this site today and I hope that the ladies here don't mind that I'm asking so many questions. It's just that I've long been a casual customer at strip clubs and there have been certain incidents that have sort of stuck in my mind over the years. I can't really get an honest answer at the clubs about any of this, because the girls there are selling a product essentially, and so they don't have any interest in showing their cards. But since this community is populated by lades in the trade, perhaps some of you can shed some light on these topics.
Here are three incidents that took place during visits to strip clubs that I've never quite been able to figure out.
1) Every so often I'll be at a strip club, and a girl that I'm eyeing simply won't come over to me. I won't be with another girl at the time or anything, and the girl that I'm trying to attract will be alone as well. I'm not saying I'm Brad Pitt. I'm probably more of an average looking guy. So I was wondering if some girls are just sort of waiting around for a hot guy to show up, or if the girl is just sizing me up as someone who won't spend a lot of money. Or is she just shy? I know any of these could be possible, but I figured that other strippers may see this a lot and might be able to analyze it in a way that I cannot.
2) At two different clubs, one in Las Vegas of all places, I received a very special kind of lap dance. This dance consisted of the stripper taking me to the private dance area, positioning me on the couch so that I'm actually laying flat on my back, and then mounting me and grinding against me for the entire song. Essentially it was like several minutes of dry humping. I'm pretty sure that both of these girls were trying to get me off, as both wanted to "keep going" for another song, knowing full well what was going to happen if they did. Also, in the Vegas club, while I stopped before any mess was made, one of the guys I went to the club with got a dance from the same girl and he kept going until he got the happy ending that he wanted. So I guess my question is whether this sort of stuff is frowned upon by most strippers. I don't see a lot of strippers doing this. Like I said, only two so far, and I've been to a lot of clubs. Does this fall into the "extras" category that most girls don't think very highly of?
3) Okay, this is the one that really confuses me. This one girl, who I've only seen once, gave me a private dance and after it was over she kissed me on the lips. In fact, she kissed me twice, once after the dance and once after I tipped her. I was kind of shocked because from everything I've heard even a lot of escorts have a "no kissing" policy, because kissing is so intimate and also for health reasons. Is this fairly rare? Should I assume that this girl was kissing every guy who bought a dance from her?



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I think this is nasty, but I guess it's common in some places. I won't try to figure out why this is becoming a thing, but... yeah... it's out there.


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